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re: Why do so many women have issues with their husbands/boyfriends watching porn?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:35 pm to diat150
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:35 pm to diat150
quote:You really need an explanation on why jerking it to random people having unrealistic sex is bad for intimacy in your relationship?
why in the world would you think this?
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Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:35 pm to JohnnyKilroy
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None of us know what actually went down in your relationship and you don't know what goes down in anyone else's.
It's also worth noting that something like 6.5 million women in the US have endometriosis (and likely more that are undiagnosed). With similar numbers of women with PCOS in the US.
Then throw in perimenopause and menopause once you get into your 40s and up. And I've heard some real horror stories from women whose OB/GYNs weren't well versed in treating the drop in libido in those stages or vaginal dryness (which also leads to decreased intimacy).
Sometimes it's not as simple for women as just not wanting to have sex.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:36 pm to Nayab
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men don't use porn to replace intimacy, its to supplement it
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:37 pm to Nayab
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men don't use porn to replace intimacy, its to supplement it, women don't always wanna frick like men do so sometimes you gotta take matters into your own hands
There's lots of evidence out there of porn developing unrealistic expectations in sex for younger men.
There are definitely men who end up addicted to it.
Healthy men don't replace intimacy with it. But not all men are healthy.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:37 pm to LNCHBOX
People want to know why everyone's brains are fried but see no issue with jackhammer anal orgies being one incognito tab away
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:37 pm to Nayab
See the flesh and blood woman in front of you, my dude.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:37 pm to Nayab
Why would you be in a relationship where your needs aren't being met?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:38 pm to JohnnyKilroy
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one of us know what actually went down in your relationship and you don't know what goes down in anyone else's.
Correct, that's why I said above I refuse to judge any man that does. You never know what led to what.
Either way, I am in a real relationship now with someone that actually likes me, so I'm good. Just saying I've lived through both sides of this. I also have several friends whose wives refuse to sleep with them for whatever reason they can come up with at the moment. They all watch a lot of porn to get by. Either that or go crazy.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:39 pm to EZE Tiger Fan
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Correct, but what about the poor married men whose wives absolutely refuse to satisfy them sexually? In many cases, they refuse to even try. My ex would use sex as leverage to get whatever she wanted, then would pull it away like Lucy with the football. I was lucky if I got it 2-3 times a year. Then she would go and brag about that to her friends and family. Many good men experience this from their wives. Then those same wives get mad if they watch porn as a release. Completely laughable.
in this case...couple of things
1) are you putting forth the effort? as in dating the wife and following some form of the 7/7/7 rule? are you keeping yourself attractive? are your treating her nicely and getting her mind off things? are you making sex enjoyable for her? helping with kids and chores
a women aint gonna wanna frick if she never gets one and is being treated like shite. She also is not going to want to be with a man that is stuck in the mosquito cycle either, buzzing around her begging.
she also dont want to be with a fat frick who has let himself go to.
B) if the husband is doing all of the above and women still doesnt want it...need to go to counseling or identify the problem...might be medication or hormones out of whack
3) if its none of that and you want to stay for the kids...then she should not be getting upset. honestly she should encourage it over cheating but it should be normal porn not some......black hole where you end up watching a damn donkey show to get off or some other sick shite
porn is not good for you at all.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:39 pm to EZE Tiger Fan
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Correct, but what about the poor married men whose wives absolutely refuse to satisfy them sexually? In many cases, they refuse to even try. My ex would use sex as leverage to get whatever she wanted, then would pull it away like Lucy with the football. I was lucky if I got it 2-3 times a year. Then she would go and brag about that to her friends and family. Many good men experience this from their wives. Then those same wives get mad if they watch porn as a release. Completely laughable.
Leave?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:39 pm to Nayab
What if you watch porn with your special other? Would you be considered swingers?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:39 pm to LNCHBOX
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bad for intimacy with your wife.
Speak for yourself, my wife likes to watch with me, we use it as a jumpstarter for our sessions sometimes. And other times just to laugh at some of the unrealistic and goofy shite they do/say.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:40 pm to EZE Tiger Fan
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Just saying I've lived through both sides of this.
I guarantee your ex had her reasons.
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I also have several friends whose wives refuse to sleep with them for whatever reason they can come up with at the moment. They all watch a lot of porn to get by. Either that or go crazy.
Sounds like you and your boys might need to figure some shite out.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:40 pm to LNCHBOX
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You really need an explanation on why jerking it to random people having unrealistic sex is bad for intimacy in your relationship?
yes I do I guess. If someone watches a little porn before fricking to get the blood going I guess I dont see the big deal. Everyone is different I guess.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:41 pm to WaterLink
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Speak for yourself, my wife likes to watch with me, we use it as a jumpstarter for our sessions sometimes. And other times just to laugh at some of the unrealistic and goofy shite they do/say.
All I get out of this is that you need a jumpstarter to bang your wife. Thanks for expanding on my point.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:42 pm to LNCHBOX
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All I get out of this is that you need a jumpstarter to bang your wife
I don't NEED to but it's fun to do sometimes.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:43 pm to Nayab
Because they don’t want to have sex with them but also don’t want anyone else having even virtual sex with them
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:44 pm to WaterLink
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I don't NEED to but it's fun to do sometimes.
Bringing others into your marital bed, even virtually, is pretty much the opposite of intimacy.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:44 pm to WaterLink
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I don't NEED to but it's fun to do sometimes.
dudes probably hitting missionary and busting after 10 seconds but gonna judge other people. settle down fabio, people can do what they want in their own sex life, no need to judge.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:44 pm to BluegrassBelle
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endometriosis
Legitimate reason
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vaginal dryness
Coconut oil
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drop in libido
I don't always want to mow the yard, but I do it
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