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People who get married and choose not to have kids

Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:50 am
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
15361 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:50 am
I really dont get the point in this, isnt the whole point of marriage to start a family? . Like you pretty much become roommates where someone, usually the man, still gets assfricked in the inevitable divorce.
This post was edited on 1/23/26 at 10:53 am
Posted by TexasTiger33
United States of America
Member since Feb 2022
16128 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:53 am to
Children are a blessing, but some might say those folks are living the life.

They have a life companion but aren't burdened with fhe trials and responsibilities of parenthood.

They can travel and spend their money with less concern.

I'd say those folks are living the life.
Posted by MikeBRLA
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2005
17151 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:54 am to
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isnt the whole point of marriage to start a family


Not for everyone. Different strokes for different folks.

Some people just don't want kids.
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
19467 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:54 am to
I don't get it either. Reproduction and child-rearing is really the whole point of marriage. Unfortunately, feminism sold women on the lie that denying their natural instincts, climbing the career ladder, and making money is the key to their happiness.
This post was edited on 1/23/26 at 10:55 am
Posted by dagrippa
Saigon
Member since Nov 2004
12111 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:54 am to
sometimes it's people that actually do want to have children but have fertility difficulties and prefer not to talk about that
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
74379 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:55 am to
Not all people are fit to be parents.
Posted by liquid rabbit
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Member since Mar 2006
64663 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:55 am to
They will be missing out on the best part of parenthood, which is grandchildren.
Posted by b-rab2
N. Louisiana
Member since Dec 2005
12841 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:55 am to
Im kinda with you... I remember just being kinda bored and having an empty feeling. Now that I have kids, yes, it's hard. But it's so much more rewarding.
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
17064 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:55 am to
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inevitable divorce.


Sorry about your damn luck, baw. How much did she walk away with?
Posted by bayoudude
Member since Dec 2007
25864 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:55 am to
Until they are old and lonely

I get that it would be fun in your 20-50 year ages but once your friends die off and there is no one to visit you I can’t see that being a fulfilling life plan
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
129991 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:56 am to
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Some people just don't want kids.


Then the same people complain about illegal immigration
Posted by armytiger96
Member since Sep 2007
2159 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 10:57 am to
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sometimes it's people that actually do want to have children but have fertility difficulties and prefer not to talk about that


Came here to post this!
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61010 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 11:00 am to
I can’t imagine a life without kids. The prospect of holidays and such in an empty house with each day resembling the next is not my cup of tea. But to each his own.
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
15361 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 11:01 am to
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Some people just don't want kids.


Well then why get married then?
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
15361 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 11:01 am to
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sometimes it's people that actually do want to have children but have fertility difficulties and prefer not to talk about that


Thats why I said people who "choose" not to have kids.
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
16576 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 11:02 am to
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They have a life companion but aren't burdened with fhe trials and responsibilities of parenthood.


That's what my aunt and uncle did.

They're 83 now... and pretty much alone but for each other. I don't even think they like each other.

They have gotten more miserable the older they've gotten... they do all kinds of stuff, but don't seem to enjoy it. They go on Alaska cruises and take pictures of sleeping strangers... the photos they used to share with us was always pictures of plants or their newest Elvis knickknack.

I never want to be them.

Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
129991 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 11:02 am to
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sometimes it's people that actually do want to have children but have fertility difficulties and prefer not to talk about that


This is true. Like 10-20% of couples have fertility issues

Many wars have been started over this over the course of human history. And Brits are protestants because of this.
Posted by FearTheFish
Member since Dec 2007
4367 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 11:03 am to
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Reproduction and child-rearing is really the whole point of marriage.
I have to disagree with you here. Marriage is a gift and an exercise in denying one's self to put the needs of one's spouse before their own.

Children are also a gift which flow from marriage and the love that is found in marriage.

But to say reproduction is the whole point of marriage, in my opinion, cheapens the bond that is forged through marriage and reduces children to mere widgets produced from the marriage machine.
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
52051 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 11:04 am to
What about people who can’t have children?
Should they never get married?
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
15361 posts
Posted on 1/23/26 at 11:06 am to
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What about people who can’t have children?


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