re: What would you do if your daughter told you she is now a he and is trans?

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Would you consider women who mutilated their body with breast impacts or cosmetic surgery to be mentally ill as well? What about women who get their implants removed?

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They’re not trying to live or transition to another sex, they’re generally vain or insecure people….lol

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I know several kids that are trans that are from solid, southern, Christian, 2-parent households.

This world is fricked up, and colleges warp kids more than most realize.

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I agree wholeheartedly. I plan to heavily discourage my daughter from going to college.

Like all things, one's response to a perceived hurtful threat will depend on one's chosen Belief, and one's relative Faith in said Belief. We may be on the edge of Biblical 'Arrmageddon', so, "what would we do"?

Believing that "the hairs on your head are numbered", I.e., that "all things happen for the good of them that love God, I would accept whatever scenario that manifest, and act accordingly re Biblical Principles. The 'First Principle', being Love.

No Daughter here, but Granddaughters who I much love, and much appreciate their relative innocence and companionship. They will reap their Karmic reward as we all will from the start of this life, and then meet the challenges thereafter that will surely come, and frame their journey toward self-validation (via the education which is the basis for a valid choice). 'Adam and Eve' 101.

I would tell my Granddaughter that she will be inclined to be a part of her peer pack, to be loved, respected and appreciated, like her Pa has shown her. And that her peers will do almost anything for attention and inclusion into their 'pack'. Anything! Especially outrageous and silly stuff. I would tell her that she has a choice, to be her OWN unique version of her 'self' or be coerced into somebody else's. She can live above the crowd in freedom and be real or be a member of a group who professes to be free but are really prisoners of their cultural prison.

I would also tell her that Evil and Satan are real Powers. And that as such, those Powers do NOT like to see happy, smart and free people. As they are suffering from a lack of love, and seek attention to fill that space. They will seek to ruin your happiness, by telling you that they love, in order to trick you. And that Satan is being loosed upon this current World, that 'It's' spirit may be known to us all. This will hurt. Life and love will hurt. For a good reason. It's a 'riddle', go find the answer.

I would tell her to find her place/Purpose in life by being the most loving and happy person that she can be, by creating her 'self' as she would a piece of art. And that the challenge of this monumental challenge and task, will ultimately pay off more than even her Pa can currently imagine. She knows Love, she will know that is Truth. Extend that love to your World, and love more than expecting to be loved. Love is your choice, not theirs.

I would finally remind her that she has FOREVER to "go in and out and find pasture", as she adopts belief in Jesus as the ultimate 'Pa' who loves, shepherds and pushes us all toward eternal adventure and wonder. And that the more she believes, the more real Belief becomes. That applies to all beliefs. Even bad ones. We are in effect, a wondrous 'Dream'; the Dream of God, the 'Dream' being God. Loving version. BELIEVE! Perception becomes Reality.

And that her loving Pa, her beloved and lost animals and friends and family will be waiting in the next life, thanks to the mercy of Jesus.

Get real. Buck up. Enjoy the challenge. Pa will love your forever. She'll know down deep this is Truth.

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oh, thank God. It sucks being the only man here. C'mon and get some gloves, we have a shite load of yard work to do and after that I've gotta net out the pool and fix some things. You know how to restring a weedeater, right?"

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This man just discovered the cure

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I love my little girl and always will but I fear her catching the bug.

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talk to her now. Ive already had this talk with my 15 year old granddaughter. Some of her friends are into it.

College doesn't have to be an indoctrination center.
Online universities have all of the education and none of the social crap. Check out Western Governors University. The first time I met another student was at graduation and there were 3,000 of us there. They have a business college, IT, teaching and nursing colleges. And it's damn cheap, my whole 4yr degree was under $25k. I'm actually starting my masters on Wednesday. If I accelerate as planned, I'll get an MBA for less than $5k from a 4x regionally accredited university.

Keeping your daughter in an uneducated bubble is not the right answer. Long term, we need more educated young people who are impervious to woke rhetoric, to excel and outperform the current crop of Gen Z gender hijackers. In a few years they will all be vying for leadership positions-- in management and government. We need more educated voices in that generation and the one after it.

I would immediately politely excuse myself to think about things and pray heavily.
I don’t know what i would say exactly but I would maintain my mental focus on love but also standing by my beliefs, values and morals.
I’ve seen many of these tran behaviors change back even relatively soon so it’s important to balance love and compassion with morality.

One thing, I wouldn’t feed the delusion.

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My opinion hasn’t changed one iota from when I was 16, I just understand there’s no reason to be an a-hole about it.

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There's a pretty thin line between being an a-hole and allowing a small minority to dictate the lexicon. I don't know if you've noticed, but giving in on one thing is never enough and it's usually just rewarding a group for bullying. And you know what that leads to.