re: What age did you stop jerking off?

Low T huh?

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What age did you stop jerking off?

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When I met your mom

Im jerking off right now

The Nun caught me and told me I was going to go blind if I didn’t stop. I told her I’d stop when I need glasses.

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Had a scare back around late 30s and single. Ended up meeting my dream girl out that night. Unfortunately I had been home jerking it all day. Add in a few beers, and there was nothing I could do to get it up as hard as she was working.

She quickly got distant after that eventually ghosting me. Quit drinking and porn that day.

I’m married and occasionally jerk off now, but only as a last resort. No porn tho whatsoever

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You very well could have some sort of physical condition. Not being rude or mean spirited at all but jerking off is rarely a cause of ED....almost never and in the case of someone under the age or 70 or so who is otherwise healthy its almost unheard of. Most men get 3-4 full erections every nigh while sound asleep...it is a healing and maintenance tool the body uses to maintain a healthy pecker. If, when you are conscious, you find that you are experiencing ED at almost any age and do not have some underlying health issue it is an emotional issue....it could be that you put too much pressure on yourself to perform if she was indeed the girl of your dreams. It may also be that something else was going on....but without some physical ailment if you were in your 30s and had a tough time performing there is an excellent chance that something physical or emotional was going on....and physically even at an advanced age if the emotional mood was right even if you had just performed it is not unusual to do so againg in short order. It is highly unlikely that one could masturbate often enough in their 30s to cause any sort of ED short of other factors....

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You’ll stop when your ol’ lady keeps you sexually satisfied.

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While I tell my wife this very thing it is not about her at all. We have been married 32 years and together 37...in that time I can remember only a few times that she was not down with the idea of having a roll in the sack. There are many times, however, when it is just not convenient....say you wake up at 3 am and have to be at work at 6 but had one of those good dreams and now old John Henry is wide awake and unlikely to settle down without some action on someone's part. Its either take care of the situation yourself, as you have done since you were 13 or so, or wake her up, go through the motions of even a quicky, and get to sleep.....so 90 seconds or 15 minutes.

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I don’t think I keep my hardness like I used to.

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Too many products out there. I haven't had any problems but I was given some of the Ro gummies to frick around with. It was like I was 14 again

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I don’t think people realize just how fricked up porn is for you and how easy it is to get addicted.

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This is true and the science is becoming pretty damn clear. It is not the physical act of masturbating, it is replacing the emotional aspect of fantasy with actual images that is damaging. As much as men would like to claim otherwise sex is as much about emotion and mental state as it is physical....obviously not to the point that it is for women but the gulf is not as wide as we like to think. Fantasy is a HUGE part of that....porn removes it from the equation. It is highly unlikely that what one can see for free on porn hub is ever going to be close to what reality with a partner is....but the mind can become conditioned to think porn is the norm and reality is the outlier...at that point it is probably the individual will be dissatisfied with their reality more often than not. Its a taboo subject but the impact on the sexually immature from porn is probably way worse than it is for someone who has some experience with reality but the damage can be done either way....