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What’s more important? Quality of parents or quality of school?

Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:45 am
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:45 am
So much political blabber about bad schools being the reason for poverty, drop outs, teenage pregnancy, unemployment, etc etc.

It’s my opinion that if a kid has a quality parent(s) at home, he or she will succeed no matter how shitty a school may be. Conversely, a kid with terrible parents will fail in even the best school.

Am I wrong?
Posted by LSU fan 246
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:46 am to
Parents easily
Posted by shawnlsu
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parentS
Posted by pioneerbasketball
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parents
Posted by TigerDude80
METRY
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:47 am to
Parents...
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:47 am to
Parents.
Posted by BehindtheWoodshed
Louisiana
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Parents and it isn’t even remotely close.
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:48 am to
Not even a question, really. Great schools and quality teachers (competent, smart, caring) can only do so much if parents don't have standards, model proper behavior, or attitudes.
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:48 am to
Quality of parents; however, if the school is terrible enough even the best parents won't be able to overcome it.
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:49 am to
I don't think anyone in their right mind would disagree with that statement.
Posted by Tridentds
Sugar Land
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values come from parents not schools. it all starts with values.
Posted by OMLandshark
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If you don’t have quality parents, then you won’t have a quality school. So it’s obvious.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:49 am to
quote:

It’s my opinion that if a kid has a quality parent(s) at home, he or she will succeed no matter how shitty a school may be. Conversely, a kid with terrible parents will fail in even the best school.

I would say that parents are more important, but I also think that quality parents will try their best not to send their kid to a shitty school anyway.

Quality parents with kid at an average school, will succeed more than average parents with kid at a good school, IMO.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:50 am to
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if the school is terrible enough even the best parents won't be able to overcome it.


bullshite. There are many other ways to educate your kid than just school.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:50 am to
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Quality of parents; however, if the school is terrible enough even the best parents won't be able to overcome it.





Quality parents lead to quality schools.
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:51 am to
Everything starts and ends at home.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:51 am to
Parents!
Posted by Lsuhack1
Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:52 am to
quote:

So much political blabber about bad schools being the reason for poverty, drop outs, teenage pregnancy, unemployment, etc etc.

It’s my opinion that if a kid has a quality parent(s) at home, he or she will succeed no matter how shitty a school may be. Conversely, a kid with terrible parents will fail in even the best school.

Am I wrong?


Yes you are, parents only control a portion of a kids influence. To just eliminate where a child will spend ~20,000 hours at through their most influential and trans-formative years is idiotic. The standard of excellence you child is held to at school is very important, If you rank #1 among your peers that means you are doing relativity well, no matter how you rank in the global scheme.
Note: i recently went to a public high school graduation of 550 kids, at the beginning of the ceremony they honored 4 kids who scored in the top 10% of the act. that is less than 1% of the students at this school is in even the top ten percent. I have a hard time believing that 99% of the parents weren't good parents or didn't instill values. the person I was there for stood up.
This post was edited on 6/4/18 at 9:54 am
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8699 posts
Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:53 am to
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bullshite. There are many other ways to educate your kid than just school.



I agree, I was thinking along the lines of peer influence.
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 6/4/18 at 9:53 am to
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So much political blabber about bad schools being the reason for poverty, drop outs, teenage pregnancy, unemployment, etc etc.


I would argue good schools can overcome bad parenting. However it takes some maturity from the kid to make it happen.
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