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Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:00 pm to
Posted by Untethered
Member since Aug 2021
28 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:00 pm to
My ex FIL tried to fight one of my groomsmen at the reception. We’re a classy bunch.
Posted by Turf Taint
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2021
6010 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:00 pm to
Almost as good as it can be.

Wife is only child, but "thankfully" in my case his FIL was total jerk to him. Like total jerk. So, my FIL is genuinely a good FIL / Grandpa but his FIL only helped me.

Now, it ain't always peaches n cream, but much mutual respect helps us get past the bumps.
Posted by Keltic Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2006
21529 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:01 pm to
I had the father-in-law from hell, but he treated all the inlaws, 5, equally as bad, his own children as well. He was just a cold, unloving person & never cared about having any kind of relationship with anyone beyond his wife, our mother-in-law. A doctor in a medium-sized city, his wife his nurse, who always took a calculator with him when the family went out to eat: he would sit down & figure out to the penny who owed what. I once sat on my hands, when the wife & I were taken out to eat, just the 4 of us, refusing to pony up till my shins were too sore from being kicked under the table. We had just married & she was still in school, so every nickle mattered to us. a 1000 similar stories.
Posted by pigskinGod
Member since Sep 2020
1573 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:01 pm to
Don't have one yet but this is similar to my dad and my mom's dad. My dad was an alcoholic and it led to my parents' divorce but he's gotten clean and my grandpa likes him a lot now. We go to sporting events together sometimes and they get along great.
Posted by PillPusher
Gulf Coast
Member since Oct 2009
5922 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:02 pm to
I love my FIL. He’s a great dude who is willing to help with anything I need. He’s not intrusive in our lives. Doesn’t hurt he likes to drink and we align politically.
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8686 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:02 pm to
Wish it was better to be honest, especially seeing as how I always enjoy spending time with him. But when you spend half your weekends out of town in Arizona and the other half is prioritized with his friends, it leaves little time for my wife, myself, and our son. Maybe one day he'll realize the relationship he lost out on with his daughter and grandson, but I doubt it.

ETA: Not wanting to sound selfish, he does this to all family members.
This post was edited on 8/26/21 at 5:09 pm
Posted by jacksajester
Metry
Member since Jun 2014
2220 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:03 pm to
quote:

grocery shopping for the first time in years


How does one go so long without going to the grocery?
Posted by CitizenK
BR
Member since Aug 2019
13811 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:04 pm to
it was great even after we divorced. He was upfront and we met for coffee and went toe to toe figuratively to clear the air. Afterwards we were both very friendly when our paths crossed
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
9759 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:04 pm to
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We're pretty cool. We live in different states so don't see him but 1-2x a year. We do have different primary interests but we both enjoy a good bourbon so no issues


Almost exactly the same situation as mine.

See him about once or twice a year, usually have a chat with bourbon involved. He tries to convince us to move back, we say "maybe".
Posted by Mr Personality
Bangkok
Member since Mar 2014
27364 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:06 pm to
He gets mad when I talk about fricking his daughter
Posted by CGSC Lobotomy
Member since Sep 2011
81611 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:06 pm to
Nonexistent since he died 11 years before we married.
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
66431 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:07 pm to
Will be at his house in about 30 minutes. Left the wife at home to go eat catfish with him.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
21608 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:17 pm to
Mine is a good fellow and is basically a quiet man. He does not wear his hearing aids and I believe that keeps him from engaging in conversation more than he does. When I offer to help him do something though he often accepts the assistance and we enjoy doing those things together.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:20 pm to
Great relationship with him. He's the complete opposite of my dad in many ways, so that's been cool. He does get on my nerves from time to time, but that's pretty minor in the grand scheme of things.
Posted by sawtooth
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2017
3588 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:22 pm to
Great until I divorced his daughter.
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
32433 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:23 pm to
Very good
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
12230 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:23 pm to
He died long before I knew my wife.

I have an uncle in law that somewhat fills that role. We’re totally different people. Very few similar interests, but we get along well.
Posted by Porter Osborne Jr
Member since Sep 2012
43073 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:23 pm to
He’s an awesome guy and more of a father figure to me than my own dad.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:28 pm to
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He gets mad when I talk about fricking his daughter





My father in law loves talking about fricking my mother in law. It was funny when I first started dating my wife, and even a few years into marriage, but they're in their late 70's now and I really don't want to hear that she gave him a blow job the night before, or that he's almost out of viagra. The really uncomfortable part is my mother in law likes talking about sex if she's had a couple of drinks. Luckily she doesn't drink very often.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
28262 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 5:34 pm to
My father in law is a cool old cat. For a Vietnam vet, he's about as chill as you can get. We get along fine.
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