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re: When do you tell a woman you love her?

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Posted by jaytothen
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If you fart in front of her and she laughs or tries to out-due you, she's the one
Posted by tigerfan84
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Posted by Displaced
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:15 am to
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Similar hurt in past marriage.



It's crazy what codependent people cling to in relationships
Posted by LCA131
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:15 am to
Two times work well, 1) while she's in the shower and you are either outside or the other end of the home or 2) She's soundly asleep and you are in the den watching a ball game.

Whisper it, either way.
Posted by poncho villa
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:25 am to
Bruh you don't even really know someone after 6 weeks
Posted by Ash Williams
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:27 am to
How old are your kids?

If they're still young and living with you I'd make sure to give it as much time as possible before making things too serious

You don't want to:

a) put them in a situation where you're committing early to someone if they don't like them especially if it ends up not working out;

or even worse

b) put them in a situation where you're committing early to someone they REALLY like especially if it ends up not working out
Posted by mmmmmbeeer
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:27 am to
Is it her or is it having companionship again? Is it just lust?

I don't doubt you feel as if you may be "in love", but it's pretty damn soon to feel like you'd take a bullet for someone, imo.
Posted by Major Dutch Schaefer
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:29 am to
Posted by southpawcock
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:30 am to
I've been involved emotionally and in other ways with a particular woman friend of mine for just over four years now.. but just as of last October we've been more serious and have gotten physically involved. Problem is.. she's 18 years older. Which doesn't bother me but it does her - she has at least gotten to the point she can joke about it and doesn't seem to be letting others' opinions matter right now. She told me about a guy she dated awhile back that within two weeks was telling her he loved her and would drop off stuffed animals at her door at 7 AM before work. Obviously that scared her off and I think that pretty much killed it. In my case, I'd never say it - though I want to, because of the age gap. I'm just riding it out..

I've said I love her to her as a friend (without saying 'as a friend', and knowing she knew what I meant), and I think she's said the same. But no "I'm IN LOVE with you."
This post was edited on 4/15/21 at 8:32 am
Posted by Ash Williams
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:32 am to
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. but just as of last October we've been more serious and have gotten physically involved. Problem is.. she's 18 years older.


What high school do you go to?
Posted by southpawcock
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:33 am to
My birthday is in my username.. which I wish I never did.

Posted by Penrod
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:34 am to
As soon as you know it, say it. Don’t be a weakling about it, though. There’s a way of saying it that doesn’t have the appearance of a submissive dog rolling onto its back. THAT will turn her off, and if that’s the best you can do, then don’t. But if you already appear very self-confident to her, then let it rip, and she’ll be thrilled.
Posted by squid_hunt
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:34 am to
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SCgamecock2988

50 something year old girlfriend, huh? Must have huuuuuge tracts of land.
Posted by Ash Williams
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:34 am to
You're 33 and dating a 51 year old?

she rich? you trying to get in that will?
Posted by NIH
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:35 am to
I usually tell them on the first date and start to softly cry
Posted by stout
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:35 am to
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Problem is.. she's 18 years older.


Your teacher?
Posted by southpawcock
Member since Oct 2015
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:35 am to
We have a connection man, as lame as that sounds to type out.. is what it is.
Posted by Penrod
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:35 am to
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Love should never be used in the past tense because it is a commitment, not a feeling.

If my wife dies I can’t say that I loved her?
Posted by Ash Williams
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:36 am to
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Your teacher?



Back off stout

I already made that joke
Posted by DiamondDog
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Posted on 4/15/21 at 8:36 am to
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When do you tell a woman you love her?


Never. Keep them guessing. Push them down every once in a while to keep them on their game.
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