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re: Who here is divorced with kids?

Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:02 pm to
Posted by Relham10
Ridge
Member since Jan 2013
19989 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:02 pm to
Absolutely not but since then ive gained full custody and she sees them maybe a few days a month at most and thats stretching it. For someone who never works, she never seems to have the time for them. Her loss is my gain.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59096 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:02 pm to
nope. i'm just consistent.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
58870 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:06 pm to
I don’t know why y’all even respond to his stupid bullshite
Posted by Chef Free Gold Bloom
Wherever I’m needed
Member since Dec 2019
1364 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:08 pm to
quote:

Wife and I reconciled. She filed for divorce, I moved out, and we separated for close to a year.

She grew up during the time apart and realized that the life we had together wasn’t nearly as bad as she thought. I


i can’t imagine I’d ever reconcile.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76399 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:09 pm to
quote:

She grew up during the time apart and realized that the life we had together wasn’t nearly as bad as she thought


Translation: dude that was dicking her down went back to his wife.
Posted by TigerLunatik
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jan 2005
104434 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:11 pm to
I'm assuming that they still do it, but if you do joint custody we had to have a domisory (spelling?) parent and I would push for that. Basically it just means whichever one that is has the legal right to be the final decision maker.
This post was edited on 4/23/20 at 8:12 pm
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
21116 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:13 pm to
Consistently what, a race baiter? Yep, you are very consistent there.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59096 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:16 pm to
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a race baiter?
link?
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
21116 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:17 pm to
quote:

link?


Lol, go back to your first post on this thread. You know you are and so does everyone else.

Poor little woke soldier
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
21116 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:34 pm to
It is your gain, she’s a POS. Your kids will know who was there for them.
Posted by Passing Wind
Dutchtown
Member since Apr 2015
4778 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:37 pm to
quote:

shitting on black people for fatherless homes are divorced themselves

There’s a pretty big difference between divorced fathers, and an MIA father
Also, thanks for tossing out race into a thread where nothing about that was even aimed that direction you clown.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82752 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:51 pm to
quote:

No lie, it cost me $350



A real tree fiddy in the wild!
Posted by Crimson1st
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2010
20806 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:52 pm to
Me

Me

Yes
Posted by Armymann50
Playing with my
Member since Sep 2011
21968 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 8:55 pm to
quote:

Who initiated it?
me


quote:

Was it worth it?
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
9060 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 9:00 pm to
I am

She did

Yes it was
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
20311 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 9:01 pm to
quote:

domisory (spelling?)


domiciliary (I think...)
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
59077 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 9:08 pm to
Ask namvet, he’s a great speller.
Posted by TigerLunatik
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jan 2005
104434 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 9:11 pm to
quote:

The domiciliary parent is the parent with whom the child primarily lives. The custody plan can name one of the parents as thedomiciliary parent. The other parent has frequent and continuing periods of physical custody with the child.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133443 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 10:12 pm to
quote:

A real tree fiddy in the wild!




No lie, a real tree fiddy and I didn’t even realize it until a couple years ago
Posted by crazyatthecamp
Member since Nov 2006
2264 posts
Posted on 4/23/20 at 10:49 pm to
I read a lot of my marriage in your response.

Wife of mine came from a broken home (no Dad growing up in the house) and has narcissistic qualities. She does not put me anywhere near the top of the list in our family.

So I have every reason for myself to let her go and find some respect and maybe love again. But I just am not a quitter and I don't want a divorced situation for my kids. On her side of the family that would be 3 generations in a row of broken families. My side is stable and more cohesive. She is checked out though and is stubborn in nature.

I go back and forth if I am doing the right thing. On one hand I respect myself for continually working on the relationship and valuing the family unit. On the other hand some self respect at times takes a hit when I step back and see how she is acting so self centered and shut off. Friends have respect for me for hanging in there but would totally respect me as much or more for getting out of it.

So I grind it out. Praying for a better relationship and praying that my kids turn out the better for it. My soul is lonely. I just keep grinding and trying new approaches.

Good luck to everyone out there in all the situations. Kids need Dads.

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