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re: What's the point of open marriages?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:32 pm to Mo Jeaux
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:32 pm to Mo Jeaux
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Why Zachary?
There are a lot of swingers and wife swappers in zachary. An older guy I work with owns a lot of property in Clinton and lives in zachary, he shows me the text messages once or twice a month from couples asking to play.
Couples are not his thing, he just likes making fun of the ones who ask. He does have a stable of wives who are in open relationships. And I see a pic or two of that as well.
He purposely puts his number in the salons advertising bush hogging and farm work.
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Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:33 pm to HoustonChick86
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Well half the people involved are women, so I'm sure it has happened.
Legit question, just funny it took a woman and seven pages to discuss.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:38 pm to HoustonChick86
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So let's say you seem the same couples at these parties all the time, what happens if you or your wife start to have feelings for one of the other swingers?
Very relevant IMO... especially from the woman perspective. I believe they naturally tend to associate the sexual with the emotional. I know there are plenty of women out there that are capable of sex w/o emotion... but I doubt that every single woman involved in the swinger lifestyle is that way.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:49 pm to RedRifle
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There was a study that showed that more men than would care to admit like that fantasy. Very few however would actually let that happen.
Yeah, put me in that boat. I bought her a toy that's bigger than me and use it on her. It touches on the fantasy just fine and no lines have to be crossed. There are ways to stay happily monogamous and not feel like you're missing out on something.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:51 pm to terd ferguson
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Insecure = not wanting to see your wife and the mother of your children getting rammed by other dude's dicks? I had no idea that lack of confidence would keep someone from wanting to watch their wife frick someone else.
Marriage isn't about what you want. It's about making both sides happy. You (and most people) have been mind fricked into thinking that a traditional marriage is the only way to have a fulfilling life, even though the failure rate of traditional marriages clearly contradicts this. You've also been duped into thinking that scarcity justifies the price you paid for that diamond you bought her. Neither is the case. It's surprising that in 2015 there are still so many people that are willing to be miserable their whole lives just to hold on to this traditional marriage concept. So many people that are willing to strap themselves to one meal for the rest of their lives, when the menu is full of awesome entrees. Strange pussy makes me happy. My best friend likes to see me get laid as often as possible and I'm glad I married her.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:54 pm to ShortyRob
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To clarify. Each couple knows what they like.
Swinging get togethers are very much a "you can say no" kind of thing.
Here's the thing. If you have 5 couples, surely there is a guy or gal in there that no one wants to bang. Do they just sit there rubbing one of the chicks shoulders or fluffing the guy till he is ready to get it with a hotter chick? No way can there be everyone that wants to frick everyone going on in the 5 couples you prefer.... Or if you bring a hot wife/husband then it is just an obligatory thing to be fricking something or one you aren't into and none of the rest of the group is.
Or if the wife or husband is hot do you just say. "Hey, its cool if you come but leave your spouse home and find a new partner"
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:54 pm to CadesCove
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My DISC profile says that I don't do well in groups that I'm not in charge of.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:55 pm to terd ferguson
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I know there are plenty of women out there that are capable of sex w/o emotion
Men too if you have enough of the sex with a person. More of an infatuation arises
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:00 pm to DaTroof
I mean the failure rate of open marriages are higher than traditional ones. It sounds like you're projecting your personal beliefs that everyone in a traditional marriage is unhappy. That's not the truth at all. Maybe that stems from you being purposefully unwilling to adopt social norms and maybe harboring guilt from it. I mean to each their own, but it's definitely not your place to suggest you know better for someone else.
Married people live longer, have more money on average, and are happier than single people- even though they are more stressed at times. So I think your theory is bullshite to be honest.
Married people live longer, have more money on average, and are happier than single people- even though they are more stressed at times. So I think your theory is bullshite to be honest.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:01 pm to terd ferguson
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- Have you ever seen a couple show up to one of these events and realize there is a black couple involved and walk away?
- What happens at the end... do you just kind of slip out when you're done or is there a closing ceremony? Like everyone hugs or shakes hands and says "thanks for the sex!"
- Has anything funny ever happened? I could picture a group of 5 couples going at it and one of the chicks queef or something... does everyone lol?
- Are there ever any overly dramatic porn star type moaning/screaming chicks? "OMGZ OMGZ OMGZ frick MY PUSSY! GIMME DAT DICK! OMGZ OMGZ ZOOOMMMMGGGG!" and do you tell them to keep it down?
- Are all of the couples married?
While I laughed at every single one of these I too would like to know the answer
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:03 pm to Tigerstudent08
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If you are truly in love with your wife I can't fathom how this can be accepted. How the F does this conversation even get started? I doubt many people go into marriage wanting it to be an open marriage but maybe I'm wrong.
I would imagine that a good bit, not all, of the people involved in them have the discussion long before they get married. Most of them run in the same circles prior to meeting and know the deal before closing the deal.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:03 pm to ShortyRob
Are you not worried about STDs? Seems like they would be prevalent in that lifestyle.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:09 pm to AUbagman
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Yeah, put me in that boat. I bought her a toy that's bigger than me and use it on her.
Is it black?
It's black isn't it?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:10 pm to terd ferguson
quote:if it happens in normal life, it happens at swinger stuff
e there ever any overly dramatic porn star type moaning/screaming chicks? "OMGZ OMGZ OMGZ frick MY PUSSY! GIMME DAT DICK! OMGZ OMGZ ZOOOMMMMGGGG!" and do you tell them to keep it down?
quote:
What happens at the end... do you just kind of slip out when you're done or is there a closing ceremony? Like everyone hugs or shakes hands and says "thanks for the sex!"
Same stuff you might normally do
quote:Yes
Have you ever seen a couple show up to one of these events and realize there is a black couple involved and walk away
quote:yes
Has anything funny ever happened? I could picture a group of 5 couples going at it and one of the chicks queef or something... does everyone lol?
quote:no
Are all of the couples married?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:14 pm to HoustonChick86
quote:You do realize that what u just described happens ALL THE TIME in the non swinger world, right? So, the answer is the same as when it happens in the non swinger world
o let's say you seem the same couples at these parties all the time, what happens if you or your wife start to have feelings for one of the other swingers?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:15 pm to ShortyRob
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I'm merely observing that the question, "what is the point of open marriage" seems to imply that there's no other good reason to be married.
And THAT my friends is a very bad view of marriage.
If you're married and the only "point" you see to it is that you get to frick her, wow...........I mean.............that's depressing.
I don't think you could come up with a less charitable interpretation of "sexual exclusivity is part of the basis of true marriage" if you tried.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:19 pm to carlsoda
quote:Why would you assume this? It isn't as if people just trip into the room. Ifyou're going somewhere to get naked with somebody, you're going to have vetted the talent and they will have vetted you
ere's the thing. If you have 5 couples, surely there is a guy or gal in there that no one wants to bang.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:20 pm to TygerTyger
No.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:20 pm to carlsoda
quote:In swinging, if you're not attracted to both, you aren't playing. Just think if it the same as when u assess a chick only instead, couple is assessing couple.
r if the wife or husband is hot do you just say. "Hey, its cool if you come but leave your spouse home and find a new partner"
Posted on 6/22/15 at 1:21 pm to DaTroof
So being monogamous means you have to be miserable? Sorry pal I'm not buying it.
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