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re: Has the dating scene gotten worse lately?

Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:05 pm to
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
14216 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:05 pm to
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Quality dudes get lost in the mix.

It's all about the pics. Women are looking for 3 things: Height, fitness, and money. If your pics show that you're not short, fat, or broke, you've got decent odds. Not saying that you should take all of your photos on a yacht or standing next to a Ferrari at the dealership, but be dressed well enough to show that you're stable, but not flashy. No gym selfies, but wearing clothing sufficiently snug to demonstrate a reasonable level of fitness for your age. They're constantly bombarded by either losers or Chads that are just looking for a Pump 'n Dump. A regular guy who doesn't give either of those vibes can do quite well if he markets himself correctly.
Posted by GrizzlyAlloy
Member since Aug 2020
1698 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 11:19 am to
American women are fricked up. +78 on finding a foreign born woman. Mine is and she's the best thing to happen to me.
Posted by Krane
Member since Oct 2017
1041 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 11:20 am to
How does this have so many upvotes
Posted by bad93ex
Walnut Cove
Member since Sep 2018
27569 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 11:22 am to
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35, recently single. Having way less luck with the ladies this go round than I was before.



All you need is the 4 6's

#1 Be at least 6 foot tall
#2 Have a six-figure income
#3 Have a 6"+ member
#4 Have a 6-pack stomach
Posted by Krane
Member since Oct 2017
1041 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 12:22 pm to
Don’t even need them all
Posted by ArmyHogs
Your mom's house
Member since Feb 2012
9272 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 1:01 pm to
I’m 36 and recently (ish) single as well. Just got out of a 13 year marriage and had been out of the game forever. Humble brag, but I had no issue getting with a girl, my only problem is I felt like I cheated or did something wrong after we hooked up. But, the majority of the chicks on apps aren’t worth it. They all think they are 10s and won’t give you the time of day. The ones that you do talk to you are talking to no less than 20 other guys as well.
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 1:18 pm to
Threads like these make me thank God for my awesome wife.

I hope you guys find someone who will treat you right!
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61462 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 1:28 pm to
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But, the majority of the chicks on apps aren’t worth it. They all think they are 10s and won’t give you the time of day. The ones that you do talk to you are talking to no less than 20 other guys as well.


Women are full of it with their demands. The problem with dating apps is it gives males that do not fit their criteria no opportunity to break through their BS standards, as in breakthrough their checklist demands they seem to want. Real life interactions have allowed that ability in the past. Yes, there is the illusion of many choices, etc. Etc.


Women will date guys on the shorter end, or lower on the income scale, etc. They'll make exceptions but the apps simply don't make it possible because the only thing you know is looks.
This post was edited on 3/27/24 at 1:30 pm
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
14216 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 3:10 pm to
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+78 on finding a foreign born woman.

I can't argue against that. Unfortunately, I'm probably going to find myself single again sooner rather than later and there's no way I'm wading back into that cesspool. Doesn't mean that I'll necessarily be celibate for the rest of my life, but I won't be getting another wife. Probably not even a girlfriend.
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
14216 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 3:14 pm to
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#1 Be at least 6 foot tall
#2 Have a six-figure income
#3 Have a 6"+ member
#4 Have a 6-pack stomach

That's about 0.02% of the male population. The problem is that 100% of women feel that they're entitled to have one of them. The math doesn't quite add up unless they're willing to share.
Posted by Chicken
Jackassistan
Member since Aug 2003
22056 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 3:16 pm to
I have single guy friends that are nitpicky about the women they date...don't make this just about women.
Posted by lsut2005
Northshore
Member since Jul 2009
2612 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 4:13 pm to
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I've been out of the game since 2017, but it was easy pickings back then. If you were in shape, owned your own home, and made decent money, women would try to lock you down after the first date or two. Not sure how it is now, nor do I care to find out, but how much could it have really changed in 6 years?


About the same for me. It was like shooting fish in a barrel. As long as you were in shape, had a full head of hair and had a solid job it was easy. You most definitely did not have to be 6ft lol.
Posted by Westbank111
Armpit of America
Member since Sep 2013
2071 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 4:16 pm to
What SupaDave said 1000%

Once you date a Latina you won’t go back
To dating anyone else.

They have traditional values, family is #1, they take care of their man.

Just know when they go off, let them have some space & then the sex will be even better.

I can’t say enough about it, try it out!
Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
32730 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 4:16 pm to
If I was a single man I would be a passport bro, I'd go overseas or to South America and find me a lady that can cook, behaves, isn't woke and has a nice piece of arse
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
4935 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 4:19 pm to
quote:

All you need is the 4 6's

#1 Be at least 6 foot tall
#2 Have a six-figure income
#3 Have a 6"+ member
#4 Have a 6-pack stomach


shite, I'd marry that too.
Posted by Westbank111
Armpit of America
Member since Sep 2013
2071 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 4:20 pm to
I get a protein shake, hot tea and vitamins before I can even get the sleep out of my eyes in the morning.

At night, she puts cream on my face and when we go out for dinner and dancing, she fixes my hair and is just very affectionate in all the right ways.

And in the bedroom, it’s fireworks like you’ve never experienced!

They are mostly ambitious unless you get one that has been too Americanized, they appreciate the small things, they keep
Everything tidy and organized. It’s truly another level!

Highly recommend!
Posted by Mr Clean
New Iberia
Member since Aug 2006
49836 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 4:54 pm to
Let me travel back to 1995 and I'll let you know
Posted by ThePoo
Work
Member since Jan 2007
60634 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 5:03 pm to
Women already reluctantly get on these apps and get overwhelmed almost immediately and stop responding to pretty much everyone. They aren't talking to 20 dudes, 20 dudes are just in their messages and most of those dudes are trying to get arse pics or get their junk wet, not actually date

The dating app system is not really set up to help women find dates from actual quality individuals

They and men would probably find more success with a match making service, but that has a disadvantage a lot of dating apps don't, it is not free
This post was edited on 3/27/24 at 5:06 pm
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
3694 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 5:20 pm to
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I've been out of the game since 2017, but it was easy pickings back then. If you were in shape, owned your own home, and made decent money, women would try to lock you down after the first date or two. Not sure how it is now, nor do I care to find out, but how much could it have really changed in 6 years?



About the same for me. It was like shooting fish in a barrel. As long as you were in shape, had a full head of hair and had a solid job it was easy. You most definitely did not have to be 6ft lol.




Sounds good, but if yall’s dating app experiences were so good, so recently- i would seriously wonder about the caliber of women yall were getting dates with… We are all different, but im not interested in single mothers.. and im not interested in overweight women.. when people like myself and others advocate looking overseas to find women, or becoming ‘passport bros’ (even though i hate labels)- it’s becuase the women we as Western ‘average’ American guys can pull overseas is generally younger and hotter than what is available on dating apps , or even in real life- here in the US if you are a guy over, say, 35 years old .. any of us can pull some 38 yr old or 42 yr old chick with a dumpy arse and 2 or 3 kids- but who wants that ?
Posted by pelicansfan123
Member since Jan 2015
2023 posts
Posted on 3/27/24 at 5:24 pm to
For me, strangely, on Hinge, I will get a lot of matches on these apps around the same period of time and then will go a while with hardly any matches.I also feel like on some days, I'm "swiping right" on a lot of the women I see on Hinge, specifically, and then on another day I'll barely swipe right on anyone.

I have no idea if this is random, the algorithm screwing with me, or what.
This post was edited on 3/27/24 at 5:32 pm
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