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Married Men: Your Opinion
Posted on 1/25/17 at 3:06 am
Posted on 1/25/17 at 3:06 am
Long time buddy of mine just found out that after six years of being together (1 and a half) married, his wife admitted to cheating while they first started dating. He was upset due to trust issues.
She would screw the guy during the week and when he went to visit screw him on the weekend.
Keep in mind the first 2yrs was long distance. He moved to her city had a kid got married and he found out through her ex what happened. for those 6yrs the wife denied it any time it was brought up then finally told him the truth. How serious is this and can he trust her?
I say no to trust but since it happened before marriage not a big deal.
Whats your thought?
She would screw the guy during the week and when he went to visit screw him on the weekend.
Keep in mind the first 2yrs was long distance. He moved to her city had a kid got married and he found out through her ex what happened. for those 6yrs the wife denied it any time it was brought up then finally told him the truth. How serious is this and can he trust her?
I say no to trust but since it happened before marriage not a big deal.
Whats your thought?
This post was edited on 1/25/17 at 3:08 am
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Posted on 1/25/17 at 3:11 am to GalvestonTiger12
Define "first started dating". If only early on, he should get over it. If she let this dude slam her for the two years they were long distance, I'd have a problem with that.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 3:15 am to GalvestonTiger12
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How serious is this and can he trust her?
No. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 3:16 am to GalvestonTiger12
Where is Jody now? That trust issue would be magnified if he still lived close.
Also, how'd he find out? If he was sleuthing on her, he already has relationship-wrecking trust issues.
Also, how'd he find out? If he was sleuthing on her, he already has relationship-wrecking trust issues.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 3:23 am to GalvestonTiger12
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found out through her ex what happened. for those 6yrs the wife denied it any time it was brought up then finally told him the truth.
The "cheating" isn't the issue in this case. She lied to him for 6 years.
So, maybe she is a cheater depending on how you want to judge long distance dating blah blah blah. She lied to him after he knew. That is the only part that matters. She broke the trust by continuing to lie, might as well have still been cheating.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 3:24 am to GalvestonTiger12
At least they don't have any kids that will grow up in a broken home. He really only has one play.
How did she let him find out after 6 years?
How did she let him find out after 6 years?
Posted on 1/25/17 at 3:46 am to JudgeHolden
said he found out by talking on facebook to the ex. he asked the ex about the past cause how she was acting towards him back then was how she was acting recently. Maybe thinks shes cheating now? idk. so he wanted the truth from what happened in the past i guess
This post was edited on 1/25/17 at 3:49 am
Posted on 1/25/17 at 3:48 am to Rebel
they have a kid together. she finally admitted after the 6yrs cause he showed her the conversation he and the ex had. She got caught finally and told him she would of never told him the truth. every time he asked in the past she lied and told him what she wanted him to know
This post was edited on 1/25/17 at 3:50 am
Posted on 1/25/17 at 3:59 am to GalvestonTiger12
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Whats your thought?
Why does he care now when it happened when they first started dating? At that point, it's not even love. He should probably get over it.
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She got caught finally and told him she would of never told him the truth
Why would she? It'd cause nothing but issues. He's got issues for pushing for this after 6 years.
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conversation he and the ex had
Talking to an ex after 6 years? yea husband isn't insecure at all. Ex is a shite stain for saying anything.
ETA: We know you are the long time buddy
This post was edited on 1/25/17 at 4:23 am
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:09 am to GalvestonTiger12
If I found this out about my wife it'd be game over. That's a recipe for her likely doing it again and with more than one dude. No turning whores in to housewives
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:12 am to BeerMoney
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If I found this out about my wife it'd be game over.
no it wouldn't, you're lying
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:13 am to GalvestonTiger12
frick the ex too.
He needs to keep that shite to himself rather than fricking with other relationships
He needs to keep that shite to himself rather than fricking with other relationships
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:22 am to fightin tigers
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frick the ex too.
He needs to keep that shite to himself rather than fricking with other relationships
This. Some other dude contacts me to ask about his girlfriend (especially on FaceBook) and I am just going to tell him to frick off. Why would he do that?
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:24 am to GalvestonTiger12
Why would she admit that this late in the game.
I'd leave her just for being a dumbass.
I'd leave her just for being a dumbass.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:37 am to GalvestonTiger12
Divorce
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:38 am to King Teal
A child is involved and they're going strong for that long, gotta make repairs. Lets be honest, long distance relationships are basically saying, you got something lined up and can have fun in another city. They're rarely serious.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:48 am to 13SaintTiger
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no it wouldn't, you're lying
We'd be separated immediately and likely done. If we were exclusive and it was still going on multiple years into the relationship, there's no doubt I'd divorce. There's no magic button where marriage suddenly changes the rules of your relationship other than locking them in for life with a heavy financial penalty. Cheating before or after that date is the same. If you are married for 25 years, is cheating in year 5 okay?
Now if the cheating was in month 6 or something when you maybe didn't even refer to her as your girlfriend yet. You were just meeting on the weekend with this chick you knew from out of town. Then maybe it's forgivable.
This post was edited on 1/25/17 at 11:16 am
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:49 am to GalvestonTiger12
So your wife is a slut?
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:50 am to GalvestonTiger12
She's probably still cheating.
I'll need pics of the wife to decide if he should stay or go.
I'll need pics of the wife to decide if he should stay or go.
Posted on 1/25/17 at 4:52 am to GalvestonTiger12
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He moved to her city had a kid got married and h
Sounds like the kid was a mistake. Maybe momma trapped daddy? Maybe she's still banging her ex or another guy or wants to now but your friend is in to her.
I'd kick the bitch to the curb. Whore has probably had more strange dick in her since she married your boy. He's getting used by some tramp who isn't true to him. And he knows it.
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