re: What percentage of guys do you think sexually harass coworkers?

One of the girls at work has gained about 15lbs all in her tits and arse since winter started.

Yes. I give it a look.

What red blooded male wouldn't?

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Masterag

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Virtual Signalling read loud and clear. We know you're a feminist ally. You woke AF.

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I’m taljing about habitual creepyness, touching, etc after it’s been established she’s not interested.

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And then what of the girls who intentionally play hard to get, enjoy being pursued, or find persistence attractive?

I'm not some boorish "all women are lying about sexual assault/harassment" type guy, but come on, the behavior some modern day feminists push for is not remotely realistic or even wanted by most women

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I'm not some boorish "all women are lying about sexual assault/harassment" type guy, but come on, the behavior some modern day feminists push for is not remotely realistic or even wanted by most women

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Which is evident when only 20ish percent of women identify as a feminist. No telling how much lower that number would be without their campaign to inform everyone what the dictionary definition of the word is.

I think men are generally rougher with their language and friendly interactions. I don't think they always realize that they might be being offensive or over the line. But, women who are intimidated by that need to step up and say something. At the time, not years later.

I squeeze up on some of the women at work. Nothing wrong with a little sexual horseplay around the office.

I appreciate it when a man isn't rough with his language around me. I'm not a shrinking violet by any means, but overly sexual discussions and language coming from a man who is not my husband makes me uncomfortable. But, I'm not one to have detailed discussions like that with my girlfriends, either. Private things are private. However, if you say something that bothers me, I'll tell you to your face then and there. If you continue or try to get my goat, then maybe I would need someone (ie HR) to intervene. But, the times this has happened to me and I said something, the men were genuinely embarrassed. I don't think their goal was to be offensive or to embarrass me. They were just shooting off at the mouth. Not everything is a big deal. Sometimes you just need to speak up directly to the person.

Definitely. And the tone you choose has a big impact on how you are received. I had a male boss whistle and snap at me to get something for him off a printer once. I knew what he wanted, and I could have thrown a fit as it did piss me off to be treated like that in front of a client. But, I waited until the client was gone and told him, "I think you were trying to pull up my name earlier and all that came out was whistles and snapping. If you'd like me to respond in the future, feel free to come up with any female name. I'll answer to Susan or Beth or whatever. But that was the only time I will answer to whistles and snaps because I'm not a cocker spaniel." And just said it in a laughing way, but I was clear. He wmdidnt get mad. He laughed but was beet red and apologized. Didn't haopen again. I think if I had said it in front of the client or in a bitchy tone, it would not have been so well received.

Just asked one of my close female friends and after an initial “I don’t want to talk about it,” she noted that it’s very prevalent, and that she was harassed this very week.

This won’t bode well for that a-hole.

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Virtual Signalling read loud and clear. We know you're a feminist ally. You woke AF.

Happy?

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Yeah I can't tell if he's trolling or has been casterated.