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re: Would you reach out to your son’s friend’s parents after something like this?
Posted on 1/3/25 at 12:51 am to StringedInstruments
Posted on 1/3/25 at 12:51 am to StringedInstruments
Just don't invite that kid to your don't next party.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 1:05 am to StringedInstruments
Drive on! If you coddle him forever, you have to pay the therapy bills.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 3:04 am to StringedInstruments
Go do something fun with your kid instead.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 3:17 am to StringedInstruments
Just don't let the friend kid come to your house and get rid of the gluten free food. I find that when friends leave me out or never text first, it's best to just drop them. Later on if I get rich, they won't be getting any favor, any job, anything. That's how I like to think of it. If they are ever in a position that they need something from me, I'd just ghost them. I know the bible says to do unto others as you would have done unto you. I find that life is best when I treat others how they treat me. If you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you. If not, then I won't be either.
If you ghost me when I text, but need me later, I'm going to ghost you.
If you ghost me when I text, but need me later, I'm going to ghost you.
This post was edited on 1/3/25 at 3:20 am
Posted on 1/3/25 at 4:03 am to StringedInstruments
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StringedInstruments
Stop strumming the eukele
and take your kid hunting, fishing, or to something men do.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 4:40 am to StringedInstruments
They probably wanted to keep it at an even number for teams purposes and he didn't make the cut
Limited slots for the party and someone had to go. Sucks but its the way it is
Limited slots for the party and someone had to go. Sucks but its the way it is
quote:Also sounds like you are dealing with a lunatic mom I'd stay clear
The kid has Celiac disease
This post was edited on 1/3/25 at 4:46 am
Posted on 1/3/25 at 5:01 am to StringedInstruments
Sounds like a great day to take your son hunting or fishing and get him out of town. Give him a reason he was not there in his head.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 5:09 am to StringedInstruments
Ask your wife's boyfriend what he would do in a situation like this.
Edit: Also, your kid's fricking weird & it's your fault. Deal with it.
Edit: Also, your kid's fricking weird & it's your fault. Deal with it.
This post was edited on 1/3/25 at 5:21 am
Posted on 1/3/25 at 5:42 am to StringedInstruments
And this is why there are participation trophies. Leave it alone and teach your son that life isn't fair.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 5:48 am to Pfft
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Take your kid to the other parents cars and let the air out of their tires.
Get even with those assholes
Buy your own paintball gun and go light their house up while they are off paintballing. Nobody will be home to catch you.
ETA: Next time celiac boy comes over, ask him if his mom is pregnant, because all of that weight gain. Refer to her as his "Hog mama" a few times. Then explain that his mom really shouldn't have more kids due to whatever genetic deficiency she has.
This post was edited on 1/3/25 at 6:00 am
Posted on 1/3/25 at 6:09 am to StringedInstruments
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You really don’t think it’s odd and concerning that one of my son’s best friends doesn’t invite him to his birthday party? It’s not like it’s just a school friend. I’m the cuck for wanting to figure this out?
Contacting the parents of the other kid will cause further embarrassment for your son. He'll become the object of ridicule if he is not already. You won't be doing him any favors.
Follow the advice that says take him out somewhere and do something cool with him as father and son.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 6:20 am to StringedInstruments
quote:She is right.
My wife says not to contact them
Best bet is to plan a super fun thing and invite everyone but that kid,
Posted on 1/3/25 at 6:29 am to St Augustine
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Hell of a lot of real estate between being an overbearing helicopter parent lobbying for a participation trophy invite and oblivious that your kid is about to take down a school.
Whole lot of real estate between being overbearing helicopter parent and just being a good parent.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 6:52 am to StringedInstruments
This is a valuable learning lesson for your son. People will use you and be nice to your face… call you a friend and then turn their backs if they think it helps them.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 7:05 am to StringedInstruments
You can't be serious.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 7:13 am to StringedInstruments
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I’m just confused why we as a society can’t form communities where we know and respect each other enough to communicate.
How do you think that communication goes? You think the dad is going to give you a courtesy call and say, “well, we could only afford to take 3 kids paintballing, and well, your son just isn’t good enough of a friend to ours. Sorry.”
You are supposed to be the adult here. And you want to complain to a parent about not getting a birthday invite? Listen to your wife - she was raised right.
We have too many babies raising babies now.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 8:03 am to StringedInstruments
This is a good thing. You don't want your kid being friends with gluten free homos.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 8:12 am to StringedInstruments
Call the dad and ask straight up. Let him know your son won't attend regardless, but wold like to know if issues persist.
Could simply be a #s game
Could simply be a #s game
Posted on 1/3/25 at 8:15 am to StringedInstruments
1.) Do not contact the dad. That would be worst case scenario.
2.) Throw out all of the gluten free food for the other kid.
3.) Figure out how to toughen your kid up and make him more socially aware because it sounds like other kids don’t like him for whatever reason. Take him to do cool stuff. Tell him to cut out weird shite. It’s not a big deal now but it will be when he’s a teenager getting left out of stuff.
2.) Throw out all of the gluten free food for the other kid.
3.) Figure out how to toughen your kid up and make him more socially aware because it sounds like other kids don’t like him for whatever reason. Take him to do cool stuff. Tell him to cut out weird shite. It’s not a big deal now but it will be when he’s a teenager getting left out of stuff.
Posted on 1/3/25 at 8:20 am to StringedInstruments
Absolutely don't step into your son's social situation. It won't make it better and likely will make it worse.
My son was 9 and had similar issue with a friend he's had since first grade. Friend could be a turd to him and other kids sometimes. Son didn't get invited to a party, but the mom reached out the day before saying they forgot. Told him it's better to not go and keep your distance if he's always going to be a crappy friend to you. So we declined. 2 years later, they have a much better relationship and think that kid learned his friends start to disappear when he's acting like a shithead.
My son was 9 and had similar issue with a friend he's had since first grade. Friend could be a turd to him and other kids sometimes. Son didn't get invited to a party, but the mom reached out the day before saying they forgot. Told him it's better to not go and keep your distance if he's always going to be a crappy friend to you. So we declined. 2 years later, they have a much better relationship and think that kid learned his friends start to disappear when he's acting like a shithead.
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