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re: Teaching your son to ride a bike without training wheels

Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:12 pm to
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133278 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:12 pm to
quote:

You don't own your son. You don't own anyone. Love more.



You know Otto, you talk a lot of gibberish, but every so often you come with gold.

I’d have a beer with you. You are an interesting bird.
Posted by Chasin The Tiger
Lake Travis, TX
Member since Sep 2012
621 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:13 pm to
Both of my parents died before I turned 19. I feel bad my children won't have grandparents to share these kinds of memories with. Be happy and let it go.
Posted by Michael Hayes
Member since Mar 2014
1391 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:14 pm to
Don't beat yourself up over it. Stuff like that will happen while you're working.

Kids sometimes learn when they feel like it. Taught both of mine to swim before they were 2. But when it came time for the bike, my daughter refused to learn till she was 7. No matter how much I tried to teach her.
Posted by ItzMe1972
Member since Dec 2013
12166 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:15 pm to
I can relate!

I was looking forward to see my daughter solo without the wheels. Get home from work one day, and my wife and neighbor had taken them off. I missed the first time.

That's been 25 years ago and it still bothers me when I think back.

Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
9643 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:15 pm to
You’ll have plenty of opportunities to teach your son new things. Grandpa might not have that many more opportunities.

Stop being a little bitch
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
30025 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:15 pm to
Teach him to ride with clipless pedals. Memory made.
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
49618 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:18 pm to
My wife taught mine. I was on the couch with a beer watching an LSU football game when they came in to tell me. I went and watched him a couple of minutes at halftime.
Posted by BRich
Old Metairie
Member since Aug 2017
2745 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:20 pm to
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As in you actually remember that day and moment? Or you just remember the fact that someone taught you to ride a bike?

If the former, how old were you?

Asking in all seriousness. I’m not trying to be flippant.


Not sure about him, but I remember mine well. But it was a little different experience.

Starkville, MS, 1969. Got a bike for Christmas; had just turned 5 in November. When it warmed up in early 1970, my dad took me outside to try and teach me to balance on the new bike without the training wheels. Typical thing, him holding up the bike, running alongside, trying to gradually let go, etc. We had a couple of afternoon sessions, but I could not maintain balance on the bike.

But there was a reason for that. My parents were rather cheap, and bought me a bike WAY too big for my size, thinking I would "grow into it". I remember the seat, even at its lowest setting, was about the height of my underarms. I could not even get ON the bike unless I had a step stool or some other assistance. My feet didn't reach the pedals, so my dad put wooden blocks over them with a rubber strap.

Me trying to ride that bike was like one of us trying to ride a unicycle for the first time, or maybe one of these:


I eventually taught myself bicycle balance using a neighbor kid's bike that was more smaller and more size-appropriate, and then DID ride that big bike with no further help. Always had to use the retaining wall along the edge of our carport to get up onto the bike and push off, and when dismounting essentially had to "jump off" onto the grass.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
60691 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:21 pm to
I get the pain especially as these are bonding moments between father and son and rites of passage.

If you have another kid, just skip the training wheels in the first place. You should be able to get a kid up on a bike in about 15 - 30 min tops. lots has to do with your voice and commands to your son. It is a lot like working with horses.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53076 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:21 pm to
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You’ll have plenty of opportunities to teach your son new things. Grandpa might not have that many more opportunities.

I spent as much time with my grandparents as I did with my own parents growing up.

My dad is teaching my 12 year old daughter to drive right now. He takes her out to a family property and lets her drive in a field. It's something they both enjoy and get to spend time together. Why would I not want that?
This post was edited on 2/7/19 at 5:22 pm
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
17450 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:22 pm to
You aren’t gonna teach him everything. Do you get mad at his teachers when he learns something new at school?
Posted by baybeefeetz
Member since Sep 2009
32575 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:23 pm to
Learning how to ride a bike is not a big deal at all. You watch too much tv.
Posted by sabanisarustedspoke
Member since Jan 2007
5655 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:24 pm to
Dude, you let your father in law teach your kid how to ride a bike? Sorry sorry sorry. shite, I'd rather have a sister running a whore house than a kid I didn't teach to ride a bike or swim or read or all that shite that people get too lazy to do.
This post was edited on 2/7/19 at 5:25 pm
Posted by herbstreit4
Buckeye Lake
Member since Dec 2007
1714 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:28 pm to
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Am I being ridiculous


Completely ridiculous! I have great memories of my grandparents pushing down their hill to teach me how to ride my bike. I have a lot more memories of my dad teaching me to do a lot of stuff throughout my life
Posted by BRich
Old Metairie
Member since Aug 2017
2745 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:28 pm to
Grandparents teach their kids a lot of good things:

The Hunt for Red October - Final Scene

Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:31 pm to
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The wife and I both work full time and the kids are with their grandparents during the day when not in school.


This is fortunate for you, your wife and your children. Honestly, this is the most important part of your story.

I get being upset, but in the big picture, it's a much smaller thing than you think.

Your son will be thrilled to surprise you by showing you and, if you play it correctly, he'll remember the look on his Daddy's face when he first showed him he could ride with no training wheels. Play it up big. Be proud. Thank the FIL because you're darn lucky to have him spending time with your children.

There will be many firsts. I bet if your FIL taught your kids how to go on the big potty, you wouldn't be sad to miss being there for the first pee or poo!
Posted by 225bred
COYS
Member since Jun 2011
20924 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:34 pm to
Posted by sjak
Member since Oct 2011
96 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:35 pm to
I had problems teaching my kids to ride on sidewalk. Took them into back yard in grass and 10 minutes later they were riding.
Posted by fischd1
Mandeville
Member since Dec 2007
3359 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:37 pm to
Take him to a golf course to learn. Even if he falls no big deal. He lands on soft grass.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
37557 posts
Posted on 2/7/19 at 5:43 pm to
Being ridiculous. And teaching them to ride bikes is a pain in the arse anyway.
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