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re: Buddy found his biological father who raped his mother, what to do?

Posted on 3/23/21 at 6:44 am to
Posted by ccomeaux
LA
Member since Jan 2010
8184 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 6:44 am to
Tell your buddy it’s not worth the trouble. He’s doing fine without it, maintain that course.
These things can go horribly wrong, just avoid it
Posted by ghols2112
BR
Member since Oct 2007
273 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 6:53 am to
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90913 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:00 am to
Guy (father) sounds like an a-hole that would probably only cause him more pain.

Your friend likely turned out better than he would have had he known the guy. He should let it go and enjoy his successful life without bringing unnecessary drama into it. The dad now knows what his name is and how to contact him, so if he changes his heart he can reach out to your friend.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101930 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:06 am to
quote:

Buddy's wondering what his next step should be?


"Have a nice life, if you ever need a kidney, don't call."
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38836 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:07 am to
Is it just me for judging the biological dad for having facebook?

Lol that's not a "man" you want in your life.
Posted by goofball
Member since Mar 2015
16901 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:07 am to
Leave it in the past.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99300 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:08 am to
quote:

My buddy's doing well, couple cars, married house on the lake, a few daughters, boat, season ticket holder, etc... So he responded to the guy, saying..."I'm not looking for anything from you, I don't need money or anything, I just want to find out the truth. I don't need to have a relationship."

So the guy responded "then why are you looking for your father if you're not looking for a relationship, again don't message me." Which he then blocked him on FB.


100% guarantee if your buddy continues to push the issue and ol’ boy finds out your buddy is well off he’ll become a manipulative little leech that he’ll feel obligated to “take care of”.

He’s a POS. Let it go.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15368 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:12 am to
Call rocko and moose. Go pay this guy a visit. He needs to be taxed.
Posted by Zarkinletch416
Deep in the Heart of Texas
Member since Jan 2020
8421 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:13 am to
quote:

Walk away. Nothing good comes from this.


I agree. Leave it alone. You're successful and happy.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11261 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:18 am to
He’s never going to get closure or an apology from this guy. Did he have a decent father figure in his life? His efforts would be better spent expressing gratitude to that guy. Or by having a strong relationship with his FIL.
Posted by 67Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2009
847 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:18 am to
Well this dude is probably crapping on himself. He probably has a family and is afraid he is about to be unmasked. I say unmask this turd.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65943 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:46 am to
quote:

I wish OweO weren’t banned. He’d know what to do.
We still have Peej.

Whatever he suggests or predicts, do or bet on the opposite.
Posted by 21JumpStreet
Member since Jul 2012
14656 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:48 am to
Move on
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
7021 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:52 am to
He knows what he should do !
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
12528 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 7:57 am to
If he was trying to find out what kind of man this guy was, he knows now that he’s an a-hole. Time to accept that and move on with his life.
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
58395 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 8:05 am to
I like another posters idea of just sending him a frick ton of Father’s Day cards every year.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47540 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 8:07 am to
quote:

3. File charges with the police and force the guy to address his past?


4. Make sure his daughters don't become drunken whores like his mom.
This post was edited on 3/23/21 at 8:09 am
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
54053 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 8:13 am to
Having a biological father who disappeared from my life when I was 7, I’d say to leave it alone. The guy is a complete stranger. It would only add unneeded drama to your life, imo.
Posted by jdd48
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
22151 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 8:20 am to
Go on with his life and let sleeping dogs lie.
Posted by Eat Your Crow
caught beneath the landslide
Member since May 2017
9190 posts
Posted on 3/23/21 at 8:25 am to
quote:

"I remember her, but never slept with her, don't reach out to me again. I'm not your father."

Sounds like an episode of Maury.
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