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re: What's your best Mid-life guy advice?

Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:06 am to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:06 am to
As you get older from here, you'll be unimpressed with a lot of things you used to care about. Embrace it, you're weeding out the noise

Family is all that matters in the long run
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
19379 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:20 am to
There's enough hobbies you can get into that won't cost an arm and a leg to do.

I'm an avid dart player and until my needing bifocals, I played a very decent game of pool. A couple hundred dollars for those two will have you with the basics.

I also love to fish and mainly do that from river banks or the occasional invite from a friend with a boat. Like many guys, I have several different rods and reels and the associated tackle to make them work.

Around the house I like to make my backyard "Victory Garden" and grow my own produce and depending on the size of the garden, it is relatively cheap to do.

Woodworking is not a cheap hobby to get into if a lot of different tools and accessories are bought. I've probably accumulated about $30K in tools in the last 40+ years. I have built several pieces for myself, both for indoor and outdoor use and have made quite a few pieces for customers over the years so my little hobby helps pay for itself.

I once loved to play golf, but when Katrina hit it took my clubs and I never replaced them. Now, with the cost of green fees, I don't miss it and have better things to spend that money on.

In other words, find things you like to do and stay busy.

Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53093 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:24 am to
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As you get older from here, you'll be unimpressed with a lot of things you used to care about. Embrace it, you're weeding out the noise

I'm 47, so not that old, but solidy middle aged. I've found this very much the case. I don't care much about the things that impressed me at 28 anymore. It's almost like I'm a different person.
Posted by Pepe Lepew
Looney tuned .....
Member since Oct 2008
37951 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:28 am to
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I hang out with other mid life to elderly guys on tigerdroppings


Where? I need this…
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
19182 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:31 am to
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148269 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:37 am to
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Stay single and spend time with your kids.
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Posted by ThatTahoeOverThere
Member since Nov 2021
4665 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:44 am to
Get a good road bike, nothing crazy expensive, and start riding. I love the way I feel after about an hour or so on the bike.




Also, play golf or just hit balls at the range. Its therapeutic for me.
Posted by 4Bagger
Member since Jan 2025
638 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:52 am to
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As you get older from here, you'll be unimpressed with a lot of things you used to care about. Embrace it, you're weeding out the noise


Truly one of the blessing of getting older.
Posted by Hobo Code
Member since Jan 2018
236 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 10:58 am to
Don’t sweat the small stuff. Be a good person. Be humble and grateful. Surround yourself with people who are genuine. Avoid toxic personalities.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
60350 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 11:11 am to
Never forget how many pounds overweight you should be at age 50.

ETA: I’ll spot you 10 if you are big boned.
This post was edited on 3/8/25 at 11:13 am
Posted by RohanGonzales
Member since Apr 2024
8217 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 11:18 am to
Survive until you retire, then things really get great.
Posted by TigerKurt
Kenner, LA
Member since Apr 2005
1041 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 11:55 am to
You nailed it, Rohan.
I am 71. My interests are: walking, biking, fishing, maintaining my boat, yard work, fixing things around the house, word games, maintaining & washing the cars. They all keep me in a good frame of mind.
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
19379 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 12:02 pm to
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I am 71. My interests are: walking, biking, fishing, maintaining my boat, yard work, fixing things around the house, word games, maintaining & washing the cars. They all keep me in a good frame of mind.



I'm 72 and spent a good portion of a day earlier this week giving my touring motorcycle a good cleaning. Cleaning a motorcycle is not like cleaning a car with so many small places to access and to do it right it required removing the saddle bags, windshield, lowers and a few other pieces to get to the brunt of the work. Lots of black and chrome to polish afterwards, but well worth it when done.
Posted by Jack Bauer7
Member since Jun 2012
5154 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 12:03 pm to
Maybe try and find a sparring boxing gym.
Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
19122 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 12:04 pm to
Stay in good shape, hit the gym, limit alcohol, don’t consume pr0n, be romantic with your wife and spend time with your kids. That would be my advice for any family man.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72799 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 12:31 pm to
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What's your best Mid-life guy advice?
Depends on variables: Married? Kids? Parents still around? Income level? Amount of free time/independence?

But generally speaking, in middle age men should still have decent energy, some resources, and picked up some wisdom: make the best of the intersections of those curves.

Keep banking all three of those commodities: stay fit, be good with money and keep learning.

Good will likely follow.

Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
2041 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 12:37 pm to
Whoever came up with the name corn hole must not have watched Beavis and Butt-head
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
15676 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 12:54 pm to
Don't let yourself be fat. It makes every part of life more difficult and exponentially more difficult as you age.
Posted by olemc999
At a blackjack table
Member since Oct 2010
15077 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 1:05 pm to
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Go to Vegas and get involved with cartel strippers.


I’m interested
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
14726 posts
Posted on 3/8/25 at 1:11 pm to
Don't set yourself on fire
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