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re: What's the point of open marriages?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:37 am to CadesCove
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:37 am to CadesCove
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No batting order? Sounds chaotic.
Good question.
I was also wondering about ground rules. Like is there a meeting before the orgy to go through everyone's likes/dislikes?
Sarah - enjoys anal, no double penetration
Lisa - anal OK, enjoys gagging, no DP
Betty - down for anything, more dicks the better
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Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:39 am to ShortyRob
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You might be surprised to learn that yes, there is a pretty well defined etiquette established.
Seems like you'd need that in these situations to avoid conflicts.
What about protection? If you're w/ 5 couples could there be some that don't use protection (condoms)?
Do you just keep a big bowl in the middle so you can grab a new on for each partner?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:41 am to CadesCove
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You're an interesting fellow, I'll give you that. Your lifestyle doesn't appeal to me, but reading these threads gives some additional insight into the thought process involved. To each his own.
That's why I post in them.
You note, I never make fun of people being "uptight" for not being into what I'm in to.
But, I do prefer to clear up some of the flagrant fallacies and misconceptions. A lot of those come from seeing shite online.
Are there a bunch of old folk swinger parties with fat and out of shape people? Well yeah. Just like there are old fat people fricking in regular life.
Swingers are pretty much exactly the same in their looks demographics as the rest of society. You have ugly frick groups.......exclusive "we only accept super hotties" type groups......and everything in between.
Demographically, the primary difference I see is that we are about 90% white, age 28-45 is probably most common, and generally upper middle class.
The latter is probably a function of the fact we tend to do a lot of travel events which of course, aren't cheap.
I'm sure there's a large demographic out there of trailer trash swingers too. Cause, well, trailer trash fricks too.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:43 am to terd ferguson
quote:If it's an organized party, YES, there's a meeting for ground rule if there are any relatively new people in the group. Those aren't about individual likes/dislikes.
I was also wondering about ground rules. Like is there a meeting before the orgy to go through everyone's likes/dislikes?
The individual shite is handled exactly like you'd handle it when you took some girl home. Well, unless you're the type guy to just try to ram it up your first date's arse at the earliest opportunity.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:45 am to terd ferguson
quote:There are non-condom using people out there.
What about protection? If you're w/ 5 couples could there be some that don't use protection (condoms)?
We don't attend such gatherings.
quote:Interestingly, at anything organized, yes.
Do you just keep a big bowl in the middle so you can grab a new on for each partner?
Of course, if you have your own preference.....
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:46 am to ShortyRob
Well guys. I hope you enjoyed "Swinger Education by ShortyRob" but, believe it or not, I do have other obligations.
Feel free to ask more questions but I'll have to catch em later.
Feel free to ask more questions but I'll have to catch em later.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:46 am to ShortyRob
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unless you're the type guy to just try to ram it up your first date's arse at the earliest opportunity.
Rob, I thought we had a mutual understanding going on here... I won't judge you, you don't judge me.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:46 am to ShortyRob
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nless you're the type guy to just try to ram it up your first date's arse at the earliest opportunity.
I find that this establishes a good base upon which to grow. The bedrock, so to speak.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:52 am to ShortyRob
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Feel free to ask more questions but I'll have to catch em later.
- Have you ever seen a couple show up to one of these events and realize there is a black couple involved and walk away?
- What happens at the end... do you just kind of slip out when you're done or is there a closing ceremony? Like everyone hugs or shakes hands and says "thanks for the sex!"
- Has anything funny ever happened? I could picture a group of 5 couples going at it and one of the chicks queef or something... does everyone lol?
- Are there ever any overly dramatic porn star type moaning/screaming chicks? "OMGZ OMGZ OMGZ frick MY PUSSY! GIMME DAT DICK! OMGZ OMGZ ZOOOMMMMGGGG!" and do you tell them to keep it down?
- Are all of the couples married?
- Do you know Paige?
This post was edited on 6/22/15 at 11:54 am
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:53 am to CadesCove
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My DISC profile says that I don't do well in groups that I'm not in charge of.
High D, I assume.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:56 am to 4LSU2
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High D, I assume.
The graph looks like a check mark.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:59 am to CadesCove
This shite is so weird to me. I guess I'd be down for something like this if I was on my second wife. When I'm like 50 and she's 20 and I don't plan on having kids with her and really only married her for sex anyway. But my real wife and mother of my kids? Nah
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:06 pm to finchmeister08
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why tie the knot with someone if you both are going to sleep around with other folks openly?
A few reasons I can think of...
1. Tax advantages.
2. Divorces are expensive.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:09 pm to terd ferguson
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- Have you ever seen a couple show up to one of these events and realize there is a black couple involved and walk away?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:12 pm to terd ferguson
Atheists tell us that everything we do and think is based on evolutionary biology. There is no such thing as love, just chemical reactions in the brain. There is no objective morality, just centuries of cultural and societal overlay as to what is "good" or "bad" for humans living together.
So if you think everything has a naturalistic explanation, and that marriage isn't sacred, you can pretty much do whatever you want with it.
If you think that marriage is an institution sanctioned by God, you will believe that there are rules and you will try to uphold its sanctity.
Simple as that, really.
So if you think everything has a naturalistic explanation, and that marriage isn't sacred, you can pretty much do whatever you want with it.
If you think that marriage is an institution sanctioned by God, you will believe that there are rules and you will try to uphold its sanctity.
Simple as that, really.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:17 pm to Slippy
I'm not really a God-fearing man... I just don't like sharing (only child).
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:22 pm to ShortyRob
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Feel free to ask more questions but I'll have to catch em later.
So let's say you seem the same couples at these parties all the time, what happens if you or your wife start to have feelings for one of the other swingers?
Do y'all ever hang out outside of the sex parties?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:27 pm to finchmeister08
you need a "home base" to go to war from. you need a "space dock" to go star trek where no man has gone before. marriage gives you the "base dock" in which to explore strange.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:29 pm to HoustonChick86
Seven pages and it's a woman that brings up "feelings". 
Posted on 6/22/15 at 12:32 pm to Black n Gold
Well half the people involved are women, so I'm sure it has happened.
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