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re: Would you be ok with your child calling another man dad?
Posted on 5/29/16 at 8:06 pm to xxKylexx
Posted on 5/29/16 at 8:06 pm to xxKylexx
Depends on age of child.
I had a buddy whose little daughter who called every adult male who wasn't her dad "Paw Paw". Just how the kid processed adult males she trusted who weren't her dad.
I felt bad for her actual paw paw who was very much in her life. But he was 55-60 at the time and secure. He laughed and gave zero fricks.
I had a buddy whose little daughter who called every adult male who wasn't her dad "Paw Paw". Just how the kid processed adult males she trusted who weren't her dad.
I felt bad for her actual paw paw who was very much in her life. But he was 55-60 at the time and secure. He laughed and gave zero fricks.
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Posted on 5/29/16 at 8:06 pm to Supravol22
quote:
Your friends are trashy
What's also trashy are the men who are perfectly ok with another man's children calling him dad.
Posted on 5/29/16 at 8:08 pm to trom83
frick.
No.
No.
Posted on 5/29/16 at 8:51 pm to trom83
What trailer park do you live in?
Posted on 5/29/16 at 8:54 pm to tiger91
quote:
tiger91
Daddys issues are abundant
This post was edited on 5/29/16 at 8:54 pm
Posted on 5/29/16 at 8:55 pm to tiger91
quote:
I call my stepdad "daddy" but they got married when I was a little over four. Real father sent child support like clock work but other than a random visit here and there he wasn't part of my life. After years of marriage, she was pregnant with me and he decided he didn't want a wife and child. He doesn't DESERVE to be called dad.
"Stepdad" is the one who raised me, punished me when needed, supported me, helped with homework, toted me around when mom couldn't ... He's my daddy!
They both walked me down the aisle out of courtesy to real father but I kissed my "daddy" last.
I'm not even sure how I'll feel when my real father dies.
Eta: sorry I went off on a tangent. Your situation while the dad is in child's life is wrong.
Even though not 100% relevant to the op scenario, it was still a good point to bring up. It shows done great to the overall issue.
If the dad's involved, and a stepdad comes along, then a nickname is fine, but not dad. If it's just boyfriends, like in the op scenario, it's screwed up. Maybe if it's a boyfriend of a couple years, then maybe a nickname, but still not dad.
To have multiple boyfriends over the years, and have their kid call them dad is fricked up, and probably bad for the child's emotions. Thats the kind of stuff that can lead to abandonment issues.
Posted on 5/29/16 at 9:06 pm to tiger91
quote:
Recently saw him and my mind is still not right. I have to take meds when he does want to visit. That's sad I know.
#women
Posted on 5/29/16 at 9:08 pm to trom83
Nope.
There is a reason they call her "My daughter".
I do get it if a step-dad raised the child with an absent dad. Having a child call a boyfriend dad while the dad is in the picture is 1975 single-wide trashy.
There is a reason they call her "My daughter".
I do get it if a step-dad raised the child with an absent dad. Having a child call a boyfriend dad while the dad is in the picture is 1975 single-wide trashy.
Posted on 5/29/16 at 9:32 pm to trom83
No
Posted on 5/29/16 at 9:38 pm to trom83
I call my step dad daddy, but my step sister calls my mom by her first name. My father is deceased and my step sister's mom is not. My mom and step dad have been married 40+ years. My brothers step kids call him by his first name.
Posted on 5/29/16 at 10:15 pm to trom83
Your few friends are low class sluts. No wonder they are single.
Poor kids.
Poor kids.
Posted on 5/29/16 at 10:32 pm to trom83
quote:
OT thoughts?
Trashy as hell, you and your friends.
Posted on 5/29/16 at 10:49 pm to Jake88
I call my stepdad dad. He raised me since I was 3 with my mom. My dad is still in my life but worked all over the country, he got remarried and spent more time with his knew wife and my half sisters.
This post was edited on 5/30/16 at 2:18 am
Posted on 5/30/16 at 8:34 am to Rize
Butthurt.
Back then, women were able to be total pieces of shot to get paid. Your mom was probably a total bitch when he tried to see you and he had a life to continue.
Back then, women were able to be total pieces of shot to get paid. Your mom was probably a total bitch when he tried to see you and he had a life to continue.
Posted on 5/30/16 at 8:39 am to NoHoTiger
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I call my step dad daddy, but my step sister calls my mom by her first name. My father is deceased and my step sister's mom is not. My mom and step dad have been married 40+ years. My brothers step kids call him by his first name.
Talk about 1975 single wide
Posted on 5/30/16 at 8:43 am to trom83
Hell no
Posted on 5/30/16 at 8:59 am to GeeOH
No he was too busy partying and chasing pussy.
Posted on 5/30/16 at 9:43 am to trom83
no
Posted on 5/30/16 at 9:51 am to LSU alum wannabe
Posted on 5/30/16 at 9:52 am to trom83
Depends:
I'm dead, my wife has moved on and found an awesome guy who treats my daughters wonderfully.
SURE
Wife and I split, my wife has moved on and found an awesome guy who treats my daughters wonderfully.
NO. And The new husband should respect that as well. He should correct my daughters if they do say that.
I'm dead, my wife has moved on and found an awesome guy who treats my daughters wonderfully.
SURE
Wife and I split, my wife has moved on and found an awesome guy who treats my daughters wonderfully.
NO. And The new husband should respect that as well. He should correct my daughters if they do say that.
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