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re: Who Else Lives Away From Family And Has To Travel Every Damn Holiday?

Posted on 12/24/16 at 10:40 am to
Posted by 7thWardTiger
Richmond, Texas
Member since Nov 2009
24670 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 10:40 am to
The year I lived in Houston(2013 holiday season) I made the trip home to see family. This year I'll be making the trip from St. Louis home but i won't be leaving out until Christmas Day.
Posted by SanFranTiger
Santa Fe, NM
Member since Sep 2003
5048 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 10:41 am to
I did not do it this year. I traveled a lot during the fall and decided not to this year.

Saw my family in March and in October though
Posted by airfernando
Member since Oct 2015
15248 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 10:43 am to
I don't mind the travel part. I just don't like being away from home or being at my in-laws house, mainly bc they are crazy. If I don't go, the in-laws and my kids give me a hard time.
Posted by beebefootballfan
Member since Mar 2011
21016 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 10:51 am to
We don't have it to bad with the 3 hr drive, but we informed everybody that this is the last Christmas we will be making an overnight stay. I want my child to enjoy the excitement of waking up in their home on Christmas morning and running in to see what Santa brought. And to prevent the almost divorce that happens as we pack and load up all the crap we have to take. We will drive down Christmas Eve morning split time between the two families and head back home. Been traveling for 10 yrs and it's time for a change.
Posted by MBclass83
Member since Oct 2010
10383 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 11:30 am to
Nothing like loading up that car with all that crap. We usually don't speak to each other the first hour of the drive. Tensions run very high. Lol.
Posted by Upslope
United States
Member since Dec 2016
207 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 11:32 am to
We live in Central LA and have to travel to the wife's parents place in Massachusetts every couple of years...

It's a brutal drive, but it actually feels like Christmas up here. There's actually snow on the ground as opposed to just leaves
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
16065 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 11:39 am to
Not anymore.

We have three children and their spouses and seven grandchildren.

We told them to establish their own Christmas traditions, NOW, and not lose their joy in trying to be everywhere at once
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
20642 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 11:42 am to
My parents paid for me to fly in because they knew insure as hell wouldn't come if i had to pay for it. They accidentally booked the flight for the wrong date and I had to get shite on for working from home for almost a week. Flight is good but working from home sucks and is miserable. And people are already at each ither's throats. It's just been brilliant so far.
Posted by POCKET
Member since Nov 2011
2657 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 11:44 am to
I've traveled to see my grandparents in California every Christmas for 28 years. Don't mind it but it would be nice to just go my hometown now that I don't live there anymore
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 12:06 pm to
We do. I don't mind the travelling so much. The only thing I hate is that we don't get Christmas morning with just us. For now, it includes the in-laws since we are at their house. I can't see staying home and being just us though. I come from a family where it's nearly 50 of us that get together on Christmas day.
Posted by TigerV
Member since Feb 2007
3083 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 12:23 pm to
Houston to BR is a short but painful trip. Once the oldest kid turned 3 we decided we were staying here for Santa. Best decision to state that fact and let the family deal with it. Last year we drove back on Christmas Day and this year driving back in the 27th to spend the rest of the week in BR. We never see the entire family anyway and my cousins are all starting their own traditions as well, it was time we started ours. Spend more time this week with friends here we spend all year with and see family on thanksgiving, week after Christmas and random other extended weekends.
Posted by SamuelClemens
Earth
Member since Feb 2015
11727 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 12:25 pm to
I stay away from going back to LA most holidays I
choose to work those days and make more $. Then get double the time off after the holidays.
Posted by Hu_Flung_Pu
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2013
22546 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 1:08 pm to
This guy. Hate it
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
21567 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 2:25 pm to
My wife and her sister decide everything.

It's ok, but a little weird spending Holidays with non-Christians.

It's expected to spend every Christmas together.

My brother and I go to SECCG together every year. I put myself on call Thanksgiving next year to avoid 3 trips in such a short time.

It is what it is. A hassle to travel because everyone is traveling.
Posted by Retrograde
TX
Member since Jul 2014
2914 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 2:41 pm to
I went visit my family in Madisonville from Dallas 4 times so far this year, including now with a 9 month old baby.
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
21567 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 2:51 pm to
Are they incapable of driving?

My parents drove to see the babies all the time!

Now they are older, both the kids and grandparents, so we do the driving.
Posted by luvdatigahs
Alameda, CA
Member since Sep 2008
3106 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 3:19 pm to
My family rotates the holiday get-togethers each year between christmas and New Years. This year we celebrated Christmas during thanksgiving in Florida. Either way I have to travel from California to the south, as I am the only family member out west.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27902 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 3:53 pm to
I usually travel home just for Christmas, so it's really not a big deal. I would hate to do that for every major holiday though.

Came to NY this year which has been a nice change of pace.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21070 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 4:01 pm to
For those of you with kids and live far away, how do your wives feel about not going to see family on Christmas?

I'm with most of you and want my kids at home but my wife is too considerate of our parents and would insist on traveling.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
30562 posts
Posted on 12/24/16 at 4:02 pm to
I don't want to sound like a Scrooge, but for me, the holidays are a time for relaxation. I don't have kids, and while I have a SO, I'm not married. This means I get to travel to one of my sister's places where the rest of the family will congregate. I don't mind the drive because it's my last moment of tranquility.

When I walk in, I have 7 nieces and nephews all under age 8...I have whipped husbands who don't know what goes on in the sports world...or anything else outside of their home.

I am awoken on Christmas morning at 7 am by excited children (who could blame them). And because I'm the single guy with no kids, I get relegated to the couch or some shite air mattress.

My sister's always give me shite for being a distant family member, think I always seem depressed, etc. in reality, my ideal Christmas is sleeping in, cracking open a beer, and watching some NBA.
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