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re: What's the point of open marriages?

Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:21 pm to
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:21 pm to
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re you not worried about STDs? Seems like they would be prevalent in that lifestyle
why do u think this
Posted by AUbagman
LA
Member since Jun 2014
11185 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:23 pm to
He's probably just going off the law of averages: more sexual partners, more risk of STD exposure.
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8796 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:23 pm to
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Marriage isn't about what you want. It's about making both sides happy. You (and most people) have been mind fricked into thinking that a traditional marriage is the only way to have a fulfilling life, even though the failure rate of traditional marriages clearly contradicts this. You've also been duped into thinking that scarcity justifies the price you paid for that diamond you bought her. Neither is the case. It's surprising that in 2015 there are still so many people that are willing to be miserable their whole lives just to hold on to this traditional marriage concept. So many people that are willing to strap themselves to one meal for the rest of their lives, when the menu is full of awesome entrees. Strange pussy makes me happy. My best friend likes to see me get laid as often as possible and I'm glad I married her.


If you say so...

Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:23 pm to
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by Ross
So being monogamous means you have to be miserable? Sorry pal I'm not buying it.
I don't think this at all. I've known miserable monogamous people and miserable swingers. And, the opposite
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59332 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:25 pm to
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So, the answer is the same as when it happens in the non swinger world

Ok, well is it common for that to happen in the swinger world, I guess that is more what I meant to ask.
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:27 pm to
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's probably just going off the law of averages: more sexual partners, more risk of STD exposure.
This is assuming every sexually active person it's equally careful.

Forget swingers for a second.

Who is more at risk. Guy who nails 3 chicks a week with condoms or guy who gets 2 girls per week with no condoms
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:29 pm to
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well is it common for that to happen in the swinger world, I guess that is more what I meant to ask.
I've said several times. For the most part, if you see it in normal life, you see it in swinging life. I've never asserted swingers are immune to the shite already out there in the non swinging world
Posted by Konkey Dong
Member since Aug 2013
2388 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:30 pm to
There has to be times where there's 5 or so guys standing around getting ready, and one of them pulls out a jackhammer dick which puts everyone in awe. There has to be times when one single dick puts an end to a party, therefore, I would not end a party
This post was edited on 6/22/15 at 1:31 pm
Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:30 pm to
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quote:

Have you ever seen a couple show up to one of these events and realize there is a black couple involved and walk away

Yes



The guy backed out, didn't he?
Posted by X123F45
Dictated not Read
Member since Apr 2015
30054 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:30 pm to
So you don't like brown sugar?
Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:33 pm to
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There has to be times where there's 5 or so guys standing around getting ready, and one of them pulls out a jackhammer dick which puts everyone in awe. There has to be times when one single dick puts an end to a party, therefore, I would not end a party



Wife: This is why we can't ever go out with the cool people!

Husband: Shrugs...
Posted by AUbagman
LA
Member since Jun 2014
11185 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:33 pm to
I mean sure, there are variables, but there's no denying risk increases with the amount of partners you have, condoms or no condoms.
Posted by crimsonsaint
Member since Nov 2009
37917 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:33 pm to
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why do u think this


Because you're fricking strangers all the time.
Posted by captainahab
Highway Trio8
Member since Dec 2014
1680 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:34 pm to
ShortyRob.....

Did your wife or one of your swinging girlfriends come up with your TD Screen Name?

Back to a serious question. How did you find out that your wife wanted to start swinging or was it vice versa? Curious how that conversation comes up.
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:36 pm to
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There has to be times where there's 5 or so guys standing around getting ready, and one of them pulls out a jackhammer dick which puts everyone in awe.
First party I ever went to had a dude that was a mutant. That's the only way to describe it. Like I said, being monogamous doesn't mean you are insecure. But you CANNOT swing and be insecure
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:38 pm to
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Back to a serious question. How did you find out that your wife wanted to start swinging or was it vice versa? Curious how that conversation comes up.


the wife and I discussed it. We elected it would be bad for our marriage. I think she would be very concerned about me falling for another woman or vice versa. The sex thing didn't really bother her.

I had issues on both ends.

She brought it up, when we were going to an event that had swingers at it. She said - are you expecting us to swing, b.c if so let's talk about it now. So we did. it was pretty short conversation. She expressed her worries, and I said I wasn't really convinced it was right for us.
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:39 pm to
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Back to a serious question. How did you find out that your wife wanted to start swinging or was it vice versa? Curious how that conversation comes up.
She was aware of my proclivities when we met. She was intrigued.
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:41 pm to
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well since 50% of monogamous marriages fail, whats your fn point?


I would bet that nowhere near 50% of monogamous marriages fail. And in marriages where both partners are truly monogamous, even to the point of doing their best to be monogamous in thought, the number approaches 0%.
Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:41 pm to
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monogamous in thought


That's a tall order.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33964 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:43 pm to
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even to the point of doing their best to be monogamous in thought


I think this is impossible.

Moreover why would you want to? It's not even ok to fantasize?
This post was edited on 6/22/15 at 1:45 pm
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