re: Will you ever remarry?

I’m married, so it’s hypothetical, but if my wife died I’d be remarried inside of a year. I feel sure of that. And I just turned 63.

I'm 63, married 8 years, been with my wife for 12. If something happened and we were no longer together, no way would I get married again.

My wife is great, my best friend. Being with her is the happiest I've been in my life. I truly found a unicorn, especially considering the way alot of ya'll talk about your spouses here. I'm retired and she still works, is 8 years younger than I. We never argue. We just finished a two week vacay to the West Coast, had a blast (no kids went along). I would have no expectations that I'd be able to find someone as special as she is again.

I would have no problem finding companionship as I'm an OT tall, fit, successful, social dancing male. I know people whereever I go in my city and have no problem making friends.

After my previous marriage, I found out what it was like being alone. I was good with it. But you ask if I would launch myself into trying to replace my wife and what we have? No, I would not. I highly doubt that is even possible.

Happily married here... if I outlive my husband I'd rather be alone or find another woman to be room mates with. Zero desire to build a second life with a different man. My first and only is my bestest friend in the world.

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40 and 50 something that say you have no desire, how do get p*ssy?

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It's extremely easy with the apps. Women that have been divorced in that age range are pretty damned horny. Just know that not everyone on Tinder is looking to just get down, and not everyone on Hinge and the others are only looking for a relationship. It took me a while to learn that. An example, a 40 year old and I got to talking, and she made it clear I need to "visit" her in College Station at least every two weeks, and she'll take care of the hotel room. That was less than 90 minutes since we first matched. And she told me no air chokes, only blood chokes, among other things. I'm dead serious. 90 minutes.

If you're not willing to do apps, your chances go down a lot, but I'd suggest going to a bar with a decent crowd during the afternoon/early evening, and going at least once every two weeks.

Same!

Married three times, but my Korean wife is the best and the love of my life. Korean women know how to take care of their husband.

Some of you are very full of shite, I’m sure I’ll get downvoted for it, but most people that were in very long relationships miss having someone when they lose them and do it again. Frankly some way too fast. If you are married 30 years to a good person than you are likely going to want that again, I don’t care what you say.

I say this, as both of my wife’s parents have been married to someone else, divorced, and through relationships while my wife and I have been together. Men that can take care of themselves are the best off being alone, but most women ultimately want the safety and companionship no matter the age of having someone else around. But I’ve hated watching my wife’s mom go through some crappy relationships in her 60s and 70s. She is an idiot, and was basically a mistress twice to men that were all but divorced and then shockingly didn’t want anything serious right after officially signing…but that’s a different story. Living alone sucks if you have a great spouse. I wouldn’t be in a hurry to not be alone if my wife passed away, but I certainly would want to eventually find companionship and someone to share the rest of my life with.

Idk

I’m 50
Been married twice.

Never say what you’ll never do.

I’ve gone on dates with 5-6 girls since the divorce. .. this summer.
None of which was worth a second date.

So idk.
I really don’t.

Going through one right now it looks like. I have no intention of remarrying if the divorce happens.

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Any of you older guys feel this way?

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I have never been married…and I don’t regret it at all. My life is simplistic and care free, and thst is just the way I like it. When I see the drama and crap my buddies go through to attend a simple lsu football game or hunting trip, it makes me glad I never married.