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Posted on 8/24/23 at 4:55 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
If the way you post is any indication at all of how you are in real life, I'm not the least bit surprised by this thread.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:03 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
You'll be fine if you believe in God. Pray, eat right, exercise, focus on your boys and this too shall pass. If I can get through it anyone can. Get some xanex to get you through the first month.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:04 pm to WhiteMandingo
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I would avoid involving the kids in the ins and out of it just that mom dosent love them she loves herself.
Absolutely do not do this. The kids will learn the truth when they are older. Parents that do this are assholes and it only fricks up the kids. No kid needs to hear that mom doesn't love them. OP and his wife need to come to an understanding: she can't talk shite about dad to the kids and dad doesn't talk shite about mom. Parents need to figure out a way to deal with their problems without involving the kids more than they need. There will be shared custody unless one of the parents becomes abusive or negligent.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:04 pm to hassan whiteside
whip her arse 
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:06 pm to Bulldozer1899
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Exwife now living at parents home with kid. She’s almost 50 and lives with parents
Do you have her number?
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:08 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
Have no idea what that feels like but imagine it’s terrible. Eat your feelings for now and focus on your kids. Get an attorney and document everything. You’ll be good baw.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:08 pm to OchoDedos
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Go get an attorney now
A female attorney. One with the reputation of being a real count in Court.
solid advice. hell hath no fury...
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:10 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
Dad's Divorce--The LIST
Good luck and Godspeed
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WHY ARE YOU HERE?? This is not a silly question. You are about to learn a whole new meaning of the term,"rebuttable presumption," and why it applies exclusively to you in Family Court.
Trust me, you're in for the fight of your life. If you're not prepared, you can bet the other side will rebut you right out of fatherhood and into poverty. Your children, with your current and future finances, will be out of your life forevermore.
Your goal therefore, demands a strong offense. This requires dedication, support, "pro-active" planning, and lots of research. In other words, PREPARATION IS EVERYTHING!!
The following list is neither conclusive nor is it exhaustive. For that matter, not all of it will apply to you. Nevertheless, its intent is to get you to think, ask hard questions, and above all, to be prepared. Copy it. Print it. NEVER let your STBX see it.
What ever you do, NEVER LEAVE YOUR MARITAL RESIDENCE unless ordered by the court!! If you do, your STBX is free to do unto you as you are about to do unto her. It'll be a mistake that'll cost you dearly.
If you're not THOROUGHLY prepared, the other side will find your weakness and work you over. Their primary purpose is to "soften you up" and get you to give up custody WILLINGLY!! "THEY HAVE METHODS!!" They'll even recruit your attorney and get you to sign documents you'll
later regret. If you're not prepared, and if you fail to choose your attorney wisely, there'll be nothing left of you when they're done.
If your STBX files first, she's already plotted her next 10 moves against you. This is not where you want to be. If she files first, you can expect:
1) a restraining order that evicts you from your house and prevents you from contacting your kids.
2) to pay temporary child support, temporary alimony, community debt, and/or bills accumulated by your STBX during these proceedings. This can be 1 to 3 years. You'll be bankrupt well before trial.
3) to pay court costs and other fees, in addition to expenses mentioned above: GAL; Custody/Child Evaluator; Psychological evaluation; Your STBX's attorney fees.
EXPECT HER TO LIE. EXPECT THEM TO BELIEVE HER. EXPECT NO FAIRNESS. EXPECT TO NEED MOUNTAINS OF EVIDENCE TO PROVE YOUR CASE.
Their goal is to "bleed you dry" and beat you into submission. You'll never see the last of their dirty tricks. It behooves you therefore to be very prepared very early.
NEVER BE IN A POSITION WHERE YOU HAVE TO PLAY "CATCH-UP."
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"Cardinal Rule" No 1....... KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!! LOOSE LIPS SINK SHIPS!!
This is war. You must approach this as a top-secret military operation.
1) Thou shalt not raise any suspicions. DO NOT TELEGRAPH YOUR INTENTIONS.
a) Thou shalt not tell anyone what you're up to, ESPECIALLY YOUR STBX.
b) Thou shalt not share information with anyone about anything.
c) Thou shalt take care of business like nothing's going on.
2) Thou shalt not get side-tracked. This is "crunch time." Manage your time wisely.
3) Thou shalt maintain thy Poker Face. Get prepared for the long hall.
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"Cardinal Rule" No 2....... NEVER LET YOUR GUARD DOWN!! WATCH YOUR BACK!!
Have minimal contact with your STBX. NEVER be in a position where she can allege domestic violence of any kind. It's best not to be alone with her. Always have a witness with you.
1) Be very careful when you are alone with your STBX.
a) She can file false domestic violence charges "at will," and have you thrown in jail.
b) She can get a restraining order "at will," and have you kicked out of your house.
2) "Thou shalt ALWAYS bite the bullet." At the same, "Thou shalt ALWAYS be bulding thy case."
a) Thou shalt not argue. Thou shalt not fight. Thou shalt not provoke thy STBX.
b) Thou shalt go the extra mile to be civil. Thou shalt be Mr Nice Guy.
3) Never engage in any form of business with your ex, no matter how much the deal "appears" to be in your favor. It will be a trap you'll regret 'til your dying day. Remember, there ain't no free lunch. You can always expect a pay-back down the road.
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"Cardinal Rule" No 3....... BE THE BEST DAD YOU CAN BE!! DO WHATEVER IT TAKES!!
1) Get involved with your kids as much as possible.
a) Assume the role of primary caretaker well in advance.
b) This'll set you up for primary, if not 50/50 shared primary custody. This is your goal. Never lose sight of that!!
2) Make everything you do in the best interest of your kids. Always go the extra mile.
Give your STBX a day off every week. "That's OK, Honey. I'll take care of this. Why don't you go shopping?" Take advantage to document parenting time, and snoop around when she's not home.
Good luck and Godspeed
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:14 pm to TheOcean
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Shut the hell up, oweo
frick you. What you going to do if I don't? Keep posting at me to shut up? Eat a dick. LSU will whip FSU's arse.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:16 pm to OweO
Lighten up, Christopher
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:16 pm to soccerfüt
You can shut up too
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:17 pm to OweO
Only advice you should be giving on here is how to live off the govt tit and how to roll around in a wheel chair
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:19 pm to TheOcean
Goddamn!Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:20 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
Trashy
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:23 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
Was she a stripper?
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:23 pm to TheOcean
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Only advice you should be giving on here is how to live off the govt tit and how to roll around in a wheel chair
That's all you got bitch? You want to compare bank statements? Either way, I hope getting that out makes you feel better because as for me, considering my situation, I am pretty happy with myself while you are on a message board having to try to "put down" people to feel better about your pathetic life.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:27 pm to OysterPoBoy
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quote: Do you have her number?
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:35 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
If she leaves you for someone else, she’ll leave the next guy for someone else as well.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 5:41 pm to OweO
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You want to compare bank statements?
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