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Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:25 am to TexasTiger08
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:25 am to TexasTiger08
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I told her to leave tonight, will be changing the locks tomorrow. 3 year marriage and 8 year relationship gone.
Good job, man. It hurts now, but you’ll find somebody better.
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:34 am to TexasTiger08
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UPDATE: long story short, wife of her coworker caught them together, and they’ve been hanging out a few times. Wife maintains nothing physical happened, but she lied about meeting up with him, multiple times. I told her to leave tonight, will be changing the locks tomorrow. 3 year marriage and 8 year relationship gone.
Welp. Revising my advice.
1. Definitely get a lawyer. Like right now. Follow your lawyer’s advice before you do anything else drastic. Don’t frick your self on this one by doing something driven by emotion that gives her the legal upper hand.
2. The drinking is still an issue you need to address so see someone for that. And given your binging history, be careful right now. You’re in a vulnerable spot where you could really do some damage.
3. If she’s meeting up with him, physical things have happened.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:34 am to TigerinKorea
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Good job, man. It hurts now, but you’ll find somebody better.
Who can say this? Op said he’s been a depressed shitty husband, probably worse than he even admitted.
Sure the wife shouldn’t have cheated and she sucks too.
But the fact is the OP needs to still do some serious soul searching and fix himself before he can ever have a serious relationship.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:34 am to TexasTiger08
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There’s more of a bombshell to this that won’t be posted yet.
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may have cheated
In that case...
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:35 am to TexasTiger08
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will be changing the locks tomorrow
Just have them re-keyed. Pissed my ex off to no end.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:35 am to TexasTiger08
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will be changing the locks tomorrow.
Isnt that Illegal? Like, you cant prevent her from accessing her HOME.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:36 am to TexasTiger08
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UPDATE: long story short, wife of her coworker caught them together, and they’ve been hanging out a few times. Wife maintains nothing physical happened, but she lied about meeting up with him, multiple times. I told her to leave tonight, will be changing the locks tomorrow. 3 year marriage and 8 year relationship gone.
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Wife maintains nothing physical happened
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nothing physical happened
quote:there is always more
There’s more of a bombshell to this that won’t be posted yet.
quote:im going to abandon character for a minute
TexasTiger08
Humble yourself and find a church, therapy, good friend/family that really has your best interest and open yourself up for support. Do whatever you can to maintain sobriety throughout this even if you yourself don't think there is an issue with alcohol. Get through this chapter and once the dust settles and life finds its track again and you feel the urge to have some drinks and let loose, have after it.
Sincere prayers for you and your family
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:41 am to ManWithNoNsme
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And for all the “my wife of 40 years still gets my dick hard”…go frick yourselves. We all know you’re lying out your asses.
Some saggy titty bitch with a snatch you can throw a cat through still gets you hard???
And you haven’t had your dick sucked since Regan was President.
Wish I hadn't but one upvote
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:41 am to supadave3
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Genuine question. I have no advice to offer but are you suggesting that he move out and temporarily let her stay in the house? Why is that to his benefit?
The opposite.
He can’t legally kick her out of her own house.
Also, for the court’s sake, he shouldn’t leave the house either.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:43 am to TexasTiger08
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:45 am to TexasTiger08
just dont use the cheating to justify you being a good husband.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:48 am to TexasTiger08
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Wife maintains nothing physical happened, but she lied about meeting up with him, multiple times.
Yeah she's 100% lying
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will be changing the locks tomorrow
Don't think you can legally do this. I wouldn't do anything until speaking with a lawyer
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3 year marriage and 8 year relationship gone.
Been there. It sucks. But if you take the time to find the right partner, you can have a happy marriage and life.
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There’s more of a bombshell to this that won’t be posted yet.
Can't wait for the next episode!
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:48 am to supadave3
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Genuine question. I have no advice to offer but are you suggesting that he move out and temporarily let her stay in the house? Why is that to his benefit?
He doesn't have to move out but if he changes the locks on her and unilaterally evicts her from the home it's not gonna work out well for him.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:50 am to TexasTiger08
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UPDATE: long story short, wife of her coworker caught them together, and they’ve been hanging out a few times. Wife maintains nothing physical happened, but she lied about meeting up with him, multiple times. I told her to leave tonight, will be changing the locks tomorrow. 3 year marriage and 8 year relationship gone.
There’s more of a bombshell to this that won’t be posted yet.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:52 am to CocomoLSU
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There’s more of a bombshell to this that won’t be posted yet
She's pregnant
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:52 am to TexasTiger08
Reluctantly Raises Hand
I told her to leave tonight, will be changing the locks tomorrow. - If her name is on the Mortgage you can't throw her out and if she's lived there long enough to be a resident you can't either.
Legally you would have to pay her for her half is owned or evict her if it's your house.
I've been through that too, had to sale my house because the X was listed as part owner. Meaning she could come and go as she pleased.
I told her to leave tonight, will be changing the locks tomorrow. - If her name is on the Mortgage you can't throw her out and if she's lived there long enough to be a resident you can't either.
Legally you would have to pay her for her half is owned or evict her if it's your house.
I've been through that too, had to sale my house because the X was listed as part owner. Meaning she could come and go as she pleased.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:53 am to TexasTiger08
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My depression, which I thought would be alleviated with me starting a new job, has taken too much of a toll on here. I had a bad drinking episode around Easter that weighed heavily upon her. I’m waiting to see a psychiatrist. Counseling for us is on the horizon. We’ve both already thought worst case scenario, which would be signing papers, moving our separate ways. I love her with everything I have. I’m just afraid I’ve failed.
You’re depressive, you’re not in control of your drinking, you failed. That’s your words.
But you “love her with everything you have”.
Then she meets up with a coworker and you quickly kick her out the house and end the relationship. So much for loving her with everything you have.
This whole story stinks.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:56 am to TexasTiger08
I’ve been through a divorce, and if we are all being honest here, most every marriage ends because of selfish motivations, even that which was in people’s heads from the very beginning in what they are going to get out of the marriage, and our society drives that through words like “Feelings” and “Happiness” as if that’s the precursor to a successful marriage, and it’s not. It’s “Commitment”.
Neither marriage or life is some never ending experience of bliss or happiness. It’s a construction project full of delays, disappointments, set backs, rescheduling and adjustments, getting along with others, etc, but eventually you will end up with something to be proud of if you persevere through it all.
But see, this is not what America tells little boys and girls from our childhood up, and it especially doesn’t appeal to people looking for instant plug and play happiness.
Neither marriage or life is some never ending experience of bliss or happiness. It’s a construction project full of delays, disappointments, set backs, rescheduling and adjustments, getting along with others, etc, but eventually you will end up with something to be proud of if you persevere through it all.
But see, this is not what America tells little boys and girls from our childhood up, and it especially doesn’t appeal to people looking for instant plug and play happiness.
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:57 am to JohnnyKilroy
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This post was edited on 7/12/23 at 9:45 am
Posted on 7/10/23 at 8:58 am to TexasTiger08
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I took her keys before she left last night.
Where did you expect her to sleep?
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