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Who else here can’t stand going out to dinner anymore?

Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:27 pm
Posted by Morpheus
In your Dreams
Member since Apr 2022
6111 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:27 pm
Look, I’ll preface this conversation by saying I love my SO and want to treat her well and usually do it because it’s something she enjoys and because she is one of those “Foodies” that wants to go to the new restaurants or hotspots in town. Personally I just can’t help but get irked internally every time after we go to one of these places and the dinner is over and see the bill for $250-$300 for 2 people.
To me it’s not just about the money necessarily, but how the money is being spent.
I mean you almost can’t go anywhere these days above a half decent place if you order ann app(1) a 2-3 drinks(total), dinner(2) and a desert(1) for less than the above mentioned.
I guess it’s because I love to cook and most of the places she picks the food in my opinion WAY overrated, the portions are usually small and that I’m hungry within hours of leaving which to me makes it even more unsatisfying.
Just curious how everyone else feels about this situation or similar.

We also do it often at that price point but maybe a couple times a month but personally I still would rather find a low key less known place that serves great quality food in sizable portions and that I’m happy with for $100-$150(after tip) which still isn’t cheap.if you do it too often.
Posted by LoneStar23
USA
Member since Aug 2019
5701 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:28 pm to
I go out to eat once a month tops
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
188762 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:29 pm to
chris

and I now have my limits as well
Posted by TheWalrus
Land of the Hogs
Member since Dec 2012
44393 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:29 pm to
I like going out to dinner but I’m not spending anywhere near that kind of money. I wouldn’t want to pay $300 a meal either.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
53466 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:29 pm to
I looked at a menu to a place some of my family went this week. $30-40 salads and apps.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59752 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:31 pm to
quote:

he portions are usually small and that I’m hungry within hours of leaving


Are you a big baw?

I enjoy going out to eat for the most part.
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
45474 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:31 pm to
quote:

$250-$300 for 2 people

Either in a cheap arse or you’re dining at a lot of fancy restaurants. Holy shite, baw.
Posted by carrguitar
Member since Oct 2014
930 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:31 pm to
OP left the hook too shiny. Nice try on the humble brag.
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
82435 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:32 pm to
Your one meal could buy half my families groceries for the month
This post was edited on 6/6/24 at 1:33 pm
Posted by North Dallas Tiger
United States of America
Member since Mar 2024
13008 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:32 pm to
This is one of the great things about being a single guy in his 30's with good income.

I eat out almost every meal and tip generously.

The drinks are what drives $$$
up the checks...

Got me a little local diner where I have breakfast and all the old lady servers know me and I put a "Miss" on their name to show respect

As I type this I am realizing I should rethink these spending habits
Posted by BregmansWheelbarrow
Member since Mar 2020
2991 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:33 pm to
It isn’t enjoyable to me anymore. Even places I’ve been going to for years are far more expensive now and it seems almost universal that the quality is way down despite the increase in cost.
Posted by Morpheus
In your Dreams
Member since Apr 2022
6111 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:33 pm to
I’m really not, and don’t eat big portions either but most of these trendy bitch places have apps and dinner portions than are very limited IMO.
I’m a meat eater though.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
68119 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:33 pm to
Applebee’s only $50, baw.
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
9752 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:33 pm to
I don't care about the cost for me its hard to look at every surrounding table and see how fricking fat and out of shape everyone is. Its really off putting and disgusting when you think about it. And sad.
Posted by NATidefan
Two hours North of Birmingham
Member since Dec 2008
36582 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:34 pm to
We almost never go out unless we are on vacation. We will order pizza occasionally or go out for sushi cause that's hard to do at home.

The money just feels like a waste to me considering what else we could do with it. And the experience always seems rushed these days. Like I'm being treated as a hog at a trough that needs to eat, pay, and leave so they can hurry up to get another hog in the seat.

I like to cook, rather just stay home and do so.
Posted by Jebadeb
Member since Oct 2017
5324 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:34 pm to
I enjoy it, but it is costly.
Posted by JetsetNuggs
Member since Jun 2014
14945 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:34 pm to
I rarely find the juice to be worth the squeeze.

It always seems like a major production just to have a few moments of enjoying the food then push out a $200 shite a few hours later.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
172075 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:34 pm to
quote:

Morpheus


just keep this in mind, these restaurant bills are far cheaper than a divorce attorney.
Posted by bad93ex
Walnut Cove
Member since Sep 2018
30746 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:35 pm to
quote:

she is one of those “Foodies” that wants to go to the new restaurants or hotspots in town.


Hopefully it is just a phase but tally up all of your excursions and present them in terms of lost opportunities. My wife and I did this for a while and I got the "end of year" summary which broke down the expenditures by category. The Restaurant category was well over $20k, I showed this to the wfie and said we need to cut back a little since we literally ate enough to go on a weeks long Caribbean vacation twice.

We still go out to eat but now only for the Happy Hour specials.
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
16647 posts
Posted on 6/6/24 at 1:37 pm to
Where the frick are you and your wife eating at lol.
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