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Thanksgiving revelation: My parents are living separate lives

Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:19 pm
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8335 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:19 pm
Home for thanksgiving with my family and I’m watching my parents interact and it’s sad. My father (C-suite retired) is on a ton of non-profit boards and leaves early in the morning and my mom does her own thing. They don’t talk or even have each other’s schedule. It’s really sad.
Posted by FleshEatingSalsa
Floating down the Anduin
Member since Dec 2009
12327 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:23 pm to
It’s a danger most couples face when they make their children the centerpiece of the family for so many years. The kids grow up and move out, and you’re suddenly looking across the breakfast table at a stranger.

Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
4614 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:25 pm to
How do you know that they’re not happy with the arrangement? Marriage isn’t always butterflies and sugar.
Posted by DollaChoppa
I Simp for ACC
Member since May 2008
84774 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:26 pm to
Do they bang?
Posted by navy
Parts Unknown, LA
Member since Sep 2010
32529 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:28 pm to
This is not unusual.

I guess maybe just be happy that they are still married.
Posted by Rossberg02
Member since Jun 2016
2591 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:30 pm to
That sounds like you were screwed out of double
birthday parties and double Christmas Day presents.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:31 pm to



This post was edited on 11/21/18 at 10:41 pm
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8335 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:33 pm to
quote:

This is not unusual.

I guess maybe just be happy that they are still married.


2 weeks ago my dad was at a meeting. My mom thought it was in NYC. It was in Boston.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76091 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:34 pm to
If this is what you consider "sad" you need to begin preparing yourself for a whole lot more sadness coming down the pipe.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71827 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:35 pm to
quote:


2 weeks ago my dad was at a meeting. My mom thought it was in NYC. It was in Boston.


Why don't you stop snitching on your old man? Maybe he won't call you a pussy for the first time in your life.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:38 pm to
quote:

2 weeks ago my dad was at a meeting. My mom thought it was in NYC. It was in Boston.


That’s it? Your mom got two northeast cities confused when your dad (who I’m presuming travels a bunch) mentioned his trip.
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8335 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:39 pm to
No...it was like “he’s in nyc I think. He didn’t tell me”
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76091 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:39 pm to
quote:

2 weeks ago my dad was at a meeting. My mom thought it was in NYC. It was in Boston.


Serious question, is your mom in the beginning stages of dementia? If caught early, it can be stopped in its tracks.

Since you are home, do this... go through the refrigerator and cabinets after they go to bed and look for expired foods.

#1 early sign of dementia. I'm not talking about one or two items just slightly past expiration.

Please report back with results.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:40 pm to
Eh...I travel a good bit for work and my wife forgets where I am. Miami, Atlanta, Denver... It’s all the same to her.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
127594 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:41 pm to
Welcome to adulthood.

Santa isn’t real either.
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
109161 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:46 pm to
quote:

Santa isn’t real either.



Tha frick?

I hate you now
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8335 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:47 pm to
Nope. It’s more of a roommate situation.
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
102350 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 10:50 pm to
quote:

RedRifle


You throw c-suite in there and then complain?
Posted by reverendotis
the jawbone of an arse
Member since Nov 2007
4988 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 11:01 pm to
quote:

leaves early in the morning and my mom does her own thing. They don’t talk or even


Jesus Christ, that sounds fantastic, what the frick is wrong with you?
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 11/21/18 at 11:12 pm to
It sounds like they have a routine that works for them. Live and let live.
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