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re: Twisted sister- In -Law
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:26 am to MissWalkOn
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:26 am to MissWalkOn
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MissWalkOn
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I told my wife
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I want to go to this party though.
Perfect Beta screen name. Grow a pair.
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:27 am to NOBOTIGER
Can’t believe so many people allow other family members, friends influence their families lives . Be a man , shut it down, Oh and have a down vote for no pics .
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:28 am to MissWalkOn
quote:hmmmm
she has said that she’ll reveal a secret that she thinks will hurt us. Not sure what it is. I told my wife to let her do it. No one will believe her anyway. My wife doesn’t want to lose her sister and wants to stay home or go out elsewhere.
Why would your wife be feeling the heat here?
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:33 am to MissWalkOn
If you’re tired of her unacceptable behavior, just tell her...
“We’re not gonna take it.”
“We’re not gonna take it.”
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:39 am to MissWalkOn
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I have a sister in law that seems to get in fights a lot with people including other family members.
When she does, she expects my wife and my kids to take her side which means they cannot talk to, or see, the people she is fighting with or else she gets mad at them.
I told my wife to stop fighting her battles. We don’t know the details of her issues with other people so we can’t be expected to be involved. I wouldn’t ask the same if I were fighting with someone.
So there is a new years eve party coming up at a friend’s house and we’re invited but she isn’t- because she is fighting with the wife. She expects us not to go and has made it a big deal. She says that the party hosts are bad people. She says they hate us and that the wife has cheated on her husband and flirts with sister in laws husband.
If we go, she has said that she’ll reveal a secret that she thinks will hurt us. Not sure what it is. I told my wife to let her do it. No one will believe her anyway. My wife doesn’t want to lose her sister and wants to stay home or go out elsewhere.
I really don’t need advice here but feel free to give it. This is just a burden that I have to deal with. I know that eventually, once my wife stands up to her and lets her fight her own battles, it’ll all take care of itself. Just have to weather the storm.
I want to go to this party though.
I’ll probably confront sister in law ... again... and tell her to find a cliff and jump off. Will revert with results
It sounds like you and your wife need to come to an understanding that her sister is fricking toxic and that she's bringing unnecessary stress into your lives.
This isn't cancer. It's not that she's in the OR facing some life-changing surgery. She didn't lose a child to these people (or any of the others she gets all of you to side with her against).
The problem is her and her attitude of scorched earth for any slight. She has the conflict resolution ability of a child.
You need to work on your wife, to get her to agree that her sister needs help. If/when you get to that point then you tell the sister that you're worried for her and how she reacts isn't healthy.
If she listens and takes it to heart, help her find counselling and you all win.
If she takes offense to the point where you are now the enemy then you two just shut her out until she cools the frick off. When she comes back, make sure to establish boundaries by telling her that not only do you still believe she needs help but that her reaction just underscored it. You and your wife win some peace from this.
The bottom line is that your sister-in-law needs help and no one can help her but her. All you and your wife are doing by being amenable to her are enabling her by supporting her juvenile approach to others.
Good luck.
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:39 am to tigerfoot
I am a strong believer in family and always backing them. So I was about to say that until I read the sentence about her threatening you. I would call her or go see her today and tell her I never want to see her again after that threat. That is unforgivable.
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:39 am to MissWalkOn
Go to the party if you want, and don’t let her toxic nature prevent you from doing things you want to do.
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:40 am to MissWalkOn
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So there is a new years eve party coming up at a friend’s house and we’re invited
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the wife has cheated on her husband
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I want to go to this party
Obviously.
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:46 am to MissWalkOn
If the sister in law threatened me she would be out my life
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:50 am to MissWalkOn
If you and your wife Are you both women?
if so i think i know the secret...
if so i think i know the secret...
This post was edited on 12/28/19 at 9:51 am
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:54 am to MissWalkOn
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Twisted sister- In -Law
The name of my Twisted Sister cover band.
Posted on 12/28/19 at 9:58 am to MissWalkOn
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If we go, she has said that she’ll reveal a secret that she thinks will hurt us.
Nobody cares that y'all swing bro.
Posted on 12/28/19 at 10:01 am to MissWalkOn
Isn't this what facebook was created for?
Posted on 12/28/19 at 10:02 am to MissWalkOn
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MissWalkOn
Why do you use a female username?
Posted on 12/28/19 at 10:14 am to MissWalkOn
Had a sister-in-law like that. It got to the point of the list of those we couldn't invite to things if sister-in-law was coming was too long. Told my wife those on the list aren't the problem her sister is. Simple solution... don't invite the sister-in-law and remove the orgin of stress and conflict.
People like this need help and need to grow up but won't. Move on.
People like this need help and need to grow up but won't. Move on.
Posted on 12/28/19 at 10:20 am to MissWalkOn
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wife has cheated on her husband and flirts with sister in laws husband
quote:I feel like these statements are connected.
I want to go to this party though
ETA: looks like others picked up on this as well
This post was edited on 12/28/19 at 10:22 am
Posted on 12/28/19 at 10:37 am to MissWalkOn
Send her the following in a text.
Dear Sister-in-law. We never intended for you to have the heavy burden of being in charge of who we can speak with, see, or where we can go. Consider yourself relieved of this responsibility.
Also, you, as a family member, are privy to personal information about me and my family. Your threat to expose privileged information requires that, from this point forward, your familial security clearance is revoked. Please understand that you are no longer to ask, or be told about any private family matters.
Now, to address your threat to expose personal secrets about us. If you do so, we will go to war. Do not underestimate my resolve, or mistake my past kindness for weakness.
Take Care
Dear Sister-in-law. We never intended for you to have the heavy burden of being in charge of who we can speak with, see, or where we can go. Consider yourself relieved of this responsibility.
Also, you, as a family member, are privy to personal information about me and my family. Your threat to expose privileged information requires that, from this point forward, your familial security clearance is revoked. Please understand that you are no longer to ask, or be told about any private family matters.
Now, to address your threat to expose personal secrets about us. If you do so, we will go to war. Do not underestimate my resolve, or mistake my past kindness for weakness.
Take Care
Posted on 12/28/19 at 10:46 am to Epic Cajun
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Your wife has been getting that outside dick, which is why she’s concerned about the secret being revealed
Absolutely.
Posted on 12/28/19 at 10:47 am to Maus
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The OT will tell you to just smile and take her shite because “family”.
This board is full of beta bitches.
U still enjoying the bag of dicks I got u for Christmas? I know they are your fav!
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