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How to raise sons to be confident and successful today in a big city?
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:28 pm
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:28 pm
Ready for lots of shite post responses but hoping for a few quality.
Anyone with young sons today probably has this same concern. Society is hard on masculinity today, I want my sons to be products of their generation but also men. They should be more sensitive and more aware of other people’s issues without feeling bad or guilty for being masculine.
How do you accomplish this today? Like it or not their friends will introduce them to a lot of things we are uncomfortable with, how do we as fathers make sure they keep their senses about?
Anyone with young sons today probably has this same concern. Society is hard on masculinity today, I want my sons to be products of their generation but also men. They should be more sensitive and more aware of other people’s issues without feeling bad or guilty for being masculine.
How do you accomplish this today? Like it or not their friends will introduce them to a lot of things we are uncomfortable with, how do we as fathers make sure they keep their senses about?
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Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:31 pm to Tiger1242
Do what your father did.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:31 pm to Tiger1242
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I want my sons to be products of their generation
Why?
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:33 pm to Tiger1242
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How do you accomplish this today?
1. lead by example.
2. spend time with them.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:34 pm to Tiger1242
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I want my sons to be products of their generation but also men.
We sent our sons to private, Christian schools we trusted to help us instill the proper values. Both are in college now and are perfectly normal. No drama, just working hard on their careers.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:35 pm to Tiger1242
Graduate Hugh school.
Get a job.
No children out of wedlock.
Don’t cut off your dick to be cool.
The rest should fall into place.
Get a job.
No children out of wedlock.
Don’t cut off your dick to be cool.
The rest should fall into place.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:35 pm to Tiger1242
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Society is hard on masculinity today, I want my sons to be products of their generation but also men. They should be more sensitive and more aware of other people’s issues without feeling bad or guilty for being masculine.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:36 pm to Tiger1242
Try to model the behavior as best you can and compensate with a "listen, don't do what I just did" every once in a while as needed.
I monitor but let him drive on the product of his generation part. Seems pretty automatic. So you just be the sincere, confident man around him and pray he picks it up.
I monitor but let him drive on the product of his generation part. Seems pretty automatic. So you just be the sincere, confident man around him and pray he picks it up.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:39 pm to Tiger1242
Read the Bible.
Pray with them.
Take them Fishing.
Shoot stuff.
Work ethic.
Love your mom and your wife.
Teach them the difference between confidence and arrogance.
Be the man that you want them to be.
Pray with them.
Take them Fishing.
Shoot stuff.
Work ethic.
Love your mom and your wife.
Teach them the difference between confidence and arrogance.
Be the man that you want them to be.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:48 pm to Tiger1242
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I want my sons to be products of their generation
Gross, I want my sons to be strong , honest, loyal, independent, reasoned, If I do my job they'll hate their generation.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:51 pm to Tiger1242
Introduce your sons to good stand-up comedy. Netflix has a huge library.
Depending on how old the kids are, you might want to screen the content first.
It will be good for the kids to see another man stand in front of an audience and point out the absurdity of modern “norms”. If they learn it’s hilarious to have preferred pronouns and to be confused about gender identity when born with a cock, then they’ll be fine.
How old are they kids?
Depending on how old the kids are, you might want to screen the content first.
It will be good for the kids to see another man stand in front of an audience and point out the absurdity of modern “norms”. If they learn it’s hilarious to have preferred pronouns and to be confused about gender identity when born with a cock, then they’ll be fine.
How old are they kids?
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:55 pm to Tiger1242
The city part idk but this is universal.
Approach every person knowing you have no idea what they’re going through
When someone does something for you, you thank them.
Don’t be needy, be independent.
Approach every person knowing you have no idea what they’re going through
When someone does something for you, you thank them.
Don’t be needy, be independent.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 9:58 pm to Tiger1242
Make him mow the grass. Weed the ditches.
Wash the cars. Pressure wash the house.
Teach him how to change a tire. Make him grill some burgers. Teach. Him to tie a tie. Make him read hand of brothers.
Wash the cars. Pressure wash the house.
Teach him how to change a tire. Make him grill some burgers. Teach. Him to tie a tie. Make him read hand of brothers.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 10:00 pm to Tiger1242
Define big city
Posted on 4/19/24 at 10:02 pm to Tiger1242
Wrestling.
He will learn discipline, to resist and overcome pain and adversity, self sacrifice, triumph and humility. He will get strong and lean, and learn how to protect himself without being a bully. Most importantly he will learn how to act in the moment, when he is on the mat and everyone is watching.
Louisiana is not a wrestling powerhouse. So basically any kid who starts early and sticks with it has a chance of standing on a podium.
He will learn discipline, to resist and overcome pain and adversity, self sacrifice, triumph and humility. He will get strong and lean, and learn how to protect himself without being a bully. Most importantly he will learn how to act in the moment, when he is on the mat and everyone is watching.
Louisiana is not a wrestling powerhouse. So basically any kid who starts early and sticks with it has a chance of standing on a podium.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 10:03 pm to Tiger1242
I may be old school but get them doing things a man should do.
Put some country in them. Learn to work on your own stuff and repair things, hunt, fish, understand nature and how to coincide with it, grow a garden.
Life(schooling) is set up to teach you how to be successful at a job, it's not set up to teach you how to be successful as a person, father, leader of a household, and a man.
Put some country in them. Learn to work on your own stuff and repair things, hunt, fish, understand nature and how to coincide with it, grow a garden.
Life(schooling) is set up to teach you how to be successful at a job, it's not set up to teach you how to be successful as a person, father, leader of a household, and a man.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 10:04 pm to Tiger1242
Get them each a copy of The Meditations and The Old Man and the Sea.
Lead.
Lead.
Posted on 4/19/24 at 10:04 pm to Tiger1242
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They should be more sensitive and more aware of other people’s issues without feeling bad or guilty for being masculine.
So you want your son to be a top?
Posted on 4/19/24 at 10:14 pm to Tiger1242
Leave the city…profit in the country
Posted on 4/19/24 at 10:30 pm to Tiger1242
He will follow the lead. Raise him to be a man and take care of the sphere of loved ones around him.
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