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re: wife apparently cheated on husband 20 years ago before marriage
Posted on 6/19/21 at 5:21 am to Lincoln Dawson
Posted on 6/19/21 at 5:21 am to Lincoln Dawson
My big question is why is she telling him this right now?
That is the key issue.
Women are planners and they focus on details. She is letting this 20 year old secret out for a specific purpose.
1. To relieve guilt?
2. To initiate a divorce that she comes out looking like a victim?
3. To get revenge on him because she feels like he has harmed her more?
She is a conniving wife. He needs to figure it out ASAP.
That is the key issue.
Women are planners and they focus on details. She is letting this 20 year old secret out for a specific purpose.
1. To relieve guilt?
2. To initiate a divorce that she comes out looking like a victim?
3. To get revenge on him because she feels like he has harmed her more?
She is a conniving wife. He needs to figure it out ASAP.
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Posted on 6/19/21 at 6:31 am to EuphoricSSP
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I bet she gives good head, the married ones always want a big one with no strings attached.
You’re either 12 or an incel
Posted on 6/19/21 at 6:36 am to Lincoln Dawson
Let that whore go. Speaking from experience, if she cops to doing it once, there’s a line out the door of ones she’s never gonna admit to. There are too many other birds out there to put up with that shite. Leave.
Posted on 6/19/21 at 6:38 am to Kraut Dawg
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Sounds like deflection to me
She wants the fight
Posted on 6/19/21 at 6:39 am to SECdragonmaster
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My big question is why is she telling him this right now?
She has new dick is this not the OT?
Posted on 6/19/21 at 6:50 am to dbeck
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Sounds like she was young and dumb. Some people do change and some grow up, especially after having kids. If he never suspected anything until she told him then it was probably a one time deal just sowing some wild oats. Either that or she had been cheating on him this entire time and somehow never raised suspicion. First option seems more likely. I've never subscribed to the "once a cheater, always a cheater" theory. I've had friends who cheated, realized they fricked up and the grass wasn't greener and they vowed to never cheat again.
You’re an enormous cuck if you feel this way. My woman cheats on me once she no longer exists and never existed
Posted on 6/19/21 at 6:59 am to Lou
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If she truly loved and cared about him, she wouldn't have told a secret from 20 years ago that does nothing but hurt him.
If she truly loved and cared for him she would not have screwed the other dude(s).
Posted on 6/19/21 at 7:08 am to SECdragonmaster
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My big question is why is she telling him this right now?
That is the key issue.
Women are planners and they focus on details. She is letting this 20 year old secret out for a specific purpose.
i once recall a story where a very old couple (in their late 70's or early 80s) like this. the woman cheated on her husband 50 plus years ago with his best friend. the best friend died and she was on her death bed. she had asked for advice from a marriage therapist and the advice the therapist gave was to let this lie die with her because it would not serve any good purpose to her living husband.
Posted on 6/19/21 at 7:18 am to Lincoln Dawson
If my wife was on her death bed and she confessed to me that she cheated on me with my best friend, the pillow and I would make sure she met her maker a little sooner.
This post was edited on 6/19/21 at 7:20 am
Posted on 6/19/21 at 7:25 am to Lincoln Dawson
Once a whore always a whore
Posted on 6/19/21 at 7:29 am to Lincoln Dawson
Marriage counseling three months before the marriage? Shoulda been a red flag to hold off if nothing else. Retard.
Posted on 6/19/21 at 7:31 am to Lincoln Dawson
Someone needs to investigate this whole situation. Give my the lady’s cell number and I will find out and report back to the guy.
Posted on 6/19/21 at 7:32 am to DeltaTigerDelta
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If she truly loved and cared for him she would not have screwed the other dude(s).
She shouldn’t have gone bragging about it.
Posted on 6/19/21 at 7:37 am to Lincoln Dawson
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i once recall a story where a very old couple (in their late 70's or early 80s) like this. the woman cheated on her husband 50 plus years ago with his best friend. the best friend died and she was on her death bed. she had asked for advice from a marriage therapist and the advice the therapist gave was to let this lie die with her because it would not serve any good purpose to her living husband.
I think there is a disconnect between men and women on this. Women tend to think putting this shiite out there is the best way to recover from it and help the relationship going forward (when really they're just feeling guilty and want to get something off their chest). Men would rather just never know, because there is literally no way that information wouldn't eat us from within.
It's why women will ask the "do you think she's pretty?" type questions, and men won't. I'm well aware that my wife may find more than 1 male on this planet physically attractive (as I myself will thoroughly review babe threads on the OT). However, I have no actual interest in figuring out who those males are. I'm actively better off and happier never knowing, so I'm not going to ask.
Posted on 6/19/21 at 7:37 am to Lou
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Honestly, i think this is a sign that she wants out, but doesn't want to accept the responsibility of ending it.
This is how I read the situation. Why bring it up now? Because it's a good way to jumpstart the end, which is what she really wants. If it really was a one-time thing 20 years ago, and the marriage is actually good, you take that shite to the grave. She's sabotaging the marriage now because she wants out. I'd give her what she wants. There's the door, whore.
Posted on 6/19/21 at 7:39 am to patnuh
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Marriage counseling three months before the marriage?
i actually think this is a good idea, before, during, and even if separated.
most people don't know how to communicate without offending and having the other person shut down, accomplishing nothing productive or positive. if marriage counseling can help with this, i am all for it.
of course, two people have to really want to do it to make it work.
Posted on 6/19/21 at 7:50 am to Lincoln Dawson
Only hard step is the first one
This post was edited on 6/19/21 at 1:06 pm
Posted on 6/19/21 at 9:12 am to Pooturd
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You’re an enormous cuck if you feel this way. My woman cheats on me once she no longer exists and never existed
My ex cheated on me while I was out of town and I threw her arse out before I made it back home. But we were already on rocky ground to begin with.
If they've had a great marriage with kids for 20 years then that's different.
Posted on 6/19/21 at 9:17 am to Lincoln Dawson
Divorce is the only answer
Posted on 6/19/21 at 9:26 am to Lincoln Dawson
I worked with this chick when I was in college. We were friendly and flirted a lot. One night we agreed to go to her place after our shift ended.
Long story short, we went to her place and banged. During the blowjob, there was a knock at the door. It was some girlfriend of hers. Her GF stayed at the door, but I heard her say "OMG you got a guy in there?" They talked for a second (I didn't listen) and she came back and we continued our banging.
A few days later I was at work and she came in with some dude. She's like "I would like to introduce you to my fiance." I was like Oh shite. I said "When's the wedding?" and she said "Next month." It was pretty fricking awkward.
Now I know why her GF was so surprised she had a dude in her apartment.
Long story short, we went to her place and banged. During the blowjob, there was a knock at the door. It was some girlfriend of hers. Her GF stayed at the door, but I heard her say "OMG you got a guy in there?" They talked for a second (I didn't listen) and she came back and we continued our banging.
A few days later I was at work and she came in with some dude. She's like "I would like to introduce you to my fiance." I was like Oh shite. I said "When's the wedding?" and she said "Next month." It was pretty fricking awkward.
Now I know why her GF was so surprised she had a dude in her apartment.
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