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re: Doing well financially, but still living paycheck to paycheck

Posted on 6/18/25 at 7:28 am to
Posted by I Love Bama
Alabama
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 7:28 am to
No advice to you on the budget, but I use Monarch Money to track my spending.

Also, someone else mentioned YNAB and that is pretty good as well.
This post was edited on 6/18/25 at 7:29 am
Posted by lil 7thward
ATL
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 9:31 am to
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if you are automatically investing a portion you are not living paycheck to paycheck IMO

The OP’s version of paycheck to paycheck is real. The rising costs of insurance, food, etc is taking away extra income making decent earning Americans feel more poor.
Posted by TheOcean
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Member since Aug 2004
45194 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 9:46 am to
OP tough to give any advice without actual numbers
Posted by NOLALGD
Member since May 2014
2695 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 10:22 am to
1) You're fine.

2) You, like our household, struggles to nail down a realistic monthly budget. Its not bad problem, but we are working on being more accurate in tracking our spending.
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
21423 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 12:21 pm to
envelopes are the easiest way to quickly and accurately track your budget and spending.
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 6/18/25 at 12:35 pm to
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The OP’s version of paycheck to paycheck is real. The rising costs of insurance, food, etc is taking away extra income making decent earning Americans feel more poor.


The OP is just adhering to the budget. That is the whole point of a budget. You get to do whatever you want with whatever is left over at the end of the month. If you dont want to spend that then just direct deposit the required amount out of each paycheck into a separate account that isn't regularly monitored so it is out of sight and out of mind.
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
25905 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 1:00 pm to
quote:

The OP’s version of paycheck to paycheck is real. The rising costs of insurance, food, etc is taking away extra income making decent earning Americans feel more poor.


Paycheck to paycheck means if you don’t get paid, you can’t pay your bills/survive. OP has savings etc.

Posted by lil 7thward
ATL
Member since Jan 2012
2717 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 1:26 pm to
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Paycheck to paycheck means if you don’t get paid, you can’t pay your bills/survive. OP has savings etc.

We know what the definition means. We are telling you what it feels like mentally for the people who are supposed to be considered middle class.
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
25905 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 1:31 pm to
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We know what the definition means. We are telling you what it feels like mentally for the people who are supposed to be considered middle class.


I’ve been both. I have been where if I didn’t get money that day, I couldn’t eat.

I’m currently where i always feel “broke” despite earning more than 85-90% of Americans. But the reality is I’m not broke, I just don’t want to touch my substantial savings so I act broke until next payday.

The truth is they aren’t the same, the first is truly a scary place to be..the second is the mindset that prevents actually living paycheck to paycheck
Posted by Bard
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Member since Oct 2008
57986 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 3:13 pm to
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A good chunk of each paycheck is auto diverted to investments and savings. To date I’ve paid off about 4/5s of my nuisance debt. Only a little bit more to go before being debt free with exception of mortgage. I pay all my regular bills on time.


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But I still find myself living paycheck to paycheck.


How much do you bring home each month (after taxes)?
How much is your mortgage each month? How much is left?
How much "nuisance debt" do you have and what is that payment per month?
After paying your debt(s), mortgage, food and utilities, how much do you have left?
What percent of your income are you diverting to investment and what percentage to savings?
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
100695 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 3:54 pm to
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I’m just wondering if there is a tool or some program I’m not aware of that can help me track my leftover money???



It’s called a ledger
Posted by Craft
Member since Oct 2019
1013 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:17 pm to
Lmao Gerry you need a reality check if you think that’s paycheck to paycheck
Posted by AkronTiger
Rubber City
Member since May 2021
2736 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 4:50 pm to
quote:

if you are automatically investing a portion you are not living paycheck to paycheck IMO



This! OP, be encouraged that you're investing what you are capable of.
Posted by IbalLSUfaninVA
Alexandria
Member since Jul 2008
3537 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 6:28 pm to
I got a second job for a year with not one day off to pay all debts except mortgage. That put me in a good position. It’s was hard but I was in my thirties so couldn’t do it.
Posted by Rize
Spring Texas
Member since Sep 2011
18765 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 6:44 pm to
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Mid forties. Began studying personal finance ten years ago with heavy reading and listening to audiobooks. I’ve done well. A good chunk of each paycheck is auto diverted to investments and savings. To date I’ve paid off about 4/5s of my nuisance debt. Only a little bit more to go before being debt free with exception of mortgage. I pay all my regular bills on time. My income has double since I was 35. But I still find myself living paycheck to paycheck. After all of the above are paid for in each pay period, I blow through what is leftover pretty quickly. I’ve been tracking how much I spend on groceries, gas, home improvement supplies, etc. unexpecteds come up then I find myself giving myself a pay day loan from a credit card or something. I always pay myself back but I’m just wondering if there is a tool or some program I’m not aware of that can help me track my leftover money??? None of the books I have read or listened to focus on this topic. Any suggestions are appreciated


I just paused my brokerage account auto buys to build up a little cash faster for some things I’m looking to buy for my house and build back my emergency fund faster. Will continue the auto investing once I have a little more in my HYSA.
Posted by TorchtheFlyingTiger
1st coast
Member since Jan 2008
2920 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 6:45 pm to
Whats the rate on this "nuisance debt"? Your income doubled yet still letting debt linger. Unless it's very low interest you probably have a spending problem. Perhaps let your lifestyle increase along w paycheck before making up for past over spending.
This post was edited on 6/18/25 at 10:03 pm
Posted by lsuconnman
Baton rouge
Member since Feb 2007
4498 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 8:08 pm to
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We know what the definition means. We are telling you what it feels like mentally for the people who are supposed to be considered middle class.


I’m struggling with this one. If it was posted on the OT I’d think he was trolling.

Doing well financially

To date I’ve paid off about 4/5s of my nuisance debt.

Only a little bit more to go before being debt free with exception of mortgage.

…but still living paycheck to paycheck.

This feels like a “fixed income” variant thread.

Posted by meAnon
Member since Feb 2021
73 posts
Posted on 6/19/25 at 8:33 am to
Our household income is pretty healthy - but we still have absolutely set amounts for personal spending and groceries/household. Sometimes near the end of the month, we have moments that we feel a little squeezed, but we are fully aware that we likely made an impulse decision somewhere along the way. Either way, we don't dip into savings. We don't use a credit card to get us by. I reckon that could feel a little 'paycheck to paycheck' for this context.
Posted by rowbear1922
Houston, TX
Member since Oct 2008
15759 posts
Posted on 6/19/25 at 8:40 am to
By this thinking, I’m living paycheck to paycheck too.

I save more than I spend but I live on a budget to not exceed per month
Posted by Stamps74
Member since Nov 2017
1374 posts
Posted on 6/19/25 at 8:57 am to
I’m slowly building up cash. I know I should allocate those funds to other things like debt or other type investments , but mentally I want to see my cash balance rise.
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