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re: Stepkids
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:24 am to OysterPoBoy
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:24 am to OysterPoBoy
A wiser man than me once told me, “No matter how hot they are, eventually you’re going to get tired of their shite”.
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Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:25 am to bamarep
Thanks.
When I get divorced and find some chick with 5 kids to feed, I will bump this thread.
It's bookmarked for now.
When I get divorced and find some chick with 5 kids to feed, I will bump this thread.
It's bookmarked for now.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:25 am to maxxrajun70
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Member since Oct 2011
6 posts
With all 6 posts in the last few days. Wow, you sat on that alter for 4 years.
And this post will probably be anchored pretty soon due to the crappy title.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:26 am to bamarep
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Let us know how it feels to be such a fricking coward.
Haha, so not going the whole "broken family" route is cowardly, eh?
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:27 am to maxxrajun70
this is the issue with taking on other's peoples problems. the kids man. the kids.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:27 am to bamarep
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Let us know how it feels to be such a fricking coward.
I'm watching the price is right and drinking a Bloody Mary, and I'm the coward? You've got it wrong, step dad.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:27 am to maxxrajun70
You didn't know what you were getting yourself in before marrying her?
Be an adult and talk to her. She might be going through the fear of the marriage failing but she's too afraid to mention it.
By now you should know that to understand a woman you need the enigma. Nothing is straight forward.
Be an adult and talk to her. She might be going through the fear of the marriage failing but she's too afraid to mention it.
By now you should know that to understand a woman you need the enigma. Nothing is straight forward.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:30 am to Dorothy
Your username is Dorothy. Find your sac brawh.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:30 am to maxxrajun70
It's been a great experience for me, though they have a really good father, so there is no financial burdens at all. Split time up, and alternate weekends, so they aren't there everyday, so we get a lot of alone time.
They are great kids, and I like having them around and doing the school activities with them. I've gotten really good at common core math too.
They are great kids, and I like having them around and doing the school activities with them. I've gotten really good at common core math too.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:35 am to maxxrajun70
My step kids love me and I love them. Never do I introduce them or even refer to them as my step children. they are my children. I love them as much as I love my own biological daughter and they love me like I'm their biological dad. The ole lady and I argue sometimes about how I treat the son, because I'm trying to raise him up not to be a gigantic pussy(he was in a house full of women and never really interacted with any male figures.). So I toughen him up. Before me, he wouldn't even go outside barefoot, now you can't keep him in a pair of shoes lol
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:35 am to fr33manator
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I feel for poor chumps who get stuck raising someone else's brood
Why? At least there's a man/father figure/stepdad in their lives.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:35 am to maxxrajun70
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Anyone else struggle dealing with a blended family? Constant battles with wife because of it.
Are you my alter?
Sounds just like me. This has been an ongoing issue that has contributed to some really rough times. Would love to know how to get passed this shite.
I think the biggest issue is the father is not involved and our boys are the same age.
This post was edited on 11/3/15 at 10:37 am
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:36 am to Napoleon
quote:Do you let your step kids call you dad or by your first name? I dont know if I could let them call me by my first name. That shite wouldn't fly well with me.
Napoleon
Anybody else let their step kids call them by their first name?
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:36 am to NoFlexZone
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Anybody else let their step kids call them by their first name?
No. Mr. First Name
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:41 am to bamarep
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Let us know how it feels to be such a fricking coward.
Wow. Because not wanting to raise kids that aren't your own is cowardice?
It's nature. You know what many animals do with the young offspring of a new mate?
They eat them.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:41 am to maxxrajun70
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A wiser man than me once told me, “No matter how hot they are, eventually you’re going to get tired of their shite”.
You must be stupid, because the "wiser" guy fricked up that quote big time.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:48 am to Wtodd
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Why? At least there's a man/father figure/stepdad in their lives.
True. Didn't say I didn't respect them. It's just not an optimal situation.
Almost commendable if it's done with good intentions. But if some dude gets roped in by the poontang and then is supposed to pay for and raise kids that arent his...
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:49 am to guedeaux
Actually it makes damn good sense.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:54 am to Leonard Threenette
Father is not involved here either. That creates all kind of "scorekeeping" issues.
Posted on 11/3/15 at 10:57 am to maxxrajun70
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Father is not involved here either. That creates all kind of "scorekeeping" issues.
Yep. When that happens I get pissed. My relationship with my son is and always will be different. If you fight me on that and make it difficult when I do have him....shite hits the fan. Every fricking time.
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