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re: Why do men still get conned into marriage when there are no benefits for men to marry?

Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:28 pm to
Posted by ChEgrad
Member since Nov 2012
3558 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:28 pm to
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and once again, you can do that without signing a government contract.


Couples are less likely to work through problems if splitting up is too easy. That “contract” encourages you to become a better person and work on your marriage.

We have seen the what is produced when kids are raised without two parents - a disfunctional society.
Posted by Theduckhunter
South Louisiana
Member since May 2022
1146 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:29 pm to
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you sound really jaded. date higher quality women.


You’re implying he’s actually dating women. He’s sounding more like an incel… or just a troll.
Posted by OK Roughneck
The Sooner State
Member since Aug 2021
14761 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:29 pm to
Dad always said men smile at weddings because misery loves company.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
65900 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:30 pm to
Do your bastard kids take your name or hers?
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
53147 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:31 pm to
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Do your bastard kids take your name or hers?
I don’t think they were his to begin with …
Posted by Cards Suck
Member since Oct 2021
48 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:31 pm to
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You really need to focus on finding the right woman. Married 12 years and loving the family life.

You will always be faced with challenges in a relationship. Wouldn't you feel better and have pride if it was with someone you committed to and not just head for the hills when times are tough?



Don't think just because you got 12 years in that you found the right woman. I got about 15 good years before she turned into a total count.

Reality is the system is rigged against the men. Men are generally more committed than the women because the men have so much more to lose. In a divorce the man will usually lose his home, half his crap, custody of his children, and will be on the hook for crippling child support/alimony payments to support his former wife's lifestyle. The woman generally gets a long-term meal ticket with no real impact to her standard of living. Any wonder most divorces are initiated by women?
Posted by Grinder
Member since Nov 2007
2304 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:31 pm to
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you aren't capable of liking her without signing a government contract that gives her half of your assets if you break up ?


It’s sad that you have this opinion. Focus on choosing a better partner.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
53147 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:34 pm to
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Men are generally more committed than the women because the men have so much more to lose.
lol not true

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Any wonder most divorces are initiated by women?
bc the men are not committed
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
51631 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:41 pm to
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bc the men are not committed
?????

I think both men and women have issues with commitment now… both have no problem tanking a marriage for a perceived better deal
This post was edited on 1/2/23 at 1:43 pm
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
53147 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:42 pm to
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I think both men and women have issues with commitment now…

Definitely- but out of the divorcees that I know - most is bc the man wandered
Posted by Hobie101
Member since May 2012
699 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:45 pm to
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you aren't capable of liking her without signing a government contract that gives her half of your assets if you break up ?


Don't plan on breaking up
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144463 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:47 pm to
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I just see no upside to marriage for men.
ahh the daily incel thread


sorry you don't have the attributes to attract a high quality high value woman
Posted by NyCaLa
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2014
1090 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:55 pm to
OP, are you really this selfish, stupid and self absorbed?
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
2890 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 1:59 pm to
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Bc when a man works 12-15 hours a day - there’s a nice woman who has kept house and cooked waiting for him - everyday





Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
53147 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 2:10 pm to
Sorry you chose badly
Posted by NyCaLa
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2014
1090 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 2:13 pm to
Our marriage is WAY deeper than this government contract you keep holding up as if it ends the discussion.
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
5971 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 2:14 pm to
Dudes living in their mom's basement who never touched a woman start posts such as this...
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
39147 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 2:15 pm to
If you want to start a family... marriage is the best way to do that.

If you have no desire to ever start a family... then yeah marriage doesn't offer a lot of benefits.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
281843 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 2:17 pm to
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But if you aren't married and you split up you only have to deal with child support.


Sounds like you value money over family. If so, you're doing things wrong.

Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
2890 posts
Posted on 1/2/23 at 2:20 pm to
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Sorry you chose badly


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