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re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20

Posted on 8/26/23 at 2:54 pm to
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
25608 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 2:54 pm to
I’m gonna get out of the house tonight. I suppose that will do me some good.
Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
43884 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 3:01 pm to
Dude you should learn spanish. Get fluent and go have the time of your life in a latin country.
This post was edited on 8/26/23 at 3:01 pm
Posted by Quatrepot
Member since Jun 2023
4121 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 3:06 pm to
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I’m gonna get out of the house tonight. I suppose that will do me some good.
It will.

Getchu some strange, it will do you some good too.
Posted by DefensorFortis
East of Eden
Member since Jun 2022
613 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 3:13 pm to
You ever read Plato’s The Cave? That’s you brother…undo the shackles and walk out of the cave into the sunlight.

GOD loves you…seek Him and love Him.

South Tejas is awesome for sunshine and good people…find you a sweet Tejana girl with family from Mexico and live la vida loco.
Posted by Monahans
Member since Sep 2019
1257 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 3:21 pm to
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I know I’m a buzzkill. Nobody wants to be around me.

This is probably somewhat true, but only because you're depressed man. People don’t like hanging out with depressed people. Is what it is.

Let me tell you the real truth though. People don’t care about stuff like this nearly as much as we think. We're all in the same boat and we all have problems and low points in our lives. The people that know you understand youre going through it. Stop worrying about what they think, they want you to feel better.

Also, its important to keep yourself busy. One of the best things people in your position can do is go do some volunteer work with the intention of helping others and not receiving credit for it. You'll be surprised what kind of good medicine that is for an aching heart. Said a prayer for you brother, you're gonna be just fine.
Posted by Naked Bootleg
Member since Jul 2021
1918 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 3:35 pm to
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I’m gonna get out of the house tonight. I suppose that will do me some good.


What are you gonna do? Being around other people would be good.

Do you love yourself? If you don't know or can’t tell, think back to the all times you were proud of yourself. Or went through growing pains. Keep that stuff in your mind and you’ll get through this and probably be in a better place than you were before it got bad.

And go buy some new clothes & shoes. Freshen yourself up, you son of a bitch

This post was edited on 8/26/23 at 3:36 pm
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
25608 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 4:30 pm to
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Do you love yourself?


Right now? I don’t think so. I feel like I’m in the way. I’m struggling to believe in God. On my best days, I’m still a loner just taking up space. I’m just being honest.

Posted by TexasTiger33
Member since Feb 2022
13364 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 4:33 pm to
Try listening to some uplifting music like classical music and go to church tomorrow.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 4:42 pm to
I prayed to Joseph for you to find the strength to navigate your way through this and be the man you're capable of being.
Posted by pussywillows
Member since Dec 2009
5720 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 4:47 pm to
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I feel like I’m in the way.


when it comes to your family and friends, please try to remember that they are likely feeling helpless since they can't seem to help you...they aren't fed up with you...they just know they can't fix it, and they feel bad about that...

also, try to remember that you aren't the only one to ever feel this way...many people have experienced something like this, and have found a better life after...you have to grieve in your own way, but the longer you dwell on the negative things, the longer your mindset will be negative...try to find small things that lift your mood, even if it's for a very short time...
Posted by johnnyrocket
Ghetto once known as Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2013
9790 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 5:42 pm to
My best advice is find yourself.
What do you like?
Who do you want to be?
Spend time doing things that make you happy.
Posted by blueboxer1119
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2013
8106 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 5:45 pm to
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Dude you should learn spanish. Get fluent and go have the time of your life in a latin country


This.

Try Hotel Del Ray in San Jose, Costa Rica for a weekend.

That'll get your mind right.
Posted by crimsonsaint
Member since Nov 2009
37280 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 5:51 pm to
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Right now? I don’t think so. I feel like I’m in the way. I’m struggling to believe in God. On my best days, I’m still a loner just taking up space. I’m just being honest.


This too shall pass.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69469 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 5:56 pm to
If you dont go for Hispanics. Amsterdam is nice and your not breaking any laws.

It can be a great way to forget how bad the sex with your ex got towards the end.




They love American guys in Mexico, Costa Rica and Columbia. Short trips with no attachments and after a while you'll forget her.

Posted by wartiger2004
Proud LGB Supporter! JESUS IS LORD,
Member since Aug 2011
17878 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 6:35 pm to
You can make it through this. I went through a divorce after 18 years of marriage and she left on Christmas Day 2019 with my 10 year old son. It’s been tough but you can do it.
Posted by Quatrepot
Member since Jun 2023
4121 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 6:43 pm to
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she left on Christmas Day 2019 with my 10 year old son. It’s been tough but you can do it.
What a bitch!
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
34322 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 6:43 pm to
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If you dont go for Hispanics


No, he needs this. Don't just get one. Get three. Hell, if it is economical get 5+ line them up and go up and down the row. Your post nut clarity will be super charged
Posted by TutHillTiger
Mississippi Alabama
Member since Sep 2010
43700 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 6:57 pm to
The gym will help but u need to get into a Hobby ridiculously. Golf, hunting fishing anything to occupy your mind
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
25608 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 7:12 pm to
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If you dont go for Hispanics.


I’m a fan of the thicc Latina
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
25608 posts
Posted on 8/26/23 at 7:13 pm to
quote:

The gym will help but u need to get into a Hobby ridiculously. Golf


Oddly enough I dropped a 78 out on the golf course the other day. Best round ever.
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