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re: Spinoff thread: Air Force Dilemma
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:12 am to moontigr
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:12 am to moontigr
quote:Not really. Girlfriend stays in America. Having a kid with a deadbeat is a red flag your son should heed.
Dilemma
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quote:Wait, what the hell is the problem then? Are these trailer park chronicles? Good lord stupid people make problems for themselves that they then "solve" with poor decisions.
They're not married, and I'm not sure he wants to get married, which further complicates things.
Oops, I forgot your son had kids with this girl. Disregard above. Wow, what a way to frick up your life.
This post was edited on 4/3/22 at 12:10 pm
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Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:14 am to moontigr
He doesn’t have to adopt the kids but the boys dad does have to sign paperwork for him to get a passport. The only way for the girlfriend and kids to go with him is for them to be cut into his orders. The only way that happens is if they are married.
I had a troop with this same dilemma and it was a nightmare.
TLDR… get the real dad to at least sign the passport paperwork. That’s assuming he marries the girl.
I had a troop with this same dilemma and it was a nightmare.
TLDR… get the real dad to at least sign the passport paperwork. That’s assuming he marries the girl.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:14 am to moontigr
Home schooling is the easy answer in this case. 
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:17 am to Blutarsky
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I’m sure there is some legal precedence to remove invisible dad fully from the child, if he is, in fact, completely out of the picture.
Judges really don't like to terminate parental rights except in cases of abuse, and sometimes not even then.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:19 am to moontigr
quote:well tell him to grow the frick up and quit trying to get his stepdad to seek out ways to skate around his mistakes. Good god. I’m speaking for the Joe Tax Payer here, “We don’t want to pay for these bastard mistakes. Have his mom, stepdad, and sperm donor foot the bill please.”
He's just too indecisive as to what he wants to do. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.
This post was edited on 4/3/22 at 10:20 am
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:21 am to moontigr
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That said, just because he shares kids with her doesn't mean they have to get married. He's just too indecisive as to what he wants to do. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.
He sounds like a huge piece of shite and this is coming from someone who is also in the Air Force.
I hope I never have to rely on your son for anything.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:21 am to Jim Rockford
He’s already paying child support through the Air Force right? Honestly, In a situation like this he is fricked either way. The Air Force isn’t going to let him frick around with his children and their mom. So he honestly may as well marry her, get the extra pay and benefits for them. And deal with any mess that creates later.
This post was edited on 4/3/22 at 10:23 am
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:23 am to TideSaint
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He sounds like a huge piece of shite and this is coming from someone who is also in the Air Force.
and how is this an "Air Force" dilemma?
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:23 am to moontigr
I wouldn't recommend adopting a child of someone he is not married to.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:25 am to Blutarsky
quote:dollars to doughnuts the tramp is still visiting dad#1 in pound town. Step-son is getting played like NBA2K22.
He's just too indecisive as to what he wants to do. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:29 am to moontigr
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Agreed. It was unexpected, unplanned, but it still happened. That said, just because he shares kids with her doesn't mean they have to get married. He's just too indecisive as to what he wants to do. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Unexpected and unplanned? That's not how that works. Irresponsible, sure. Unexpected is a nonsense excuse. Your boy needs to grow up in a hurry. He has a whole family he doesn't even know if he wants. People have been calling this trashy, and I agree. Selfish and immature is another good way to describe it.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:33 am to moontigr
They would have to marry for her son to get any type of benefits (healthcare, going to school on base, etc.). Thems the rules.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:34 am to SuperSaint
No offense bro but a heroin addict is the last person who should be calling anything or anyone trashy 
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:45 am to Saint Alfonzo
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Unexpected and unplanned? That's not how that works. Irresponsible, sure. Unexpected is a nonsense excuse. Your boy needs to grow up in a hurry. He has a whole family he doesn't even know if he wants. People have been calling this trashy, and I agree. Selfish and immature is another good way to describe it.
I agree 100%
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:47 am to moontigr
If the kid doesn't know his dad and has not communicated with him then he has "abandoned" his kid and no longer has parental rights.
If he still had his parental rights he doesn't have to give them up for someone else to adopt their kid, this is done with step kids all the time.
That being said, I see red flags all over...
If he still had his parental rights he doesn't have to give them up for someone else to adopt their kid, this is done with step kids all the time.
That being said, I see red flags all over...
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:52 am to armsdealer
Yeah, it seems like it could all be solved if they just got married, but my stepson isn't certain that he wants to marry this girl. I told him it's time for him to shite or get off the pot.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:52 am to moontigr
This is exactly what the chain of command is for... he should use it.
He also has free access to legal services.
This guy isn't very bright. I'm surprised he's AF and not a Marine.
He also has free access to legal services.
This guy isn't very bright. I'm surprised he's AF and not a Marine.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:55 am to moontigr
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Yeah, it seems like it could all be solved if they just got married, but my stepson isn't certain that he wants to marry this girl. I told him it's time for him to shite or get off the pot.
They should skip the getting married part and go straight to the divorce. If he wanted to marry this girl, he would have by now.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 10:57 am to Saint Alfonzo
Well, he's only 22. Why he got involved with a chick with a kid while he was in college, I'll never understand. I think his idea is that he'll stay in Germany 4 years, get his degree without any distractions, then come home and they can take things from there. This girl isn't going to wait around, though.
Posted on 4/3/22 at 11:07 am to moontigr
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It was unexpected, unplanned, but it still happened. That said, just because he shares kids with her doesn't mean they have to get married. He's just too indecisive as to what he wants to do. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Your piece of trash son is going to mess up his own kids.
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