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re: Is Social Anxiety The Next Excuse For Not Giving Speeches In Communication Class

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Posted by The Drizz
The Ville
Member since Jun 2010
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Posted on 1/10/18 at 6:29 pm to
I can totally relate. Wish they gave out medicine so loosely back in the day. Just had to suck it up and deal with it back then. Wasn’t until my late 30’s with kids that I was treated for anxiety, the shite actually works!!
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15356 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 6:30 pm to
I hope she never plans on having a job where she has to give presentations.
Posted by jdd48
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
22127 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 6:31 pm to
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Friend lets call her kalunda balunga.(no pics)

She is meeting with the professor because she doesn't believe she should have to give a presentation/speech for communication class/oral communications since she has social anxiety.

Is this a legit thing? Is this a millennial thing?


That's a major reason for forcing college students to take that course.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114038 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 6:32 pm to
Most people in speech classes would rather do anything other than give a speech. I think everyone gets some type of "anxiety" before giving speeches to their class, but it's part of the fricking class. You suck it up, do it or don't and fail.
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
68891 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 6:45 pm to
frick that. I felt the same way, I'd still do it. My pits would you be soaked by the end of it.

Posted by RachelGreen
Member since Dec 2015
73 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 6:50 pm to
I remember one girl in my public speaking class who shook the entire time with tears rolling down her face when was at the front of the class giving a speech.

Every time.

When she held any paper, like an outline, it rattled so loudly I could never even hear her (I sat in the front row about 3 feet away).

It broke my heart. It was stressful for me to just witness her struggle like that each week. :(

Posted by PeterPeterP
Member since Jan 2013
781 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:06 pm to
I’d fail her. Or tell her to drop. I’m not going to alter my class because of one a-hole.
Posted by Lsuhoohoo
Member since Sep 2007
94674 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:30 pm to
A speech course was a requirement in my major. On the first day the instructor read this old Seinfeld quote




So true. Most people don't really like public speaking. I've got a bit of a reserved personality, I don't generally like being the focus of attention so I dreaded the course. We had to give several different speeches of around 10 minutes on different topics and of different speech types (informative, persuasive).

It's nerve-wracking but that's life. Tell your friend to nut up and get over it. At some point beyond college, she'll have to speak to strangers or even colleagues in a presentation setting. Better to practice in a classroom setting now than freak out when your job depends on it.
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
15704 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:37 pm to
My wife has severe anxiety when it comes to presentations and speeches. She will hang out in a crowd no problem but being put on the spot destroys her. Otherwise she is a damn good employee and coworker.

Some people just can't handle public speaking.
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
90474 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:39 pm to
When I have to speak in front of a large audience I use propranolol
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124545 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:40 pm to
quote:

If she has a legit mental illness and cannot give public speeches,



What would happen if she did?
Nothing. Might help her get over her anxiety.

Or she can take the 0
Posted by razorbackpat
Member since Nov 2016
230 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:55 pm to
if anxiety is that bad how do they drive?
Posted by buzwa
Member since Sep 2006
2471 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 7:58 pm to
frick that. I suffered from that shite most of my life. I had to deliver all my speeches and you know what? I learned how to deal with the anxiety and get passed it. That experience I gained has been extremely helpful for my career.
Posted by BulldogXero
Member since Oct 2011
9775 posts
Posted on 1/10/18 at 8:11 pm to
Public speaking class sucked

If anything it was upper-level courses that required major presentations that helped me conquer my fear more than anything else.
Posted by pioneerbasketball
Team Bunchie
Member since Oct 2005
132523 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:22 am to
quote:

Fear of public speaking is definitely a real thing.

I understand the public speaking and most people don't like speaking in front of other people.

My friend was trying to get a note from her doctor saying that she has social anxiety. After reading this thread, I see others talking about having anxiety so maybe its legit
Posted by Loungefly85
Lafayette
Member since Jul 2016
7930 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 6:46 am to
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Social Anxiety


quote:

millennial thing


Without a doubt. It a crutch and excuse that is way too overused.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119440 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 6:47 am to
If you are a communications major, you need to be able to communicate.
Posted by beebefootballfan
Member since Mar 2011
19047 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 7:12 am to
Tell her to pop a Xanax and get to talking. That is what half of my speech class did in college.
This post was edited on 1/11/18 at 7:13 am
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21570 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 7:39 am to
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Is Social Anxiety The Next Excuse For Not Giving Speeches In Communication Class


In today's world, I'm sure it is. Buncha weak bitches growing up these days. (And if you're offended by me calling you a weak bitch, I don't give a shite.)
Posted by TigrrrDad
Member since Oct 2016
7136 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 7:50 am to
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frick her right up the arse. I have social anxiety and got up there to do speeches anyway when I was required to take that in college along with group presentations in other classes. It’s something to be worked around, not a goddamn crutch to get you out of stuff


This. Social Anxiety is very real and it’s a pain in the arse to deal with, but the fact is that you HAVE to deal with it. I don’t like to speak to people - even on the phone - much less speak in front of a group, but it’s part of life. In college, I was forced to do a group project in Sociology class. While I took charge behind the scenes on the actual work, I was letting someone else in the group do the presentation part in front of the large class, but they were botching the shite out of it. Since my grade depended on these dumbasses, I stepped in right in the middle of their speech and took over the speaking role. Nailed it and we got an A. Hated every second of it, but you can’t shield yourself from life.
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