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re: when / why did women start thinking men want a "strong, independent, career driven" woman?

Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:06 pm to
Posted by JTM72
BR, LA.
Member since Mar 2014
1261 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:06 pm to
quote:

If a woman decides her ambition is to marry a man for his wealth, and hires help for around the house for things she could easily do herself(cooking/cleaning/laundry), she’s a gold digger



FIFY

A stay at home wife that actually takes care of the household chores (cook, clean, laundry, make sure bills are paid), and take care of the kid(s) before/after school, is pretty rare these days.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
38009 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:06 pm to
They realized we don't want a woman who is essentially another bill?
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98767 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:07 pm to
Weak men need strong women
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112626 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:09 pm to
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i wanna go play golf, eat lunch with my friends and drink wine all day while she works. that sounds pretty good tbh.

No shite.

I don't really know why I'd ever want a wife who doesn't work and has no desire to work.

Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37211 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:11 pm to
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Seems like u earn a triple digit income or somebody gave you a comfortable head start. Whatever it is, appropriate it


It's exponentially more likely that he's poor and stupid.
Posted by CaptainBrannigan
Good Ole Rocky Top Tennessee
Member since Jan 2010
21644 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:12 pm to
When Baby Boomers destroyed our economy and made home ownership nearly impossible for single income households.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112626 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:12 pm to
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That said, many of the non-working mom’s in our social circle don’t do too much for the kids
I think the other thing is if the plan is to just always be a stay at home wife...once your kids are about 10 years old, they're pretty self sufficient(relatively speaking of course) and I just can't see how a wife is going to fill her time 7 days per week, or more importantly, 5 days per week while I'm at work.

My wife and I work, and take care of all that other shite and still have tons of free time. Other than having very young kids are like 5 or more kids, a stay at home Mom has a shite ton of free time on her hands.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37211 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:14 pm to
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When Trump/Reagan destroyed our economy and made home ownership nearly impossible for single income households.


Fixed it for your you obsessed little boy.
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:15 pm to
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When Trump/Reagan destroyed our economy and made home ownership nearly impossible for single income households.


Fixed it for your you obsessed little boy.



Posted by Whodat28
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2016
774 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:17 pm to
Less money they will take when they divorce you. I have no problem with it.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
21695 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:18 pm to
Mostly because men realized that not having parity in a relationship leads to formerly penniless women cleaning out men in divorce court.
Posted by BayouFann
CenLa
Member since Jun 2012
7161 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:19 pm to
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It's exponentially more likely that he's poor and stupid.

Thought it but there’s that whole OT Baller thing. Still insanely ignorant either way
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:20 pm to
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Most people that aren't stupid, obviously the OP is not one of those people, realize it's not an either/or type deal.




No doubt, how about you do you and I'll do me? My wife is a homemaker, she hasn't worked outside the home since the day we started living together. I'm fortunate and can afford that. If you or or anyone else needs the second income a working wife can provide, then what does that matter to me?

Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:22 pm to
I'm totally down with a "strong, independent, career driven" woman. We won't have kids, we'll make millions of dollars and travel around the world on our private jet, looking down on the poor guys about to get divorced with kids who will grow up to have a career behind a cash register.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25424 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:23 pm to
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household chores (cook, clean, laundry, make sure bills are paid), and take care of the kid(s) before/after school, is pretty rare these days.



It's because these things aren't a full time job anymore.
Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
19122 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:24 pm to
Because it means more money for the household.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
21695 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:25 pm to
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When Trump/Reagan destroyed our economy and made home ownership nearly impossible for single income households.


Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37211 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:28 pm to
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No doubt, how about you do you and I'll do me? My wife is a homemaker, she hasn't worked outside the home since the day we started living together. I'm fortunate and can afford that. If you or or anyone else needs the second income a working wife can provide, then what does that matter to me?


The fact that you are personally grieved about me saying something not to you that is essentially the same exact thing you are saying means:

1. You're stupid
2. You're insecure about something I said.
3. Both

As is usually the case on the OT, it's probably 3.
Posted by partywiththelombardi
Member since May 2012
11725 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:29 pm to
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strong, independent
nothing wrong at all with these qualities...most men find them attractive if they aren't insecure as shite
quote:

career driven

Depends on the career I guess but definitely comes with perks.

If she leaves she cant take half your shite...when you both own everything.

She will take what she bought. She will respect your money because she also makes her own.

She will respect what you do because she has her own job as well(if you both make similar income/or you have a respectable job)

Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133512 posts
Posted on 10/2/18 at 1:31 pm to
Most don’t understand how freeing it is to embrace our natural roles
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