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Measure of Wealth and Success

Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:22 pm
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
15890 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:22 pm
The measure of wealth and success is relative and what you make of it.

How many people here consider themselves successful and/or wealthy...by your own definition?

I’ve always thought success is being the best at what is the most important to you. My relationships in life are the most important thing to me and I try to be the best at that. I’ve done well so I think I’m successful.

Wealth is a different story. Definition of wealth to me is the ability to live the life you want for the rest of your life. I’m not there yet. I’m living my best life but can’t say it will last forever.

What says you?
Posted by Landmass
Member since Jun 2013
18189 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:24 pm to
Happiness is the only success measure worth caring about. If you are wealthy and miserable, you failed.
Posted by Baws
Member since Jan 2020
520 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:26 pm to
Life is a series of competitions.

You either win or lose.

Don’t be a loser.
Posted by James11111
Walnut Creek
Member since Jul 2020
4688 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:26 pm to
How much bitcoin you have.
This post was edited on 1/22/21 at 10:27 pm
Posted by TulaneUVA
Member since Jun 2005
25922 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:27 pm to
I came from a family of 5, household income of <$50k, and immigrant family. My measure of success is doing better for myself and my family than my upbringing. Bottom line.

My parent did the best they could. Saved for college to help a little. Paid for every extracurricular they could. Couldn’t have asked for better. But hey, I had to go to public school and borrow for college.

Key is extracting the hunger and work ethic in my children so that I’m not raising some sissy shits who don’t appreciate what they have. There’s a balance
This post was edited on 1/22/21 at 10:30 pm
Posted by vuvuzela
Oregon
Member since Jun 2010
14663 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:29 pm to
quote:

The measure of wealth and success is relative and what you make of it.


Man this is an easy one, how many national championships the college football team you pull for wins.
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
15890 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:29 pm to
quote:

My measure of success is doing better for myself and my family than my upbringing. Bottom line.


Fair enough sir. As it should be. Are you successful?
Posted by TulaneUVA
Member since Jun 2005
25922 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:33 pm to
Still in progress. So far so good
Posted by SlidellCajun
Slidell la
Member since May 2019
10506 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:35 pm to
I’ve met happy people across the spectrum


Abject poverty . Like dirt poor with no chance of being rich... like ever. And they were happy

I’ve known some of the wealthiest people in the country and they were happy but different. Less carefree. They were happy though. Wife, kids all the toys ... and happy.

What I see in common is a grounding. I see an appreciation of what the basic gift we have as humans called life. Not everyone gets it.

Life is a gift and if you take it for granted, you’ll be miserable

Money is not the answer but it is also not a curse. But it can be.

I knew a guy who was filthy rich and he took his own life. Like why?
I think it was because he tied it all to wealth and once he had wealth.... it was over
This post was edited on 1/22/21 at 10:41 pm
Posted by TigerLunatik
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jan 2005
93803 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:36 pm to
quote:

I’ve always thought success is being the best at what is the most important to you. My relationships in life are the most important thing to me and I try to be the best at that. I’ve done well so I think I’m successful.

Very well said. I feel the same about being a good person.
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
15890 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:40 pm to
quote:

SlidellCajun


Fair points. But happiness is different than success or wealth. I’ve known people that were successful and not happy. And happy people that weren’t wealthy.

Happiness is a different animal. That not the question. Do you consider yourself successful or wealthy? What does that mean to you?
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
15890 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:44 pm to
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Happiness is the only success


Fair enough. So happiness is your success. What is happiness to you and are you happy/successful?
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61377 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:47 pm to
Life is a journey, not a destination.


Most of the time the fight to the top is significantly more satisfying than actually being at the top.
This post was edited on 1/22/21 at 10:48 pm
Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
14754 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:47 pm to


Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
This post was edited on 1/22/21 at 10:50 pm
Posted by MondayMorningMarch
Pumping Sunshine. She's cute!
Member since Dec 2006
16946 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:48 pm to
It's not about having what you want.

It's about wanting what you have.
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
15890 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:50 pm to
Everyone making good points. But no one saying if they are successful or wealthy. And why
Posted by MondayMorningMarch
Pumping Sunshine. She's cute!
Member since Dec 2006
16946 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:54 pm to
quote:

But no one saying if they are successful or wealthy. And why


Moved to Pugetopolis in 1993 with 7k.

That 7k has been parlayed to 7 figures.

Izzat successful and wealthy?

IDK

Is my friend happy? YES!!
Posted by ZydecoTigah
walker LA
Member since Sep 2010
447 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:57 pm to
Wealth actually has nothing to do with money, but with having the abilities /things (besides money) in abundance that actually make you happy, secure, and relaxed in the ability of these things to take care of you and your family.
Posted by Kat655
Member since Nov 2020
74 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 10:58 pm to
1000% agree as an immigrant myself
Posted by Shanegolang
Denham Springs, La
Member since Sep 2015
3536 posts
Posted on 1/22/21 at 11:03 pm to
Who is to say what the proper measure is?
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