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PSA to all you dads raising daughters these days

Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:47 am
Posted by TheRouxGuru
Member since Nov 2019
13499 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:47 am
Do their future husbands a favor. For the love of god please stop trying to raise princesses. They’re not princesses. They’re not royalty. They are human and yes they can be and do wrong at times.

I’m just about at my breaking point in my marriage (halfway joking, it ain’t that serious ), because my wife REFUSES to ever accept any responsibility for her actions. I’m only talking about minor household type shite. She’s a great mother, she is faithful and loyal to me, she’s a hard worker who never misses a day or work unless she’s sick or has something for the kids….

But for the love of god I cannot for the life of me ever get her to be like ‘hey you know what, I was wrong, I’m sorry’. Never. Not once. Her instant reaction is almost always, ‘yes well what about when you…..’. Something as minor as asking her to pickup the floor steamer or the mop out of the bathroom leads to a back and forth exchange fully detailing all my previous household transgressions (which I have already atoned for ) from the past 3 months

fricking drives me nuts




So dads…. Treat your daughters like a normal kid. They are still going to love you. Put them in team sports or something so they can learn how to share responsibilities and blame when shite hits the fans. Their future husbands will thank you for it









Sorry for the rant. Happy Sunday
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72740 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:51 am to
Gonna need pics of your wife to see where we come down on this issue.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
42925 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:52 am to
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she is faithful and loyal to me


Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
73541 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:53 am to
You have daughters?

You think only “princesses” refuse to admit they’re wrong?
Posted by North Dallas Tiger
United States of America
Member since Mar 2024
13008 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:54 am to
Marriage is a beautiful institution with great benefits, but stories like this reinforce why not being married also has its advantages.
This post was edited on 1/26/25 at 11:55 am
Posted by WhiteMandingo
Member since Jan 2016
7439 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:55 am to
Our house cleaner is very good she dosent leave cleaning material and hardware out when she's done. If I have to clean up after her then I need a new house cleaner.
This post was edited on 1/26/25 at 9:46 pm
Posted by TheRouxGuru
Member since Nov 2019
13499 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:56 am to
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You have daughters? You think only “princesses” refuse to admit they’re wrong?


Absolutely not but I’m not married to a guy ya dummy
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
36606 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:56 am to
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Marriage is a beautiful institution with great benefits, but stories like this reinforce why not being married also has its advantages.


You need to remember the type of people you are getting one side of the story from. The great majority of these dudes are selfish, bitter hypocrites
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48994 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:57 am to
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Sorry for the rant. Happy Sunday



She's frickin somebody else.

Posted by TheRouxGuru
Member since Nov 2019
13499 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 11:58 am to
Oh trust me I have my faults as well, I’m far from perfect. But when confronted with something I did wrong or could have handled differently, I have no issues with saying I was wrong and genuinely apologizing for it. It’s the only way to move forward in a relationship that you value



My wife was the ‘golden child’ of her siblings. The first and only one to graduate from college. Never in trouble. Always good grades. Steady job since HS, etc… she’s just never had anyone come down on her or tell her that she’s ever done anything wrong so now that she’s an adult she has no clue how to handle any type of constructive criticism

Posted by TheRouxGuru
Member since Nov 2019
13499 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 12:00 pm to
I guarantee you if she is, it ain’t some rugby playing homo like you Mikey






You know me, but don’t know you know me
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48994 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 12:03 pm to
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You know me, but don’t know you know me


That's usually the way it goes with you faqqoty arse anonymous posters.
quote:



I guarantee you if she is, it ain’t some rugby playing homo

Heyyyyy now that's offensive. We're not homos. We'll frick errybody.

Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 12:06 pm to
Women are never wrong you dumbass, their wiring prevents any atonement.
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
71477 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 12:06 pm to
Sounds like you should take up fishing.
Posted by sorantable
Member since Dec 2008
53409 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 12:08 pm to
I have an 11 yo daughter. I’m not sure it’s fair to blame her parents. Some people are just born the way they are. We can teach our daughter something a million different ways, and she’s still going to do it her way most of the time. It is what it is. Good luck getting over it.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
155428 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 12:13 pm to
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because my wife REFUSES to ever accept any responsibility for her actions.

quote:

I cannot for the life of me ever get her to be like ‘hey you know what, I was wrong, I’m sorry’. Never. Not once.

I got news for you. That’s not bc her dad treated her like a princess. That comes standard on all models.
This post was edited on 1/26/25 at 12:28 pm
Posted by DMagic
#ChowderPosse
Member since Aug 2010
49911 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 12:13 pm to
If this ties in with your spanking thread she’s old enough now to move on to psychological torture
Posted by Zephyrius
Wharton, La.
Member since Dec 2004
9349 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 12:13 pm to
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Treat your daughters like a normal kid. They are still going to love you. Put them in team sports

You don't have put your kids in sports for them to be treaed normal. As long as you don't "helicopter" them and when they do make a bad decision make sure they understand there are consequences.

Also, if you are the true patriarch of the family you shouldn't need to feel validated with an apology. Just give them a reminder if they about to screw something up before it happens-- such as: Hey honey, you remember that time when you were cutting squash with they same knife and we ended up going to the emergency room. You may want to choose another knife or be extremely careful"
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
295504 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 12:14 pm to
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but stories like this reinforce why not being married also has its advantages.


You should know before marriage if she is going to be high maintenance or not.

Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
78026 posts
Posted on 1/26/25 at 12:15 pm to
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But for the love of god I cannot for the life of me ever get her to be like ‘hey you know what, I was wrong, I’m sorry’. Never. Not once. Her instant reaction is almost always, ‘yes well what about when you…..’. 
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