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Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:17 am
Posted by maxxrajun70
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2011
3726 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:17 am
Anyone else struggle dealing with a blended family? Constant battles with wife because of it. Lately Titos has been my best friend (besides my dog).
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118271 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:18 am to
Any of them have red hair?
Posted by SCOOBA_OLD
Lafayette
Member since Sep 2015
220 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:18 am to
quote:

wife


Pics
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45561 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:19 am to
quote:

Constant battles with wife


Pics?
Posted by mattz1122
Member since Oct 2007
56719 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:19 am to
Thanks for raising my kids for me.
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118271 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:19 am to
Like a pirate in the night,
I challenge your pussy to a fight.
A pussy diddle dooooooo......!
This post was edited on 11/3/15 at 10:21 am
Posted by thegreatboudini
Member since Oct 2008
7289 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:20 am to
I never recommend marrying a woman with prior kids that aren't adults. Not to mention you're paying for another man's problems.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:21 am to
If you marry their mom then they're legally your property and you can beat them all you like. It's s great stress reliever.
Posted by maxxrajun70
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2011
3726 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:21 am to
Your welcome but you could at least send a monthly check.
Posted by SidewalkDawg
Chair
Member since Nov 2012
10308 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:22 am to
quote:

Anyone else struggle dealing with a blended family?


No, but my wife and kids actually like me.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:22 am to
Leave your wife for another woman
Posted by bamarep
Member since Nov 2013
52640 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:23 am to
My 'step kids' are great but don't consider them my "step kids", they are my kids. I just wasn't their biological father. It's all in the approach brah. There needs to be family unity starting with you and your wife. They aren't her kids anymore, they are both of yours and need to be parented that way.

If your wife doesn't love you and believe in you enough to want your input and help in raising the kids the best way you both can it's going to be a hard road.


A unified front (you can disagree behind closed doors because kids will use this to pit one against the other) and communication is the key. Don't be afraid to voice your opinion, but do it in a respectful and loving way.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135043 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:24 am to
I feel for poor chumps who get stuck raising someone else's brood.


Don't get me wrong, single moms are great...but too many of them are looking for a replacement dad.
Posted by Grim
Member since Dec 2013
12489 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:24 am to
My step son used to annoy the shite out of me. So to get back at him I let him think I had money saved up to pay for his college but I never saved a penny lmao. Banged his mom too
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84835 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:24 am to
No, thank goodness. My stepdaughter is 13 and she minds me very well. I've known her all her life and even though I'm hard on her she knows it's because I love her. Her dad is still in her life but she's afraid of him. She won't open up to him like she will to me.

I guess I kind of lucked out.
Posted by bamarep
Member since Nov 2013
52640 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:24 am to
quote:

I never recommend marrying a woman with prior kids that aren't adults. Not to mention you're paying for another man's problems.


Let us know how it feels to be such a fricking coward.
Posted by LSU_Saints_Hornets
Uptown NO,LA
Member since Jan 2013
9739 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:24 am to
quote:

Anyone else struggle dealing with a blended family?



One man's trash is another's man's step child.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99043 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:24 am to
no problems at all


because I'm not raising someone else' kids
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
179931 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:24 am to
quote:

Anyone else struggle dealing with a blended family? Constant battles with wife because of it. Lately Titos has been my best friend (besides my dog).


no credit, all the blame
all the responsibility, no thanks
kids an a-hole, it's your fault somehow
yell at her, its because you don't love her
hold her accountable, its because you don't love her
you ain't gotta xplain shite to me son.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
9011 posts
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:24 am to
Well if you drinking and fighting with the wife about the kids it sounds like you're looking at the wrong problems. You got bigger problems baw.

Biggest problem being you and the wife ain't on the same team. Even if they were biologically yours; if you disagree on how to raise them and fight over it you've got bigger problems.
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