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re: The Sad State of Affairs for Dating

Posted on 9/15/19 at 12:40 pm to
Posted by Jaydeaux
Covington
Member since May 2005
18818 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 12:40 pm to
Doesn’t matter for me but it seems lots of women don’t give a shite about being fat either
Posted by DustyDinkleman
Here
Member since Feb 2012
18176 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:01 pm to
That’s the most boring string of texts I’ve ever read and I’m a vanilla white dude.

You’ll only land fat chicks with that line of questioning.
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
15937 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:05 pm to
Holy shite that’s a keeper. Haven’t even met in person and she’s acting like a pissy wife
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164666 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:09 pm to
Unless she was really hot it's not worth worrying about. You'll find another dime a dozen chick in no time.
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
35978 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:10 pm to
PIIHB and move on.
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
Reseda
Member since Feb 2007
18971 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:12 pm to
She’s a keeper
Posted by Bigfishchoupique
Member since Jul 2017
8557 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:14 pm to
This relationship would have a better chance with a man in n it. Sounds like you are a bitch.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
91256 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:42 pm to
Phones today have changed dating for the worst because women do expect you to talk to them all day throughout the day. Then when you see each other you have nothing to talk about
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 1:44 pm to
quote:

Woman: Lol I'm sorry you call going to the gym and helping with homework busy?


This is where you end the conversation next time. If she's throwing this kind of attitude in a "getting to know you" message...Jesus Christ.
Posted by 2geaux
Georgia
Member since Feb 2008
2615 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:15 pm to
Dating has become texting? I am an old timer but I'll take the personal contact over texting any day!
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76847 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:56 pm to
She’s not wrong. You start a conversation then don’t reply for 12 hours and all you keep saying is how busy you are, and yet you don’t sound busy at all. Working out and helping with homework? Bruh. You had your phone on you the entire time. It takes 10 seconds to send a message to meet up somewhere.
Posted by jimmy the leg
Member since Aug 2007
35244 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:18 pm to
This has to be a troll job. If not, I'll be back tomorrow to comment.
Posted by 75503Tiger
Member since Sep 2015
4271 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:26 pm to
Please dude, you are an adult. You get in there and meet the woman if you are interested. If she’s crazy or it doesn’t work you tell her and move on, regardless of whether or not you had sex. That was some immature bs you put out there
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
151118 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:42 pm to
quote:

I mean was I wrong because I took about 12 hours to respond?

Yeah, kinda. App dating sucks arse, and it sucks that that’s the main way of doing things these days. But the bottom line is you would send a message or two and then disappear for a day. While it’s not wrong if you to not be attached to your phone or give the people you are physically with your undivided attention, it’s not going to come off to someone awaiting your conversation as you being interested either. You message her and ask questions and she responds and then you disappear for the rest of the day. And then you basically did it again the next day? Of course her reaction is that you aren’t interested. Anybody else’s would be too (including you if this was reversed).

You can act all cool and say that you are “ending this” but she had already ended it with you when she gave you that little piece of advice about not responding. So she ended it, not you.

Just move on and take it as a lesson learned that next time you should at least try a little harder to communicate with her, or at least let her know that you have shite going on and your responses would take a while.
Posted by slinger1317
Northshore
Member since Sep 2005
5950 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:38 pm to
The worst part about dating apps is the short choppy conversations through the app. Gotta get her phone number pretty quick before interest dies out.

And if she’s fussing at you after a few texts- run for the hills son.
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
17153 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 5:30 pm to
I kind of agree with her.

You looked at the texts and just didn’t want to reply.

You had time to reply
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
21635 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 6:23 pm to
I was at lunch a while back on 2 twenty somethings , both females, were talking about dating. They were talking low but obviously didn’t care that I heard. One asked the other how many guys she had slept with. Five was the answer. She then asked how many guys she had kissed. She said 1, “ cause they were in love”. The other said “ that’s almost exactly like me!
Man, things have changed.
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
35158 posts
Posted on 9/16/19 at 1:53 am to
Damn bruh she was begging you to hit it and you blew it. Not to worry just jump on the next one and you’re in
Posted by Tampa Tiger
Fl.
Member since Nov 2006
667 posts
Posted on 9/16/19 at 6:25 am to
Where does she work?
Posted by GeorgePaton
God's Country
Member since May 2017
4495 posts
Posted on 9/16/19 at 6:56 am to
It was all so proper and effective. We gathered on Saturday nights at the local dance club. They were located all over the area. For a cover charge you could listen to some really great music and dance with the pretty girls. We eyed the girls sitting in clusters on tables by the dance floor, and the girls eyed us. If one of the girls caught our eye we might work up the courage to ask her to dance. Usually they accepted your invitation to dance. In addition to being pretty they were polite.

If you hit it off on the dance floor you might ask her for a date. Usually you went to the movies. I took one young lady on a date to play putt-putt golf afterwhich I took her to a nice restaurant. She was delightful and sweet. We had good decent fun. But it was not in the cards. Other dates....not so great.

For the most part the girls were polite and virtuous. The whole culture was arranged so that young people could meet up and find a suitable mate. That's all gone now.
Done in by militant feminism and the "hook-up" culture.

I met my bride of fifty-one years at a local dance club. She caught my eye, I worked up enough courage to ask her to dance......she accepted. The rest is history.

You young folk should try it.
This post was edited on 9/16/19 at 7:13 am
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