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re: How often do you talk with your dad?

Posted on 10/4/20 at 12:09 am to
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
23322 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 12:09 am to
My father died when I was a teenager.

The Living Years
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47826 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 12:32 am to
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My parents divorced when I was very young and the communication between my dad and I was sparse.

My parents were together for 49 years. I live nearby and went over often for suppers and breakfasts. I Still go by to see my Maw often.
The last words my dad ever said to me were "it's gonna be raining like shite tomorrow!" regarding the weather when I'd be picking them up the next morning to go watch my daughter play basketball in Natchez.

I am one lucky and blessed MFer to have no regrets nor missed conversations with my paw. We looked at the moon, walked the train tracks, and did all the good shite that I try and make sure to do with my kids.
If it's not too late for you, do the same.

This post was edited on 10/4/20 at 12:38 am
Posted by Bleed P&G
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2003
2992 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 12:50 am to
Given this story, your Dad should have reached out to you, but since he didn't, you should reach out to him. It shows that you are a better man than he is.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140586 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 12:54 am to
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Saban Butt-chewing
take this homosexual stuff to the secrant Bozo
Posted by Louisiana Gator
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2012
685 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 1:42 am to
I work with him to take over his company talk to him every week day and most weekends for hunting season. I know Im one of the lucky ones.
Posted by TigerGman
Center of the Universe
Member since Sep 2006
11524 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 5:21 am to
mine died in my arms March 5, 1998.

I've talked to him nearly everyday since then.
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
20651 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 5:40 am to
My dad passed last year. Only advice I can give anyone is that you need to talk to your dad more, regardless of how much you talk to him now.
Posted by safetyman
Member since Jun 2011
11546 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 5:58 am to
Just about every day. We watch every LSU football game together
Posted by Utah Tiger
Palm Beach, FL
Member since Sep 2005
1131 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 7:18 am to
I talk to my dad everyday. We both encourage each other in our health goals. I share 50%of his genetics. So biologically we are a lot a like. Just recently he has made tremendous health gains and his life has improved dramatically. He tells me he loves me everyday now. I am blessed.
Posted by Tigerpaw123
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2007
17417 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 7:19 am to
Daily
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16499 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 7:51 am to
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My mom calls me every day without fail and we talk for at least 20 minutes


This seems strange. How old are you?
Posted by 4Ghost
Member since Sep 2016
8539 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 7:55 am to
Face-time my son and grandson once/twice a week. I text my son all along, rare occasion he texts back
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
2769 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 7:58 am to
Not as much as I should. I generally talk to him about once a week on average.
Posted by VictoryHill
Alabama
Member since Nov 2013
3224 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 8:08 am to
I stop at my parents' home bout twice a week and send my dad in particular a few texts a week. My mom I talk to pretty much daily.
Posted by TrouserTrout
Member since Nov 2017
6425 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 8:23 am to
We texted just about everyday. Spend as much time as we can when he is home and not at work. When they gone(dead) you can’t get them back.
Posted by TakeAGander
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2010
563 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 8:40 am to
I talk to my dad at least twice a week. I’m sorry your relationship with your dad is not what it should have been, but I would encourage you to reach out and perhaps start anew. My dad will be 75 this year, and I know I need to talk with and see him more than I do.
Posted by CarRamrod
Spurbury, VT
Member since Dec 2006
57689 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 8:51 am to
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about not checking in more with him
this is a copout. I have noticed a lot of these boomers that are getting older expect their children, neices, and nephews to check in with them like they are kids. They fail to see it is a 2 way street. It is not our responsibility to always check in when we have our own familes. I had this issue with some of my aunt's and I told them that for the past 20 years I have been the one initiating the communication. And I will continue to do so when I feel like talking but if they want to talk, they need to they need to talk some initiative and reach out.

Needless to say I haven't heard from them in a few months.
Posted by CalicoJack
The Centennial State
Member since Jun 2020
204 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 9:46 am to
I text with him every few days, probably on the phone every week or so. He works shift work, so it's hit or miss when he's sleeping some weeks
Posted by the LSUSaint
Member since Nov 2009
15444 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 9:50 am to
You never know what your mom did or said to him. Hes human. Im sure he made mistakes as well.

You are missing as much as him.

BTW, your mother sucks as much as him. She had as much or more of an opportunity to make you talk to him everyday. She was your leader...and failed
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
19589 posts
Posted on 10/4/20 at 10:04 am to
My dad passed away two years ago , he was also my best friend . We talked everyday and he was 82 when he passed. I have a step son and step daughter that I raised. My step son stays busy with his job (calls twice a week)but my step daughter calls me every day. I never refer to them as “ step” because they hate that and I’m just dad. Their biological father wasn’t in their life when they were young but is now. We were at a cookout last year and he apologized to me for not being a better father. I told him no apologies were needed, I was blessed having them in my life and I was sorry that he missed out on two great kids
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