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re: I know I'm young...but how did college social stuff work before cell phones?
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:44 am to tween the hedges
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:44 am to tween the hedges
This is a great OP question, and I'm glad you asked it.
I'm old as shite, and when students ask me what the biggest difference between LSU now and LSU then is... I tell them "instant communication."
Back in the late 80's/early 90's when I was at LSU, we just had to rely on landlines to schedule people. Here's some quick differences between then and now:
THEN:
- People were no more reliable now than they were then, but I do find that people were more patient and invested in others back then. You weren't so quick to dispose of someone you just met.
- Phone calls tended to last longer than they do now.
- A phone call/communication after 10pm was rare, and usually only from someone very important to you, like a girlfriend or best friend.
- People still wrote letters to each other. I wrote about two letters a week to friends in other parts of the country, and I LOVED checking my P.O. Box at the Union for a letter coming back. That was GOLD. Could totally make your day.
- There was a lot more mystery to any given day when you wake up. You never knew who you could run into by chance.
- If you wanted to do something with a girl on a weekend, you had to have her locked down by Wednesday night.
NOW:
- It's SO easy to get people together now. Almost on a moment's notice.
- SO much easier to meet girls now. If I had the methods then that you guys have now... I would be up to my ears in pussy. Back then I was only up to my waist. ;)
- These days I always feel like someone is watching me, and that everything I do or say is going to be recorded forever. That's because it's true.
- People are just ALL OVER each other now. You can't escape them for any length of time, even if you wanted to.
-Having the collected knowledge of the human race at your fingertips is kind of cool. Beats the shite out of encyclopedias.
I'm old as shite, and when students ask me what the biggest difference between LSU now and LSU then is... I tell them "instant communication."
Back in the late 80's/early 90's when I was at LSU, we just had to rely on landlines to schedule people. Here's some quick differences between then and now:
THEN:
- People were no more reliable now than they were then, but I do find that people were more patient and invested in others back then. You weren't so quick to dispose of someone you just met.
- Phone calls tended to last longer than they do now.
- A phone call/communication after 10pm was rare, and usually only from someone very important to you, like a girlfriend or best friend.
- People still wrote letters to each other. I wrote about two letters a week to friends in other parts of the country, and I LOVED checking my P.O. Box at the Union for a letter coming back. That was GOLD. Could totally make your day.
- There was a lot more mystery to any given day when you wake up. You never knew who you could run into by chance.
- If you wanted to do something with a girl on a weekend, you had to have her locked down by Wednesday night.
NOW:
- It's SO easy to get people together now. Almost on a moment's notice.
- SO much easier to meet girls now. If I had the methods then that you guys have now... I would be up to my ears in pussy. Back then I was only up to my waist. ;)
- These days I always feel like someone is watching me, and that everything I do or say is going to be recorded forever. That's because it's true.
- People are just ALL OVER each other now. You can't escape them for any length of time, even if you wanted to.
-Having the collected knowledge of the human race at your fingertips is kind of cool. Beats the shite out of encyclopedias.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 10:29 am to tween the hedges
Land lines only, and there were pay phones everywhere. Still had plenty of fun with much less worry.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 10:34 am to DallasTiger
I'll tell you how it worked in my day...we made the scene, we flaunted convention and we left no stone unturned.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 10:37 am to SpqrTiger
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People still wrote letters to each other. I wrote about two letters a week to friends in other parts of the country, and I LOVED checking my P.O. Box at the Union for a letter coming back. That was GOLD. Could totally make your day.
Very true, sir. Those letters from home were the best. My Grandmother never failed to write. I miss those days.
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There was a lot more mystery to any given day when you wake up. You never knew who you could run into by chance.
That was half the fun...
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If you wanted to do something with a girl on a weekend, you had to have her locked down by Wednesday night.
Also, very true...Sometimes it was hell but worth it. That made looking forward to the weekend that much more fun.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 10:43 am to KingRanch
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And how were arguments settled before Google?
You called the library.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 10:44 am to roadGator
quote:People have gotten their heads busted for less.
I can't stand mfers checking me in places without my knowledge. Maybe I don't want folks to know that I'm at a bar on a Sunday afternoon.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 10:52 am to Spaceman Spiff
quote:We'd lock up dates to big parties sometimes more than a week in advance, and be anxious the whole week. Now I guess they hook up 30 minutes before hand. Not much intrigue (or work) left.
That made looking forward to the weekend that much more fun.
Kids now don't have a clue what it was like to be free and unreachable back then. Answer to no one, and get home how you could sometimes. A lot of hookups and rides arranged at parties or bars if you didn't want to stay with the group.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 11:01 am to SCwTiger
quote:
We'd lock up dates to big parties sometimes more than a week in advance, and be anxious the whole week. Now I guess they hook up 30 minutes before hand. Not much intrigue (or work) left.
Kids now don't have a clue what it was like to be free and unreachable back then. Answer to no one, and get home how you could sometimes. A lot of hookups and rides arranged at parties or bars if you didn't want to stay with the group.
this, being able to disappear was awesome, as big of a man ho as I was today's technology would have worked against me
Posted on 2/17/15 at 11:02 am to tween the hedges
you could get away with a lot more, that's for damn sure
Posted on 2/17/15 at 11:04 am to roadGator
quote:
can't stand mfers checking me in places without my knowledge. Maybe I don't want folks to know that I'm at a bar on a Sunday afternoon.
Yep that shite can you in a bind
Posted on 2/17/15 at 11:07 am to tween the hedges
No pagers, cell phones, computers. We actually used land lines (with cords) and learned to talk to people face to face.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 11:09 am to Agforlife
There's a setting where you have to approve anything you are tagged in before it's posted.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 12:15 pm to SpqrTiger
I feel like I am enjoying the best of both worlds right now. I was a VP of Sales at a company for many years and was married to a cell phone. Calls starting at 5am from customers and sales reps and ending after 11pm. I lived that rat race for 11 years. I finally resigned to start my own, completely unrelated business at age 38. I grew that business and sold it and all of the assets 5 years later. I have taken the last two years off from work to spend more time with my family and have not had a cell phone in 2 years. My wife and two teen girls have I-Phones so if I really need to call someone when we are all out together I have access. But it feels liberating in a way to not have one myself. I forgot I great it feels to be incognito from the rest of the world except my family.
On the other hand, I can access the info I desire within seconds on my pad.
On the other hand, I can access the info I desire within seconds on my pad.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 1:16 pm to tween the hedges
quote:Yep, pretty much.
Did you just make plans to meet somewhere via a landline
Posted on 2/17/15 at 1:27 pm to jvilletiger25
Posted on 2/17/15 at 2:54 pm to windshieldman
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I would say the strangest time to be in college would have been '98-'02. Cell phones weren't popular where everyone had one, no texting and pagers were obsolete.
I don't know about it being the strangest. I only had one friend with a cell phone, it was actually his moms and if you had a personal computer we thought you were kind of a nerd.
You must mean laptop, because everyone I knew had a computer by around '97 or '98 and by '99 everyone had aol and getting ahold of people via IM was really easy. most people already had beepers and by 2000-2001 was the cell phone boom. Texting became prevalent around 2001 when everyone had that Nokia candy bar phone.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 3:01 pm to tween the hedges
I used to make a call from the payphone at the gas station while I was picking up smokes on the way to the bar.
Posted on 2/17/15 at 3:12 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
well what we would do is just go to the same set of bars, and walk from bar to bar until you found your friends.
For girls you would call to ask them out, but for my friends it was just assumed we were going to the same bars on the same nights. if something special came up, we would call our buddies to let them know.
Back then you could call your answering machine from a payphone to get your messages.
the only people I knew with pagers were drug dealers
For girls you would call to ask them out, but for my friends it was just assumed we were going to the same bars on the same nights. if something special came up, we would call our buddies to let them know.
Back then you could call your answering machine from a payphone to get your messages.
the only people I knew with pagers were drug dealers
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