re: Tell Me About Your First Girlfriend

We’ve been together since 1997. 27 years together, with a little over 22 years of marriage, two children and a pack of dogs. It hasn’t always been perfect, and I still ask myself what she saw in me almost 3 decades ago, but here we are. I don’t know if it was love at first sight (we knew each long before because me and her brothers were and still are best friends) or it was just always destined to happen.

I never had a first GF

It was in HS. She gave me a hand job. It was great, until one of my friends got his driver’s license early and started taking her home from school. She gave him a handy and that was the end of it.

20+ years later and I’m still losing women to friends…

We met in ninth grade at driver's Ed class. She was kinda pretty but more mature than I was. She cheated on me a few months into it. She's aged well but she married into the lower middle class.

It was going well at agrle 16 and then I got friendzoned. I stayed there stupidly. We drifted apart when I hit college. Reconnected when she hit college. Ghosted each other.

I called her one night randomly after a year or two during exam time and we ended up at cash's in port allen drinking coffee until 9 am. Zero contact for a while. One night she called me out of the blue, and we ended up together for a few years. I cheated on her. She cheated on me. It ended. And then began again. I tossed her to the side when I met my first wife, at the time I took great satisfaction in doing it.

I think about her every now and then. She's married now. Has a few kids. Her husband looks how I used to. She was likely the love of my life. She remains the only woman, hell the only person, I've ever wanted to talk to for more than 20 minutes.

It's been 20 years, I still worry my phone rings one day and it's her.


Edit because it's the OT: in highschool 36 26-38. In college. 36DDD-26-40. She took up running and eating. And it all went to her tits and arse.

Saw her at a fraternity/ sorority event we had in college. Thought she was cute and I've never seen her around before (meaning she wasn't someone that slept with half of the dudes in the fraternity). Asked my buddies girlfriend for her cell number.

Now been together 11 years and have 2 kids

Met in college. Introduced by her high school sweetheart. Married 42 years and I still am crushing on her. Admit I outkicked my coverage, and happily say that.

Met her in sophomore year of high school. Dated until we both went to different colleges. Really nice girl, couldn't think of anything bad to say about her if I tried. She's married with a 2 or 3 kids now. Saw her a year or two ago and she's still very pretty.

High school. Pretty blonde girl. Lost virginity and got a lot of handys. However, she wouldn’t even consider BJ which is why I ultimately broke up with her. I had to go chase life a bit more. Otherwise, I would probably still be with her 30 years later. She’s held up well and married her rebound after me.