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re: What did your wife/husband do today to piss you off?

Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:48 am to
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:48 am to
asked stupid questions when I was already aggravated.

Me: "I had to stop and change a tire this morning"

Her: "Was it flat"

Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:48 am to
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Also, it doesn't change anything because I'm at work and I won't get home until after them anyways. I was simply trying to save her aggravation from sitting in crappy Atlanta traffic.



So what does it matter
Posted by CHiPs25
Member since Apr 2014
3129 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:48 am to
quote:

So why are you mad?


I'm pissed because of this:

quote:

Her - Stop lecturing me with should haves


There was zero lecturing. I wanted to simply let her know that traffic is going to get bad and she should leave sooner than later.
Posted by Chuckd
Louisiana
Member since May 2013
797 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:48 am to
At some point in your marriage you have to learn a little about your spouse. Like,Does she generally respond well to unsolicited advice ? Mine doesn’t, so I try to avoid, although sometimes I can’t help it.
Posted by CHiPs25
Member since Apr 2014
3129 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:49 am to
quote:

At some point in your marriage you have to learn a little about your spouse. Like,Does she generally respond well to unsolicited advice ? Mine doesn’t, so I try to avoid, although sometimes I can’t help it.


The battle here is it's hard to draw a line about what advice I should give her and what I shouldn't. Some days she takes it fine. Other days, not so much.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:51 am to
It’s not about the advice you gave...it’s how you gave the advice.
Posted by Chuckd
Louisiana
Member since May 2013
797 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:51 am to
If she’s the independent type with a good head on her shoulders, then I think less is more in this situation.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:52 am to
quote:

The battle here is it's hard to draw a line about what advice I should give her and what I shouldn't. Some days she takes it fine. Other days, not so much.



If she wants advice from you she'll ask

All you can do is mention things...if she wants to know more she will let you know
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:53 am to
quote:

I wanted to simply let her know that traffic is going to get bad


and what if it doesnt? It's a holiday week and school is out...lots of people are still on vacation.

Maybe traffic will be light...I know it was light for me this morning.
Posted by EvrybodysAllAmerican
Member since Apr 2013
12941 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:54 am to
Your wife sounds awesome if that’s all you can come up with.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:55 am to
quote:

There was zero lecturing.



It was a bit condescending, assuming of course she's familiar with traffic in Atlanta.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
17054 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 11:59 am to
quote:

Her - Thanks dad



She doesn’t respect you.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53814 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 12:00 pm to
quote:

While being gay can be a pain in the arse

Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
33653 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 12:02 pm to
brah…...sack up. And, you do sound like dad.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71821 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 12:05 pm to
Was that your wife or daughter?
Posted by ChillyH2O
Member since Apr 2017
91 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 12:17 pm to
Any of my kids reply to me with "Stop lecturing me with should haves" would get a taste of the pimp hand!
Posted by whitetiger1234
They/Them
Member since Oct 2016
6693 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 12:21 pm to
great post.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
41870 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 12:25 pm to
quote:

Me - I'm just saying it could cause your trip to be an hour longer than it needs to be.


And she's just saying you should shut the frick up and let them plan their drive on their own like normal adults.
Posted by blueridgeTiger
Granbury, TX
Member since Jun 2004
22390 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 12:26 pm to
You do sound somewhat like a control freak.
Posted by OrangeBoi
Earth
Member since May 2019
54 posts
Posted on 5/28/19 at 12:31 pm to
Her alarm went off 5 times before she woke up
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