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re: Why would a man marry a divorcee with kids?

Posted on 10/11/26 at 5:09 pm to
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
8030 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 5:09 pm to
There will be some massive cope to that but it’s 100% true. P is undefeated. Virtue is irreplaceable
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
62148 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 5:44 pm to
What about a divorced man with kids marries a divorced woman with kids? Is that ok?
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
43070 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 6:11 pm to
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Not sure, but I’m seeing someone that is head over heels for me and can’t have children of her own. She adores my daughter.

I remember being torn up reading your posts about that. Glad you got someone who looks at you and your daughter that way.
Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Waltzing Between the Raindrops
Member since Oct 2007
25189 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 6:13 pm to
My brother married his now wife a few years ago. My blood nephew and her son were best friends and played on the same football and basketball teams. My brother and she sat next to each other at every game. They liked each other. The boys encouraged it. They got hitched.

Not that big of a deal. Sometimes having someone is better than being alone.
Posted by Houston problem
Member since Oct 2026
196 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 8:44 pm to
Giving up your freedom for a Pre Owned Vagina and another man's kids doesn't make sense to me.
The divorce rate for 2nd marriages is 65%.
Gee what could possibly go wrong?
She already Rug Pulled one husband.
This post was edited on 10/11/26 at 8:55 pm
Posted by Megasaurus
Member since Dec 2017
1696 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 8:50 pm to
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Why would a man marry a divorcee with kids?


for the same reasons we jump out of planes, experiment with drugs ( while we were young ) drink shitty liquor, bang ugly chicks, and all of the other stupid shite we've done..

Because AT THAT TIME, it seemed like a good idea..

that's all i got

Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40633 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 8:53 pm to
And she trys really hard...





IYKWIM.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
14272 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 8:56 pm to
It depends hugely on why she is divorced.
Posted by andwesway
Zachary, LA
Member since Jun 2016
3926 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 9:04 pm to
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Her ex, the guy that banged her for years, will forever be in her/your life because of the kids.
Every sporting event, there he is, the real dad.
Every school function, there he is, the guy that railed her when she was young and hot.
Graduations and Weddings, there he is again.



This isn't always the case. I've been with my wife for 11 years and have a 16-year-old stepdaughter, plus my own. Stepdaughter barely spends ANY time ime with the sperms donor and he doesn't show up for shite. He barely even calls.
This post was edited on 10/11/26 at 9:48 pm
Posted by LSUEnvy
Hou via Lake Chas
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 10/11/26 at 9:05 pm to
Alter
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
45026 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 9:06 pm to
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Giving up your freedom for a Pre Owned Vagina and another man's kids doesn't make sense to me.



After a certain age, most of the dating pool is going to have some baggage. Are you suggesting that 40-60 yr old divorcees date 20 something’s?
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
34011 posts
Posted on 10/11/26 at 9:17 pm to
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two kids by two different husbands
That would be a legitimate "Hell no" for me and a legitimate thread topic for the board.

I used to go to an old girlfriend's family's holiday affairs. Sometimes we would see my gf's really hot cousin who had a different date for everything and three kids by three different dads. She was a dancer at The Million Dollar Saloon in Dallas in the 80's.
Posted by LsuNav
Sacramento
Member since Mar 2008
2488 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 3:01 am to
My ex-wife married a good guy. I didn’t have any issues with him as a stepfather. He loves my kids and my kids care about him. Even after he and my wife got the divorced. He’s still a part of their lives. He’s far from a simp. Love is additive not deductive.
Posted by Houston problem
Member since Oct 2026
196 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 8:30 am to
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My ex-wife married a good guy. I didn’t have any issues with him as a stepfather. He loves my kids and my kids care about him. Even after he and my wife got the divorced. He’s still a part of their lives. He’s far from a simp. Love is additive not deductive.


Sounds more like a cautionary tale

Why did you and your wife divorce?
Why did your wife get divorced from the "good guy" that she married after you?
So she blew up two marriages to "good guys" and your takeaway is "Love is additive not deductive"?
My takeaway would be "don't get married" or at a minimum "be careful who you marry, and get a prenup".
This post was edited on 10/12/26 at 8:55 am
Posted by LSUbacchus
Portland, Oregon
Member since Jul 2012
1882 posts
Posted on 10/12/26 at 9:36 am to
I also think people run to divorce too quickly when things get hard. Then suddenly want to remarry and divorce again when things get hard again. There are obviously circumstances for it but majority of the time it’s “oh I’m not happy and it’s hard” let’s split.
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