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re: Why do men become so non-social as they age?

Posted on 4/19/22 at 6:20 pm to
Posted by Nicky Parrish
Member since Apr 2016
7098 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 6:20 pm to
Seen a lot, done a lot, heard a lot
Just not as easily impressed as before
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
49119 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 6:20 pm to
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yep except all my kids are grown. Nothing like waking up and thinking the wife is at work and what am I going to do today by myself

Our youngest is almost 16.

Man those days are awesome. I love having a day where I can do whatever I want and don't have to talk to anyone if I don't want to
This post was edited on 4/19/22 at 6:26 pm
Posted by The People
LSU Alumni
Member since Aug 2008
4221 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 6:21 pm to
Why do I need friends when I can converse with friends on the OT.

When I get disinterested with the conversation or tired, I simply put my phone down.

Pick it back up when I get bored or need some interaction.

Rinse. Repeat.
This post was edited on 4/19/22 at 6:22 pm
Posted by dgnx6
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
69375 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 6:23 pm to
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when everybody you meet in a day is an a-hole....YOU are the a-hole


Nah you probably lack serious self awareness and do a-hole things you don’t even know you are doing. Like not returning your cart, not using your blinker, not parking correctly. Just everyday shite that most of you fricks don’t even care you are fricking over people around you when doing it.
This post was edited on 4/19/22 at 6:25 pm
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26955 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 6:23 pm to
There's probably about 8 good friend's I still enjoy hanging out with...

all the others are just friends..
Posted by 632627
LA
Member since Dec 2011
12873 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 6:36 pm to
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It is also harder to bond and make new friends after the formative years


This. I’m not making any new friends. I have my longtime friends that while we have group threads to talk sports and bullshite, I barely see any more since we all have kids and our own shite to deal with. Things were different when we were all single and bar hopping 3 nights a week.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
22011 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 6:40 pm to
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I'm 44 and probably fit this description. Most of my lifelong friends don't live around here anymore. I mostly just hang out with my family.




Thats me, I joined the Lions Club to hangout, cook and drink a few times a month.
Posted by Klingler7
Houston
Member since Nov 2009
12074 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:31 pm to
I’m a single man in my 50’s. All I need is my family and maybe five real lifelong friends. I would like a few “lady friends” and that’s it !
Posted by LongueCarabine
Pointe Aux Pins, LA
Member since Jan 2011
8205 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:54 pm to
Because we get tired of the bullshite.
Posted by WhoDatNC
NC
Member since Dec 2013
11810 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:55 pm to
Because you get tired of dealing with stupid people. I know I do.
Posted by bayoubengals88
LA
Member since Sep 2007
19264 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 7:58 pm to
Stay in church. Otherwise, I dare say close friends are few and far between.
Posted by Edmt
77436
Member since Mar 2022
370 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 8:03 pm to
As you get older and wiser, you realize how stupid/annoying most people are. You don't have time, nor the desire to put up with that shite.
Posted by Mor Miles
Member since Apr 2017
426 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 8:04 pm to
It’s because men do not require social validation, and are secure and content with themselves and their own lives.
Posted by NOLAVOL16
Member since Jan 2022
874 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 8:04 pm to
Because their wives nag them if they try to hang out with their friends. Just becomes not worth the hassle after a while.
Posted by bayoubengals88
LA
Member since Sep 2007
19264 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 8:05 pm to
I’m 33 and have lunch with a guy in his 50s 4-5 times/year because we have common interest through our faith. Same thing with another guy in his mid 40s. Christ binds.
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5705 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 8:05 pm to
Because we don’t like people.
Posted by El Segundo Guy
SE OK
Member since Aug 2014
9690 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 8:05 pm to
I have friends that I guess I only get around to hanging out with just a few times a year. We always have fun when we nail down plans and I wonder why we don't do it more often.

I gave up making plans. I get up, make a percolator full of coffee, smoke a bowl and figure it out from there. 365 days a year.
Posted by lsufan112001
sportsmans paradise
Member since Oct 2006
10759 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 8:11 pm to
I’m 50. Which for most means I’m at the most responsible part of my life, family and workwise

As you promote thru your career, you become more tied into work. And after a couple of decades you’re just tired.
Of course some friends aren’t so successful and you get bothered by their troubles or stupid shite they’ve been doing for decades. So you avoid / lose some of them.

At mid age you’ve experienced death of friends and family too. That can wear on you too
This post was edited on 4/19/22 at 8:12 pm
Posted by WWII Collector
Member since Oct 2018
7186 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 8:12 pm to
Pink Floyd said it best in the the song "Time"

When I come home worn and tired, it's good to warm my bones beside the fire.
Posted by LCBayou
Member since Oct 2016
563 posts
Posted on 4/19/22 at 8:16 pm to
My high school coach told me one day that in my lifetime you will be able to count the number of true friends you have on one hand. He was right. I'm 67 now and I have two friends that I could count on regardless of the situation and they could count on me. To tell you the truth I'm fine with that. I no longer deal with the daily BS that goes on around everywhere you look. Give me 20 acres in the mountains in Montana and my dog and I'd be the happiest person in the world.
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