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re: Why do so many women have issues with their husbands/boyfriends watching porn?

Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:57 pm to
Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
47807 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:57 pm to
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I don't need to prove my life to you. Have fun jerking it


But yet you are on here judging and gloating like you are dr Ruth? Hahah.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37878 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:57 pm to
Because porn is the worst thing to ever happen to society.
It makes men self-concious, it paints unrealistic items onto women, it destroys sex drives, and it takes your urge from your wife.
Porn and social media are where our world went into the shitter.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20102 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:58 pm to
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yes I do I guess. If someone watches a little porn before fricking to get the blood going I guess I dont see the big deal. Everyone is different I guess.


I have heard a lot of gay guys do this.
Posted by EZE Tiger Fan
Member since Jul 2004
55454 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:58 pm to
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I could never imagine a situation where I'm chatting up the boys about having sex with my wife, nor could I ever imagine a situation where they are divulging that to me.


Some of us have close friends that we go to for advice. There is nothing wrong with that at all.

Lot better than going to marriage counseling where you will spend the first six months blaming the man for everything that goes wrong while nothing he needs gets addressed. Lived through that bullshite too and wasted thousands of dollars.
Posted by WhiteMandingo
Member since Jan 2016
7932 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:58 pm to
Because they don't like they're
husband's fantasizing about fricking another woman, because they won't do the things men would like. Also an average house wife isn't doing arse to mouth ect.
Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
47807 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:01 pm to
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I have heard a lot of gay guys do this.


Fill us in… I doubt many of us have gay guys in our circle.
Posted by RoyalAir
Detroit
Member since Dec 2012
7496 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:03 pm to
Spicy hot take:

Porn gives men unrealistic expectations. They think something is wrong with them when real life women aren't always primed and ready to rock, or ti fulfill varying degrees of unrealistic expectations.

Hiyeva, women have no problem with Pinterest and HGTV, which does the exact same thing regarding unrealistic expectations to their husbands/providers. JoJo and that kind of shite has ruined women just as much, if not moreso, than porn has ruined men.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108011 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:06 pm to
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Lot better than going to marriage counseling where you will spend the first six months blaming the man for everything that goes wrong while nothing he needs gets addressed. Lived through that bullshite too and wasted thousands of dollars.


Then you had a shitty marriage therapist.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20102 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:06 pm to
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Spicy hot take:

Porn gives men unrealistic expectations. They think something is wrong with them when real life women aren't always primed and ready to rock, or ti fulfill varying degrees of unrealistic expectations.

Hiyeva, women have no problem with Pinterest and HGTV, which does the exact same thing regarding unrealistic expectations to their husbands/providers. JoJo and that kind of shite has ruined women just as much, if not moreso, than porn has ruined men.


This makes a lot of sense.

Porn watching really affects the lads that havent been laid yet.

Most of these women in porn have phenomenal bodies and take care of themselves to look tip top McGoo.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89130 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:08 pm to
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Lot better than going to marriage counseling where you will spend the first six months blaming the man for everything that goes wrong while nothing he needs gets addressed. Lived through that bullshite too and wasted thousands of dollars.


As a fellow counseling alum, I find this very hard to believe as well.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89130 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:09 pm to
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gloating like you are dr Ruth? Hahah.


You brought up my endurance, not me.
Posted by VolSquatch
First Coast
Member since Sep 2023
8366 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:11 pm to
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Watching porn is bad for your brain and bad for intimacy with your wife.



Its not a coincidence all of this cuck and polyamory shite blew up in the past 10 or so years. A generation that was fed porn from the time they could jerk off finally grew up.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108011 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:13 pm to
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Coconut oil


You're better going with a water-based formula that helps balance Ph. But you're not incorrect. It can be effective for a lot of women.

quote:

I don't always want to mow the yard, but I do it


While I'll always advocate for this in any healthy relationship, it doesn't necessarily negate the estrogen drop that causes the libido decrease. That's generally when someone needs HRT (which unfortunately isn't always available for women who have higher risk of breast cancer).

The larger point is if a woman that's menopause/perimenopause age is having issues with intimacy, talk to her about it. And she likely needs to see her doctor for help with it if what you suggested isn't working (or there's bigger issues there).
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 1:14 pm
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
20406 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:17 pm to
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Fill us in… I doubt many of us have gay guys in our circle jerk.
Posted by bdavids09
Member since Jun 2017
1511 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:18 pm to
I don’t think young men are just going to turn down sex because they watched porn. I could watch porn all day and still be down for sex anytime
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20102 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:22 pm to
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I don’t think young men are just going to turn down sex because they watched porn. I could watch porn all day and still be down for sex anytime


Thats not what anyone is saying young lad.

The more aggressive the porn gets that you are watching can affect your performance in the bedroom as your need for something new or exciting to you has to happen in order for you to climax.

Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
47807 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:24 pm to
just watch mature porn and it keeps the expectations in line hahaha
Posted by bdavids09
Member since Jun 2017
1511 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:36 pm to
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Thats not what anyone is saying young lad. The more aggressive the porn gets that you are watching can affect your performance in the bedroom as your need for something new or exciting to you has to happen in order for you to climax.

Oh I understand. That’s certainly true
Posted by MemphisGuy
Germantown, TN
Member since Nov 2023
14675 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:40 pm to
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Why is it such a big deal for them?
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20102 posts
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:48 pm to
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ote:
Why is it such a big deal for them?


Women are also insanely jealous of how in shape these porn stars are.

They are more fit than most normal women. I know it rubs them the wrong way.
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