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re: Was I Really That Out Of Bounds Asking A Woman Friend To Be FWB?

Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:16 pm to
Posted by AMS
Member since Apr 2016
6537 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:16 pm to
quote:

Scruffy is no player…at all, but, damn, some of this is blatantly obvious.



email. using strippers, hookers, and the fact that neither of them are 'experienced' as logic for the proposition.

not just some of it, all of it is blatantly obvious

sometimes less is more, but in this case nothing wouldve been the most.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
127401 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:16 pm to
This is stalker level shite. You should have just responded with “Okay” and “I am sorry.”

She probably needs to consider a restraining order on you now.
quote:



And charge your battery dammit
Posted by Liberator
Revelation 20:10-12
Member since Jul 2020
9071 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:21 pm to
quote:

I learned at an early age that spending a long time building a relationship with a girl I hoped would turn into more was a waste of time.


How did you wind up tweaking your technique?

Was this during the pre or post internet days?

It's just another sport. Of course things are easier in hindsight... leveraging your strengths to your opponents weakness (that's where the getting-to-know-each-other" feel and prep-banter normally helps set up the rest of the game)

Posted by lsubuddy
houma, la
Member since Jul 2014
4997 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:22 pm to
But ! IF you're a average looking dude and have any charm and charisma at all, you can get the friendship back. It'll take time!
Posted by Hopeful Doc
Member since Sep 2010
15388 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:23 pm to
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Obviously for security purposes I have blacked out the number.


Has she posted your reply on r/niceguys yet?
Posted by TheInvisibleMan
Member since Apr 2022
38 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:25 pm to
quote:

But ! IF you're a average looking dude and have any charm and charisma at all, you can get the friendship back. It'll take time!


Sorry but if that's the way she's going to react I have no interest in getting the friendship back. I trusted her and it's obvious that trust was misplaced. The way I look at it better to just leave it and move on.
Posted by AMS
Member since Apr 2016
6537 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:26 pm to
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leveraging your strengths to your opponents weakness


bill cosby, is that you?...plz don't apply this type of thought to getting laid, for your sake and theirs.


Posted by TheInvisibleMan
Member since Apr 2022
38 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:29 pm to
If you all really want the reply here it is:
_____________________________________________________
So be it. I won't contact you again. I don't regret asking and I won't apologize. If you're going to be that immature about it and not be an adult then I guess I didn't know you as well as I thought. I asked because I trusted you. It seems that trust was misplaced. You are the one who ended the friendship, not me. But I'm not sorry for asking and I know at the bottom of my heart that I did the right thing. I took my chance. Goodbye.
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That was my response. She most likely blocked my number so I doubt she ever saw it anyway.
This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 12:33 pm
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
108995 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:29 pm to
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
131614 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:32 pm to
Charge your damn phone
Posted by rowbear1922
Houston, TX
Member since Oct 2008
15792 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:34 pm to
This is a terrible attempt at a troll or you are a narcissistic near virgin
Posted by cable
Member since Oct 2018
9735 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:35 pm to
If it's going to happen - it will. If you're just hanging out - in my experience - nothing ever comes of it. There's flirting and touching or you're just nothing more. Women aren't the easiest to decipher, but they give you clues if you're not a moron.
Posted by SpotCheckBilly
Member since May 2020
8526 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:35 pm to
quote:

Sorry but if that's the way she's going to react I have no interest in getting the friendship back. I trusted her and it's obvious that trust was misplaced. The way I look at it better to just leave it and move on.



I suspect she read that as, "I'm too cheap to buy a whore, would you be my whore?"

That's going to get you to "No," about 99% of the time.
Posted by James11111
Walnut Creek, Ca
Member since Jul 2020
5669 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:36 pm to
quote:

This is a terrible attempt at a troll


12 pages says otherwise
Posted by Liberator
Revelation 20:10-12
Member since Jul 2020
9071 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:38 pm to
Not here to pile on...

Back off. Chalk it up as a lesson-learned. Hopefully some baws here have provided some helpful mentorship.

Additions: Be far more subtle. Don't assume. Don't be lazy. Put SOME quality work into your game. Stop putting pressure on yourself regarding "sex-practice." You;ll know what to do -- don't over-think things. BE yourself. Let things breathe and flow.
This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 12:39 pm
Posted by Liberator
Revelation 20:10-12
Member since Jul 2020
9071 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:40 pm to
quote:

There's flirting and touching or you're just nothing more. Women aren't the easiest to decipher, but they give you clues if you're not a moron.


Exactly.
Posted by VABuckeye
NOVA
Member since Dec 2007
38283 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:41 pm to
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So be it. I won't contact you again. I don't regret asking and I won't apologize. If you're going to be that immature about it and not be an adult then I guess I didn't know you as well as I thought. I asked because I trusted you. It seems that trust was misplaced. You are the one who ended the friendship, not me. But I'm not sorry for asking and I know at the bottom of my heart that I did the right thing. I took my chance. Goodbye.


So you in your infinite wisdom decided to double down on stupidity. IF this is true you're one of the most socially awkward people ever to post on this site. This thread puts you into Boo Krewe and Trillhog territory.
Posted by WylieTiger
Member since Nov 2006
14687 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:41 pm to
quote:

Cmon man.

Doing it through email is fricking ridiculous.


Would a text message have been better?


Didn't you screenshot a text message. If so, then why this question on pg 2?

SCAM
TROLL

Posted by TheInvisibleMan
Member since Apr 2022
38 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:43 pm to
quote:

So you in your infinite wisdom decided to double down on stupidity. IF this is true you're one of the most socially awkward people ever to post on this site. This thread puts you into Boo Krewe and Trillhog territory.


It is true and yes I did send that to her. I'll admit that response was probably pure emotion. No real thought put into it.
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22372 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:43 pm to
Still waiting on those pics of this chica.
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