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re: What's the point of open marriages?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:21 pm to crimsonsaint
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:21 pm to crimsonsaint
quote:why do u think this
re you not worried about STDs? Seems like they would be prevalent in that lifestyle
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:23 pm to ShortyRob
He's probably just going off the law of averages: more sexual partners, more risk of STD exposure.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:23 pm to DaTroof
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Marriage isn't about what you want. It's about making both sides happy. You (and most people) have been mind fricked into thinking that a traditional marriage is the only way to have a fulfilling life, even though the failure rate of traditional marriages clearly contradicts this. You've also been duped into thinking that scarcity justifies the price you paid for that diamond you bought her. Neither is the case. It's surprising that in 2015 there are still so many people that are willing to be miserable their whole lives just to hold on to this traditional marriage concept. So many people that are willing to strap themselves to one meal for the rest of their lives, when the menu is full of awesome entrees. Strange pussy makes me happy. My best friend likes to see me get laid as often as possible and I'm glad I married her.
If you say so...
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:23 pm to Ross
quote:I don't think this at all. I've known miserable monogamous people and miserable swingers. And, the opposite
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So being monogamous means you have to be miserable? Sorry pal I'm not buying it.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:25 pm to ShortyRob
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So, the answer is the same as when it happens in the non swinger world
Ok, well is it common for that to happen in the swinger world, I guess that is more what I meant to ask.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:27 pm to AUbagman
quote:This is assuming every sexually active person it's equally careful.
's probably just going off the law of averages: more sexual partners, more risk of STD exposure.
Forget swingers for a second.
Who is more at risk. Guy who nails 3 chicks a week with condoms or guy who gets 2 girls per week with no condoms
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:29 pm to HoustonChick86
quote:I've said several times. For the most part, if you see it in normal life, you see it in swinging life. I've never asserted swingers are immune to the shite already out there in the non swinging world
well is it common for that to happen in the swinger world, I guess that is more what I meant to ask.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:30 pm to ShortyRob
There has to be times where there's 5 or so guys standing around getting ready, and one of them pulls out a jackhammer dick which puts everyone in awe. There has to be times when one single dick puts an end to a party, therefore, I would not end a party
This post was edited on 6/22/15 at 1:31 pm
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:30 pm to ShortyRob
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Have you ever seen a couple show up to one of these events and realize there is a black couple involved and walk away
Yes
The guy backed out, didn't he?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:30 pm to ShortyRob
So you don't like brown sugar?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:33 pm to Konkey Dong
quote:
There has to be times where there's 5 or so guys standing around getting ready, and one of them pulls out a jackhammer dick which puts everyone in awe. There has to be times when one single dick puts an end to a party, therefore, I would not end a party
Wife: This is why we can't ever go out with the cool people!
Husband: Shrugs...
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:33 pm to ShortyRob
I mean sure, there are variables, but there's no denying risk increases with the amount of partners you have, condoms or no condoms.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:33 pm to ShortyRob
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why do u think this
Because you're fricking strangers all the time.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:34 pm to ShortyRob
ShortyRob.....
Did your wife or one of your swinging girlfriends come up with your TD Screen Name?
Back to a serious question. How did you find out that your wife wanted to start swinging or was it vice versa? Curious how that conversation comes up.
Did your wife or one of your swinging girlfriends come up with your TD Screen Name?
Back to a serious question. How did you find out that your wife wanted to start swinging or was it vice versa? Curious how that conversation comes up.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:36 pm to CadesCove
quote:First party I ever went to had a dude that was a mutant. That's the only way to describe it. Like I said, being monogamous doesn't mean you are insecure. But you CANNOT swing and be insecure
There has to be times where there's 5 or so guys standing around getting ready, and one of them pulls out a jackhammer dick which puts everyone in awe.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:38 pm to captainahab
quote:
Back to a serious question. How did you find out that your wife wanted to start swinging or was it vice versa? Curious how that conversation comes up.
the wife and I discussed it. We elected it would be bad for our marriage. I think she would be very concerned about me falling for another woman or vice versa. The sex thing didn't really bother her.
I had issues on both ends.
She brought it up, when we were going to an event that had swingers at it. She said - are you expecting us to swing, b.c if so let's talk about it now. So we did. it was pretty short conversation. She expressed her worries, and I said I wasn't really convinced it was right for us.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:39 pm to captainahab
quote:She was aware of my proclivities when we met. She was intrigued.
Back to a serious question. How did you find out that your wife wanted to start swinging or was it vice versa? Curious how that conversation comes up.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:41 pm to rocket31
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well since 50% of monogamous marriages fail, whats your fn point?
I would bet that nowhere near 50% of monogamous marriages fail. And in marriages where both partners are truly monogamous, even to the point of doing their best to be monogamous in thought, the number approaches 0%.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:41 pm to uway
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monogamous in thought
That's a tall order.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:43 pm to uway
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even to the point of doing their best to be monogamous in thought
I think this is impossible.
Moreover why would you want to? It's not even ok to fantasize?
This post was edited on 6/22/15 at 1:45 pm
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