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re: Why did you get divorced?

Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:06 am to
Posted by Rust
Member since Feb 2019
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Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:06 am to
I gotta stop reading these threads. Real or fake, some depressing stuff in these. Never been through a divorce and I hope I never have to. Wish you people well
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
58888 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:09 am to
Well some friends brought over a dead kid and my wife was getting off the late shift at the hospital. I did not have a Winston to help me out.






Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
53811 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:09 am to
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During my time in BR I noticed it was very cliquish and chicks got married early and wanted babies right away in their early to mid twenties.


I hate to say this, but this is very true. It seemed as if my ex-SIL had a check list - found guy that makes 6 figures, date 2 years, buy expensive engagement ring, have expensive wedding, buy expensive house, have 1 child - get divorced before 5 years of marriage - she and her group of 6 friends ALL did this
Posted by FiddleHead
Knoxville, TN
Member since Aug 2011
14778 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:21 am to
Tigerdroppings is the reason I’m 26 and still have no desire to ever get married
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
68459 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:23 am to
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get divorced before 5 years of marriage - she and her group of 6 friends ALL did this


I don’t understand these people at all.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
60010 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:26 am to
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I don’t understand these people at all.


Humans are social creatures, and women are even more group-oriented than men.

When it comes to assessing marriage material, you absolutely need to look at her family and group of friends. These people will, for better or worse, influence her thoughts and actions.
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
10498 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:27 am to
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have 1 child - get divorced before 5 years of marriage - she and her group of 6 friends ALL did this

I think social media plays a part in situations like this. One or two of the friends gets divorced and then starts going out and taking trips and posting it on social media making it look like they’re having a great time and living an exciting life. The others see this and are jealous and decide that’s what they want and “want to live for themselves too” and following their friends in divorce
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
282570 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:28 am to
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get divorced before 5 years of marriage - she and her group of 6 friends ALL did this
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I don’t understand these people at all.


They do it with marriage, kids, divorce.

Women love attention.
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
66825 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:28 am to
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And, I got divorced because I ended up getting blackmailed by a hooker. It was a whole ordeal.

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Go on...

It is currently being well-documented in another thread. I just couldn't break my rule of not negotiating with terrorists.
This post was edited on 4/27/21 at 11:29 am
Posted by massilsu
Oz
Member since Sep 2020
1947 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:30 am to
umm after i had my kids with her she got fat and didnt take care of her vag region so i said .. C ya
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
101835 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:30 am to
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I think social media plays a part in situations like this. One or two of the friends gets divorced and then starts going out and taking trips and posting it on social media making it look like they’re having a great time and living an exciting life. The others see this and are jealous and decide that’s what they want and “want to live for themselves too” and following their friends in divorce


Depending on the age range, potential is high that someone who is a 4-6 on the looks scale could get treated like a 10 for a period because the ratio of guys to girls on various dating / hookup platforms is so out of whack.

They think that an "all the cock you can eat" buffet sounds better than the one they have until they realize there's an expiration date on how long this works. At a point, you either settle down or you're not finding anyone because you've fricked up too much or your applicant pool has run dry.
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
62514 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:31 am to
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she and her group of 6 friends


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Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
75080 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:32 am to
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Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
53811 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:32 am to
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I think social media plays a part in situations like this


That and immaturity

My brother has been divorced for 6 years this year so I’m not sure if social media had much influence

But I wouldn’t put it past the bitch
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
62985 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:34 am to
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They think that an "all the cock you can eat" buffet sounds better than the one they have until they realize there's an expiration date on how long this works. At a point, you either settle down or you're not finding anyone because you've fricked up too much or your applicant pool has run dry.


I think there's a large portion of people great at being a dating partner but wholly unequipped to be a marriage partner. As the dating industry becomes more lucrative for big tech the more marriage culture becomes subject to the whims of the short term dating culture.


Posted by Paddyshack
Land of the Free
Member since Sep 2015
10733 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:37 am to
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Me and the Ex just weren’t giving much anymore, she had a bunch of female issues, and I also didn’t think I was very fertile. Tried for a kid for 10 years, (longest 10 damn years of my life) we finally both mutually parted ways, but she was secretly seeing someone else(of course she was, that whore)... 4 months later she ended up getting pregnant for the other guy and it was pretty fricking crushing and I felt cursed and pretty much didn’t give a shite about my existence much anymore, until I found my current Fiancé. She told me up front that she had some female issues and probably can’t have kids and I told her well I don’t think I can either, so it was basically a cool deal let’s go with this. She had 3 surgeries within a year and was about to get a 4th until she took a pregnancy test and she was pregnant! So we are currently 5 months in now and my baby boy will be arriving in August and I couldn’t be more happy. I can’t wait! I’m so freaking excited to be a dad. We are getting married in Dec


CSB.

No, really. Cool story, bro. Cheers to you, your wife, and your son.
Posted by tgrmeat
Member since Sep 2020
5098 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:38 am to
She decided she did not want to be married to me any more.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82238 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:47 am to
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billjamin


Was she able to have the baby? :(
Posted by Sooner5030
Desert Southwest
Member since Sep 2014
1733 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:49 am to
someone mentioned earlier how depressing the stories are in this thread. But they are only talking about the divorce not life afterwards.

I can tell you single life as a middle aged, in shape, upper middle income guy is pretty great.

My savings rate exploded after divorce. Only one person making those crazy purchases.

Had a son....name and bloodline carries on. Job complete. No need to ever remarry.

I date and usually find a decent GF for a few months....sometimes longer.

Also, my decision making process is very streamlined now.




Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
53811 posts
Posted on 4/27/21 at 11:50 am to
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she and her group of 6 friends


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