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re: The married and not having sex check in thread

Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:47 am to
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
34428 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:47 am to
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Considering the level of misogyny here, real or joking, I am not surprised.


A-freakin-men. If my husband were saying some of the things ive seen some of these dudes saying, the buffet would be closed.
Posted by cheobode
Member since Dec 2017
1416 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:47 am to
My wife wants it more than I do. It's a blessing and a curse at the same time.

However, my wife is a member of the Lafayette Moms FB page and there was a topic about sex that came up and the top comment was from a girl I sort of know. She's hot, but said something like "if I never have sex again, I'll be a happy woman". There were so many comments agreeing and applauding her. I feel for those poor husbands.
Posted by beerJeep
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
36579 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:48 am to
Y’all are married?
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84097 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:48 am to
It’s not a joke. It causes despair and suicide. It turns a man into a beast of burden and kills his self respect. It’s a betrayal of everything that marriage is. I can criticize my ex ( I wouldn’t) but I can never say that she didn’t understand the importance of sex and affection. Men should leave these marriages. And they should never be with a woman who doesn’t have genuine burning desire for him. That includes dating.

On the flip side, if he won’t sleep with you, it’s because you are repulsive or he’s gay. And you should be less repulsive or tell him to GTFO and go live his new Pink Life.
Posted by King
Deep in the backwoods
Member since Sep 2008
18518 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:48 am to
I'm married 12 years and got hauk tuah Monday.
Posted by North Dallas Tiger
United States of America
Member since Mar 2024
13008 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:49 am to
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I'm married 12 years and got hauk tuah Monday.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
104017 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:49 am to
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It’s not a joke. It causes despair and suicide. It turns a man into a beast of burden and kills his self respect. It’s a betrayal of everything that marriage is. I can criticize my ex ( I wouldn’t) but I can never say that she didn’t understand the importance of sex and affection. Men should leave these marriages. And they should never be with a woman who doesn’t have genuine burning desire for him. That includes dating.



That's going to be a bitch when y'all get rid of no fault divorce.
Posted by patnuh
South LA
Member since Sep 2005
7277 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:49 am to
There was poster a while back that said his wife approached 50 and turned into a freak following hormonal changes. That’s the only hope that keeps me going.
This post was edited on 7/17/24 at 11:50 am
Posted by JDPndahizzy
JDP
Member since Nov 2013
6841 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:50 am to
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On the flip side, if he won’t sleep with you, it’s because you are repulsive


Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
34428 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:51 am to
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"if I never have sex again, I'll be a happy woman"


One of my friends feels this way. She still makes an effort though. I told her a long time ago if her marriage is important to her it’s something she needs to learn to enjoy.
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
133062 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:52 am to
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Seems to be an epidemic on this board


Why do you think guns, boats and truck nuts are so popular?
Posted by Ten Bears
Florida
Member since Oct 2018
4239 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:56 am to
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There was poster a while back that said his wife approached 50 and turned into a freak following hormonal changes. That’s the only hope that keeps me going.


As someone over 50, I can concur this is a thing. I mean, I'm not talking about candle wax on the nipples or witchcraft or anything like that, but the frequency has amped up.

I think it's that we no longer have to deal with kids walking in, and almost 25 years of marriage, we are completely dialed in with what one another really likes.
Posted by Ancient Astronaut
Member since May 2015
36231 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:57 am to
Question, do you have a friend named Jody or Tyrone by chance?
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
21153 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 11:58 am to
I put my face between my wife’s booty cheeks just this morning. 15 years in.
Posted by WonPercent
BATON ROUGE
Member since Aug 2023
767 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:00 pm to
I'm pretty self sufficient so I don't require a lot from a woman, but the minute she starts withholding sex........she's gone.

Posted by Traffic Circle
Down the Rabbit Hole
Member since Nov 2013
4632 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:00 pm to
Why would you stay married if you’re not getting any sex?

Some people justify it by “ oh, I don’t wanna lose half my stuff.” Problem is you just keep getting more stuff everyday.

The odds of you losing more continue to go up every day, and you’re still not getting any sex.

Lesson is, the earlier cut your losses, the better
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
53488 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:01 pm to
quote:

candle wax on the nipples or witchcraft

Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
104017 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:03 pm to
quote:

One of my friends feels this way. She still makes an effort though. I told her a long time ago if her marriage is important to her it’s something she needs to learn to enjoy.


Well it's worth noting, OB/GYNS are becoming more informed on managing things that could contribute to that in perimenopause and menopause. There are so many options out there to address those kind of issues before you should just crap out.

That said, if it's not a medical issue then it's a compatibility issue.
This post was edited on 7/17/24 at 12:04 pm
Posted by glassman
Next to the beer taps at Finn's
Member since Oct 2008
117303 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:03 pm to
Not going to lie, the witchcraft thing has my brain reeling.
Posted by GuidoVestieri
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2021
883 posts
Posted on 7/17/24 at 12:04 pm to
Um birthdays are a no along with anniversaries. Christmas is always a possibility though.
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