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re: why millennial/gen Y dads are the best

Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:24 am to
Posted by YouAre8Up
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:24 am to
quote:

for the most part, gen X and baby boomer dads took no real part in their kids life


Speak for yourself.
Posted by GoIrish02
Member since Mar 2012
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:24 am to
FYI, according to the census records and birth rates:

Gen Y (ages 26 ~ 38) =\= Millennials (25~26 and under)

Baby boom: 1946 - 1964 (WWII - introduction of the Pill), about 72 million born.

Gen X: 1965 ~ 1978, significant decrease in birth rate.

Generation Y/MTV generation: 1978 ~ 1990/91, about 75 million born. Actually bigger than baby boomers generation.

Millennials: Born after the birth rate peaked/dropped below replacement level in 1990~91. People roughly 25-26 and younger, many of whom live with their parents, and don't have kids or own homes.

We're about to face some significant societal changes, in terms of the labor force and the economy as boomers retire. But baby boomers but don't really have enough money to retire per capital, there aren't enough middle aged professionals to replace them, or a reluctance to promote "younger" replacements (under 40), plus a much smaller millenial generation of college graduates unwilling/unable to buy houses, have children, do all those traditional things that define the American dream, and on which our society depends and functions.
This post was edited on 1/18/17 at 11:30 am
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:26 am to
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gen X begins in 1961 unless i'm mistaken
It's pretty widely accepted that Boomers go until '64.

Posted by ellishughtiger
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:27 am to
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I never appreciated how awesome my dad was until I got older. Alot of yall had some shitty fathers.


Me either. I use to think it was lame when he went to Dead shows when I was really young. Now he is what you would call a jazz fest dad. And it's awesome.
Posted by LoveThatMoney
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:30 am to
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Why are you talking in the past tense in respect of Gen X parenting


Because people over thirty five shouldn't be having children obviously
Posted by RobbBobb
Member since Feb 2007
34398 posts
Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:32 am to
No, but it sounds like youre never gonna teach them to hunt or fish. Ya know, just in case

Spending time doing those things was far more valuable (and personable) than him sitting in the stands of my games, while an overgrown teenager screamed at me for being out of position
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:35 am to
So, you didn't play sports? Nerd.
Posted by elposter
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:38 am to


I had always heard Gen X went to 1980. Never heard it stopped at 1976. I was born in '78 so I guess I'm on the fringe of both, Gen X according to some sources, Millennial according to others.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:38 am to
It is true. I have an 8 month old and I gave already changed more diapers than my dad did his entire life.

My mom said he had my oldest sister at home by himself once, and he called her telling her she needed to come home and change her diaper
Posted by Lawyered
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:39 am to
My dad still works about 18 hours a day and multiple jobs and going on maybe 2-3 hours of sleep maybe, he was always at my baseball games growing up while on the way to work to his night shift job at FedEx. He didn't have to but that always meant a lot to me .
Posted by junkfunky
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:40 am to
It's amazing how many OTers had worthless deadbeats for parents.
Posted by RobbBobb
Member since Feb 2007
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:41 am to
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So, you didn't play sports? Nerd.

What part of him sitting in the stands watching me play didn't you understand?

I also said between the two, I preferred the solo time, where he imparted knowledge to directly me. Not some stranger try to impart knowledge to me while he looked on

And may father was a world class athlete, included in a natl hall of fame
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:42 am to
You must have witnessed visitation weekend.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:42 am to
He never said his dad was a deadbeat

There has def been a societal shift in parenting as a father

It used to be unheard of for a father to be in the delivery room for example. Now you have men missing work/sports to be in there
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:43 am to
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It is true. I have an 8 month old and I gave already changed more diapers than my dad did his entire life.

My mom said he had my oldest sister at home by himself once, and he called her telling her she needed to come home and change her diaper




My wife's cousin had a baby 13 days after we did. Last week we were talking about something, and he didn't know what gripe water was.

It blew my mind how you could have an infant and not know bout something so common.
Posted by mikelbr
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:43 am to
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. i bring my daughter to ballet practice after work and i see other dads there.


Congratulations on figuring out how to get some side pussy. Bravo, ya late dumb arse.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:44 am to
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It used to be unheard of for a father to be in the delivery room for example. Now you have men missing work/sports to be in there


Weird, it was common amongst my peers
This post was edited on 1/18/17 at 11:45 am
Posted by double d
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Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 1/18/17 at 11:44 am to
I'm a boomer dad and did all the stuff you mentioned all the time. My dad who was born before WWII did the same. It's not a generational thing, it's about being the best parent you can be no matter when you were born.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
26317 posts
Posted on 1/18/17 at 12:01 pm to
As a Gen Y dad of a little girl...

quote:

activities the dads were interested in....fishing, hunting, sports, etc.

I try to get her into doing all of those with me...and slowly she's warming up to sports and outdoors more

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bring my daughter to ballet practice

Couldn't stand being trapped in a dance studio waiting room with a bunch of dance moms gossiping for an entire hour. Most of them should've considered putting themselves in dance class to burn off some calories.

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young dads bringing their kids to the zoo without the mom

Because the zoo is cool...except for the middle of the summer (thats the time of year the aquarium is for)

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young dad last weekend shoe shopping with his little girl

Because that young dad knows how to save money. If he lets mom take the little girl shoe shopping, odds are that mom is going to end up buying a few pairs for herself too.

Posted by Dandy Lion
Member since Feb 2010
51408 posts
Posted on 1/18/17 at 12:03 pm to
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